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yorky500 wrote:It really depends on the two people involved and how long you have known eachother. If you have not met them for long before you come out, it is very hard as there is no "strong bond" between you.
If you have been together for a while, then you should be OK, but there are a lot of temptations here in Dubai.
Also, it's not easy being here when things happen as you have no one to talk to face to face. Over the phone is OK, but it's not the same.
Good luck whichever way it goes.
Why not make a nutral agreement, like while your away you'll be friends, then if time comes that you get together and you still feel the same way and both off you are still single, then you can get back together.
sweet mary wrote:
still i wanna play dumb, lemme ask this question. thinking of those hundred of married peeps having undefined realtionship, those guys and gurls cheating with their partners(bfs/gfs) back home and the broken relationship and promises.... how difficult is it to resist temptation here?
And the hardest part of it is, starting anew, getting to know, starting from scratch, adjustment stage. Not again! Its like you have a set of expectations outlined for the next guy and if he can't comply, you're gonna end up heartbroken.
An important reason I visit this forum is to read your one liners!! .
sweet mary wrote:And the hardest part of it is, starting anew, getting to know, starting from scratch, adjustment stage. Not again! Its like you have a set of expectations outlined for the next guy and if he can't comply, you're gonna end up heartbroken.
would that mean, on your experience there's no third party involved? how come you gave up just cuz of the distance, where you know from the start that working abroad will mean thousand of miles away? So how about the love for 6++ years?!