Well we cannot control break ups...they just happen right...sometimes when you least expect it...
But if you have a choice how you want your partner to end the relationship...
Lets base it from these two song...
1. Baby, Don't You Break My Heart Slow
-- Just for him/her to tell it right away..
the song says---
But I'd rather you be mean than love and lie
I'd rather hear the truth and have to say goodbye
I'd rather take a blow at least then I would know
But baby don't you break my heart slow
2. Break it to me Gently
-- For him/her to give you a little time to accept it--
--the song says--
Break it to me gently, let me down the easy way;
make me feel that you still love me
if it's just, if it's just for one more day.
Break it to me gently, so my tears, my tears
won't fall in vain.
If you must go, then go slowly,
let me love til the last.