Choco
What is wrong with woman cooking and taking care of the house, while man go to work to provide for the house?
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Lionheart wrote:Choco
What is wrong with woman cooking and taking care of the house, while man go to work to provide for the house?
Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.
I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...
Chocoholic wrote:Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.
I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...
Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.
Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.
I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!
Chocoholic wrote:Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.
I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...
Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.
Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.
I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!
Chocoholic wrote:Well lets face it Lionheart hardly comes across as a manly man now does he - woosy!
Lionheart wrote:Chocoholic wrote:Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.
I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...
Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.
Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.
I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!
Choco.. I think femenist like you will demand your husband to birth next time.."like that movie junior".
News Flash every man loves his mother more than anyone...off course you want your wife to resemble in attitude, behavior your mother.
PrettyPenny wrote:Lionheart wrote:Chocoholic wrote:Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.
I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...
Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.
Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.
I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!
Choco.. I think femenist like you will demand your husband to birth next time.."like that movie junior".
News Flash every man loves his mother more than anyone...off course you want your wife to resemble in attitude, behavior your mother.
This is truly bizarre .... I love my father to bits but I wudn't want to marry someone who resembles him .... maybe because I have a mind of my own .... and I know that with my lover, partner, best friend I'd want a different relationship
thorntonashley wrote:I can see now why people may be reluctant to make posts....
Can i ask you a question chocs, that is NOT intended to upset you....what do you do for a living...?
I bet you were on the debating team at school! lol
Chocoholic wrote:There's something really creepy about wanting a husband or wife who's like you parents, it's actually kinda gross.
Yes I am a bit of a feminist, but I like my men to be men, with a gentle side too of course, but I can't stand blokes which won't stand up for themselves and get stuck in with stuff or help out, that's just wrong.
Chocoholic wrote:thorntonashley wrote:I can see now why people may be reluctant to make posts....
Can i ask you a question chocs, that is NOT intended to upset you....what do you do for a living...?
I bet you were on the debating team at school! lol
Not telling! And no actually, I;m making up for lost time being the timid quiet one who always sat at the back and never said a word.
Chocoholic wrote:In that case please keep it to yourself for obvious reasons.
Chocoholic wrote:Wrong again! Try telling that to some tribes around the world where the women are and have always been the hunter gatherers.
You're such a chauvanist!
I don't wait on any man! It's an equal partnership, or did you forget that point.
Plus I have no intention of ever having children, no thanks! Certainly wouldn't want to bring any into this messed up world.
xibit wrote:Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????
-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....
** Marriage means:-
- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!
- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!
- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!
- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.
- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.
I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!
I never thought about marriage, but now that u r mentioning these points i think we should keep all of this stuff in mind be4 marrying
DaveDXB wrote:Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????
-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....
** Marriage means:-
- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!
- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!
- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!
- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.
- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.
I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!
you sound exactly liek the ideal girl i hope to meet....
before i say "will you marry" would you consider etc etc PM me
PrettyPenny wrote:Sara1983 wrote:PrettyPenny wrote:Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me:
1) No more ME time
2) No privacy
3) More responsibility
4) In-Laws
5) Less romance/More Work
"Single and LOVING it!"
oh yeah u said uh huh single dude... lovin it, I understand your point there!!!!!!
u just haven't met the right girl yet
the one that'll make u change all of your goals
I am female Sara ... and straight
Corcovado wrote:Sara1983 wrote:Liban wrote:For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience):
1) Home cooked meals
2) Clean villa
3) Pressed clothes
4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you
5) Drinks on demand
6) Extra income
oowww good to know what Liban thinks!!
i wonder if Ms. Liban Knows how he thinks ???
Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????
-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....
** Marriage means:-
- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!
- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!
Honestly...you are such a boring gal.... Please dont keep on writing non sense topic in this forum..FOR GOD SAKE MY DARLING!!!!!!
- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!
- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.
- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.
I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!
Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????
-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....
** Marriage means:-
- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!
- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!
- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!
- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.
- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.
I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!