Can You Be Friend With Your X And Be With His Friend?

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Can you be friend with your X and be with his friend? Aug 29, 2006
Can you be friend with your X and have a relation with one of his friends?

could you stay frinds?

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Aug 29, 2006
Only if your doing his dad and brother also.
If your going to screw your ex....might as well go all out.
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Aug 29, 2006
i am still friends with my first ex.... its all cool 8)
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I don’t believe in friendship after break up.
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that was when i was in school. we mutually broke off because we had more important things to do.
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Aug 29, 2006
mraph33 wrote:Only if your doing his dad and brother also.
If your going to screw your ex....might as well go all out.


:lol: :lol: :lol:

Piss funny.
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Aug 29, 2006
Hello Hiya or is that Alina?
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I am still friend with one of my ex if the person is nice why not ?
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Aug 30, 2006
sara_uk wrote:I don’t believe in friendship after break up.


i agree with you sara and i think it's impossible.

if my ex comes near me, im gonna call the police! (dont ask me why)
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Re: Can you be friend with your X and be with his friend? Aug 30, 2006
69 B 11 J wrote:Can you be friend with your X and have a relation with one of his friends?

could you stay frinds?

yes & yes Normale
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Chocoholic wrote:Hello Hiya or is that Alina?


stop fukin talkin about me
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Aug 30, 2006
I saw something like this thread a week back and I believe there's more before....try to dig it, you might learn something... :wink:

same same same same .......zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz......blagggg :oops:
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Re: Can you be friend with your X and be with his friend? Aug 30, 2006
Corcovado wrote:
69 B 11 J wrote:Can you be friend with your X and have a relation with one of his friends?

could you stay frinds?

yes & yes Normale


yes & yes Normale???

After how long?

Is it entirely normal to be holding your boyfriend and talking to your X who is his friend? knowing that he is going to make love to you in minute when you leave :oops:

Some people take it easy, some would be thinking this is the lady who I made love to just last week/month is going to make love to my friend now.
If they were close friends, wouldn’t he ask his friend how was she in bed?
thats very bad, but some people do :(
I know this case varies from a person to another, but it could be very awkward, specially if the relation doesn’t work and the lady or the guy dates another friend
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Chocoholic wrote:Hello Hiya or is that Alina?

I think Hiya made clones of herself !! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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depends how your relationship ended. If it ended because of different personality and both of you realise that it won't work out, then YES. If your relationship ended because of a third person involve, then NO <--for sure.

I still talk to my ex coz we ended our relationship because of we have different interests in life, he wanted to stay in Australia, and I wanted to go else where.
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Aug 30, 2006
It is only possible to stay friends with an ex that you never really had strong feelings for in the first place because you know for sure that your emotions wouldn't get in the way again.

On the other hand, if you were in love with your ex and did have strong feelings for him/her, then it's never a good idea to be friends with him/her. You would only end up hurting yourself more, your emotions would be all over the place and you'd probably end up arguing all the time. Consequently, it wouldn't be a healthy friendship.
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Re: Can you be friend with your X and be with his friend? Aug 31, 2006
69 B 11 J wrote:If they were close friends, wouldn’t he ask his friend how was she in bed?
thats very bad, but some people do :(


Close friends or not people's personal lives are private to themselves. What would drive a friend to know such a thing?
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Aug 31, 2006
I have a question for all you wonderful people

If you were in a relationship and then your Ex cheats on you, would you/your ex maintain a healthy relationship?
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Aug 31, 2006
i dont think i can....thats my answer
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FeiPo wrote:depends how your relationship ended. If it ended because of different personality and both of you realise that it won't work out, then YES. If your relationship ended because of a third person involve, then NO <--for sure.

