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hi why cant i find the right match Aug 03, 2006
it has always been a problem the moment to you get to know somebody really well it is never the same why????

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sandeep wrote:it has always been a problem the moment to you get to know somebody really well it is never the same why????


Maybe cos your looking on this forum rather than a dating website??
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sandeep wrote:it has always been a problem the moment to you get to know somebody really well it is never the same why????


Maybe cos your looking on this forum rather than a dating website??


Maybe because you're spending too much time on the computer?
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Maybe u dont know the person reallywell afterall
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Maybe because you still dont know how it works. You dont have to find it, or wait for it. You just have to believe...it will happen....

:lol: oh my God did I really wrote that line?
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oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring. and sad, cos it means too many ppl are lonely and dont have a clue how to change that.

well if u live a whole life without any long term happy relationship, than its probably cos ur karma would be to focus on ur career or analyze a bit urself and see what ur doing wrong.
if ur young and havent found love yet, dont jump of the bridge just yet, u have plenty of time and most probably a lot to learn before the right one shows up.

Smtimes laughing at ourselves helps a lot more than whining and crying about how miserable we feel.
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring. and sad, cos it means too many ppl are lonely and dont have a clue how to change that.

well if u live a whole life without any long term happy relationship, than its probably cos ur karma would be to focus on ur career or analyze a bit urself and see what ur doing wrong.
if ur young and havent found love yet, dont jump of the bridge just yet, u have plenty of time and most probably a lot to learn before the right one shows up.

Smtimes laughing at ourselves helps a lot more than whining and crying about how miserable we feel.


bravo!!...well said raidah...now all ya woefuls...stop looking and get a hobby...
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Have a bat and make sure u wipe the keyboard after, all ur problems will soon be relieved.
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constantine wrote:bravo!!...well said raidah...now all ya woefuls...stop looking and get a hobby...


??? I hope that wasn't directed at me.
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if you can find the right match try a lighter
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I-No-Jack...you really are something.... :lol:
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constantine wrote:bravo!!...well said raidah...now all ya woefuls...stop looking and get a hobby...


??? I hope that wasn't directed at me.


not at all mate... :wink:
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sandeep wrote:it has always been a problem the moment to you get to know somebody really well it is never the same why????


Maybe its because your expectations of a woman are too high. When faced with a situation where you are critical of your partner...take a good look at yourself.

It normally is sufficient to jolt you back into reality.
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sandeep wrote:it has always been a problem the moment to you get to know somebody really well it is never the same why????


Maybe its because your expectations of a woman are too high. When faced with a situation where you are critical of your partner...take a good look at yourself.

It normally is sufficient to jolt you back into reality.


the subject of this thread is silly and a repeat (as mentioned by others) but your reply is right on!
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sandeep wrote:it has always been a problem the moment to you get to know somebody really well it is never the same why????


The technology has changed the ways things work. When Kenelli and GAB were young , they used to send letter with the help of pigen.

when i was young , we used to send the letter through "Pakistan Postal Service".

Now a days kids use MSN 7.5 Beta version and e-mail to communicate . Girls put their pictures on Hi5 and become happy when someone pass some cheap comments on their hips :wink: .

Technology facilitate but it doesnt create the real love. It made everything artifical.


Now toward the question " why can i not find right match". The reason is obvious because u r from India :P
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring. and sad, cos it means too many ppl are lonely and dont have a clue how to change that.

well if u live a whole life without any long term happy relationship, than its probably cos ur karma would be to focus on ur career or analyze a bit urself and see what ur doing wrong.
if ur young and havent found love yet, dont jump of the bridge just yet, u have plenty of time and most probably a lot to learn before the right one shows up.

Smtimes laughing at ourselves helps a lot more than whining and crying about how miserable we feel.


Thanks raidah for saving me the hassle of writing this all down. If we spent half as much time contributing to helping the poor, sick, needy etc as people do feeling sorry for themselves maybe the world would be a better place!
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring...


heheh, I aint looking either!
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring...


heheh, I aint looking either!


sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:
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raidah wrote:sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:


no sweety, I am single & happy. My post wast not a problem which I needed help to 'deal' with, it was a poll to see how many of us think like me..for the "I am weird" feeling to go away :P
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring...


heheh, I aint looking either!


sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:


:notworthy: to raidah the wise!
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raidah wrote:sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:


no sweety, I am single & happy. My post wast not a problem which I needed help to 'deal' with, it was a poll to see how many of us think like me..for the "I am weird" feeling to go away :P


she is single and happy :D i guess she is le.s.b.o
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easternjewel wrote:
raidah wrote:sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:


no sweety, I am single & happy. My post wast not a problem which I needed help to 'deal' with, it was a poll to see how many of us think like me..for the "I am weird" feeling to go away :P


she is single and happy :D i guess she is le.s.b.o


she is not lesbo , she is my sweetheart :oops:
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easternjewel wrote:
raidah wrote:sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:


no sweety, I am single & happy. My post wast not a problem which I needed help to 'deal' with, it was a poll to see how many of us think like me..for the "I am weird" feeling to go away :P


she is single and happy :D i guess she is le.s.b.o


not funny ..
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gLoBalTeCh wrote:she is single and happy :D i guess she is le.s.b.o


do not come to conclusions about someone you dont know just because your "unlucky" in love (that thread sucked)
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gLoBalTeCh wrote:she is single and happy :D i guess she is le.s.b.o


do not come to conclusions about someone you dont know just because your "unlucky" in love (that thread sucked)


areeee jal gaya....shsshshshsshshhs
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easternjewel wrote:
raidah wrote:sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:


no sweety, I am single & happy. My post wast not a problem which I needed help to 'deal' with, it was a poll to see how many of us think like me..for the "I am weird" feeling to go away :P


she is single and happy :D i guess she is le.s.b.o


what a silly attitude...just cos women at a certain point dont want anything serious, does not make them lesbian
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raidah wrote:
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring...


heheh, I aint looking either!


sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:


:notworthy: to raidah the wise!


:P
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raidah wrote:
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring...


heheh, I aint looking either!


sure u r, just dont know it yet :wink:


:notworthy: to raidah the wise!



That's my bunny! :love4:
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring...


heheh, I aint looking either!


Shucks EJ..you missed my brilliant reply :( :(
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raidah wrote:oh man, this is exasperating me. all the time the same damn topic: right match, unlucky in love, commitment or lack of it, how one should date, why do relationships end or why dont they start...boooring...


heheh, I aint looking either!


Shucks EJ..you missed my brilliant reply :( :(


My indian mate ,

U r getting frank wid E.J :roll: U can talk to pretty penny (full Paki) or alina (half paki half arabic). Cross relationships can help to build the strong relationship between Indo-Pak :roll:
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