Princess Banana Hammock wrote:My best friend in the UK is a guy. Been my best friend for 5 years. We did everything together, go out for dinner, meet each others parents, go on holidays, go out for a night... everything. I even saw him naked (it wasn't a fun thing) and it didn't bother either of us. All my other friends thought we were dating, but nothing ever happened. Sometimes I questioned why not as he is such a great guy and treats me so well but then I cringe and think ewwwwwwwww!!!
I love being good friends with boys and the way that even though you're single, you're still made to feel loved through affection like cuddles and arm stroking because if one of my girlfriends hugged me like one of my male buddies or stroked my arm in such a way, I'd be freaked out! Actually, why is that?
Now I can understand if a guy and guy cuddle or hug eachother often.. well you have whats called "gay men" or really weird and ewwwww..
When girls cuddle and hug.. I dunno.. guys.. correct me if i'm wrong but isn't that a beautoful thing?
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ok ok.. just kidding..
most girls are comfortable talking to a guy friend rather than their girl friend.. thats probably because a guy can listen and be less opinionated that a girl.. but then again.. like I said before.. a girl and guy just can't be friends.. at some point he has pictured her naked.. or had ideas.. or vice versa.. unless he's gay in which case you have a true friend and a shopping partner.