I still talk to my ex coz we ended our relationship because of we have different interests in life, he wanted to stay in Australia, and I wanted to go else where.


i agree with u , it depends on the situation ,like if u and ur ex weren't in love and u dated for a short time and u decided its not working between u 2 then why not date his /her friend if u have much more in common and u enjoy each others company? why would u want to waste this opportunity ?
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Bleakus wrote:I have a question for all you wonderful people

If you were in a relationship and then your Ex cheats on you, would you/your ex maintain a healthy relationship?


If a person is already your ex then how are they cheating on you?
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XRW-147 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:I have a question for all you wonderful people

If you were in a relationship and then your Ex cheats on you, would you/your ex maintain a healthy relationship?


If a person is already your ex then how are they cheating on you?


i said it wrong

If you were in a relationship with this girl/guy and they cheat on you when you are still in that relationship, would you still forgive them and be their friend?
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Bleakus wrote:i said it wrong

If you were in a relationship with this girl/guy and they cheat on you when you are still in that relationship, would you still forgive them and be their friend?


Yah, I figured that much.

I have on both counts.
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Bleakus wrote:
XRW-147 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:I have a question for all you wonderful people

If you were in a relationship and then your Ex cheats on you, would you/your ex maintain a healthy relationship?


If a person is already your ex then how are they cheating on you?


i said it wrong

If you were in a relationship with this girl/guy and they cheat on you when you are still in that relationship, would you still forgive them and be their friend?


if my ex cheats then why on earth would i want to keep him in my life ? as as friend or bf?? :shock: :shock: if he is a cheater i will show him out the door and tell him to Back Off
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Sep 01, 2006
over 5 billion people on the planet .... step out of the circle and date elsewhere!!
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ajb wrote:over 5 billion people on the planet .... step out of the circle and date elsewhere!!


Exactly. I never understood why people date their way through a small social circle. It just makes for bad feelings, awkwardness and sometimes all out conflict in the end.
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Sep 01, 2006
Corcovado wrote:
Bleakus wrote:
XRW-147 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:I have a question for all you wonderful people

If you were in a relationship and then your Ex cheats on you, would you/your ex maintain a healthy relationship?


If a person is already your ex then how are they cheating on you?


i said it wrong

If you were in a relationship with this girl/guy and they cheat on you when you are still in that relationship, would you still forgive them and be their friend?


if my ex cheats then why on earth would i want to keep him in my life ? as as friend or bf?? :shock: :shock: if he is a cheater i will show him out the door and tell him to Back Off


Thank you dude
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Sep 01, 2006
Bleakus wrote:
Corcovado wrote:
Bleakus wrote:
XRW-147 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:I have a question for all you wonderful people

If you were in a relationship and then your Ex cheats on you, would you/your ex maintain a healthy relationship?


If a person is already your ex then how are they cheating on you?


i said it wrong

If you were in a relationship with this girl/guy and they cheat on you when you are still in that relationship, would you still forgive them and be their friend?


if my ex cheats then why on earth would i want to keep him in my life ? as as friend or bf?? :shock: :shock: if he is a cheater i will show him out the door and tell him to Back Off


Thank you dude



Dude? :lol: :lol:
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Nick81 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:
Corcovado wrote:
Bleakus wrote:
XRW-147 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:I have a question for all you wonderful people

If you were in a relationship and then your Ex cheats on you, would you/your ex maintain a healthy relationship?


If a person is already your ex then how are they cheating on you?


i said it wrong

If you were in a relationship with this girl/guy and they cheat on you when you are still in that relationship, would you still forgive them and be their friend?


if my ex cheats then why on earth would i want to keep him in my life ? as as friend or bf?? :shock: :shock: if he is a cheater i will show him out the door and tell him to Back Off


Thank you dude



Dude? :lol: :lol:


it means friend
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Sep 01, 2006
weary_heart wrote:
sara_uk wrote:I don’t believe in friendship after break up.


i agree with you sara and i think it's impossible.

if my ex comes near me, im gonna call the police! (dont ask me why)


I know exactly what you are saying, however I have the experience of both a good & a bad break up.
So I think is is possible to be friends but it takes a lot of understanding.
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