Why do break-ups hurt so much? Especially for the girls!
I mean how come men just get back on with it and carry on, where as we end up feeling like the heart has been ripped from the chest and stamped on.
These feelings suck.
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Chocoholic wrote:Why do break-ups hurt so much? Especially for the girls!
I mean how come men just get back on with it and carry on, where as we end up feeling like the heart has been ripped from the chest and stamped on.
These feelings suck.
^ian^ wrote:Don't think guys aren't affected by breakups, we most certainly are.
XRW-147 wrote:^ian^ wrote:Don't think guys aren't affected by breakups, we most certainly are.
Ditto Ian. Emotional barriers might be higher or (seemingly) stronger than a girl but when they come down we hurt just as badly - we're humans too!
^ian^ wrote:Yeah I usually just drink myself into a stupour for a few days, but finding it hard to do that these days. Investing 2 years of your life into a relationship only to see it fall apart is truly heartbreaking, especially when one isn't getting any younger.
XRW-147 wrote:^ian^ wrote:Yeah I usually just drink myself into a stupour for a few days, but finding it hard to do that these days. Investing 2 years of your life into a relationship only to see it fall apart is truly heartbreaking, especially when one isn't getting any younger.
Yah, been there, done that. Just remember alcohol (or drugs) are never the answer... time heals all and life goes on!
MaaaD wrote:Because men never get as emotionally involved as the women. So it keeps things easy to move on. I am positive if a guy got emotionally involved in a relationship (rare) he would have the same feelings you described.
Is everything alright Chocs ?