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Lionheart · Jun 20, 2006

Choco

What is wrong with woman cooking and taking care of the house, while man go to work to provide for the house?

Moester · Jun 20, 2006

well this is going to get interesting

Chocoholic · Jun 20, 2006

Lionheart wrote:Choco

What is wrong with woman cooking and taking care of the house, while man go to work to provide for the house?

In this day and age men should take equal responsibility for such things. Why should the woman be expected to work the entire day then come home and do all the housework and cooking as well? Where's your contribution?

FYI, my father does all the cooking in our house! And he's bloody good at it! As does my brother and my boyfriend, they are new age men who know it's important to take equal responsibility.

Also I can tell you of many men that are stay at home husbands, the wife goes off to work, the guy takes care of the kids etc.

Live in the now dude - not in the stone age! Men like you don't deserve to find a good woman and with an attitude like that - you won't!

Liban · Jun 20, 2006

I like to cook. I take pleasure in seeing a smile on my wife's face after she has a good meal prepared by myself...

Then I order her to wash the dishes... :twisted:

OK, j/k we have a dishwasher...

Lionheart · Jun 20, 2006

Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.

I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...

raidah · Jun 20, 2006

nice to see that by the 3rd page ppl softened a little bit and started to write real things.

ive been for too long a very much so new age woman. never conceived doing smthing for a man that could be qualified as serving/attending him.

after we met, somehow it just became the most normal thing that i would cook for him, clean up after him, etc. and guess what, he tells me "go clean the table and worry about the small work. the rest leave it to me. i dont want u to burn urself or broke ur nails"

i guess these kind of things make a relationship or marriage worth it.

Chocoholic · Jun 20, 2006

Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.

I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...

Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.

Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.

I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!

Nick81 · Jun 20, 2006

Chocoholic wrote:
Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.

I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...

Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.

Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.

I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!

whoas!

Chocoholic · Jun 20, 2006

Well lets face it Lionheart hardly comes across as a manly man now does he - woosy!

thorntonashley · Jun 20, 2006

I can see now why people may be reluctant to make posts....

Can i ask you a question chocs, that is NOT intended to upset you....what do you do for a living...?

I bet you were on the debating team at school! lol

Lionheart · Jun 20, 2006

Chocoholic wrote:
Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.

I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...

Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.

Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.

I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!

Choco.. I think femenist like you will demand your husband to birth next time.."like that movie junior".

News Flash every man loves his mother more than anyone...off course you want your wife to resemble in attitude, behavior your mother.

Lionheart · Jun 20, 2006

Chocoholic wrote:Well lets face it Lionheart hardly comes across as a manly man now does he - woosy!

Again I take it as complement..I mean not everyday will you see a femenist calling a man wuzzy... :lol:

PrettyPenny · Jun 20, 2006

Lionheart wrote:
Chocoholic wrote:
Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.

I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...

Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.

Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.

I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!

Choco.. I think femenist like you will demand your husband to birth next time.."like that movie junior".

News Flash every man loves his mother more than anyone...off course you want your wife to resemble in attitude, behavior your mother.

This is truly bizarre .... I love my father to bits but I wudn't want to marry someone who resembles him .... maybe because I have a mind of my own .... and I know that with my lover, partner, best friend I'd want a different relationship

Lionheart · Jun 20, 2006

PrettyPenny wrote:
Lionheart wrote:
Chocoholic wrote:
Lionheart wrote:Like I said if my wife wants to work than I won't stop her from working,but at the same time I would prefer my wife to stay home and take care of the children, because that is how I was raised and that is our culture. A father can never raise children as good as mother.

I would love to cook for my wife..but unfortunately I only know how to cook rise, basta, beans and Eggs...

Who cares about how you were raised? You have your own mind don't you? Go and take some cookery lessons or at least buy a book and learn how to make some proper food, it's hardly brain surgery.

Your attitude is just lazy! Plus what a load of crap that mothers raise children better, look at all the single fathers out there single handedly rasing their children. Do you see them whining and complaining.

I think you just can't be bothered, you want a girlfriend or wife to be like your mummy and take care of you - well here's a NEWS FLASH no girl likes a mummy's boy!

Choco.. I think femenist like you will demand your husband to birth next time.."like that movie junior".

News Flash every man loves his mother more than anyone...off course you want your wife to resemble in attitude, behavior your mother.

This is truly bizarre .... I love my father to bits but I wudn't want to marry someone who resembles him .... maybe because I have a mind of my own .... and I know that with my lover, partner, best friend I'd want a different relationship

Why is bizarre to marry someone who resemblace your mom in attitude and behavior....

A64Venice · Jun 21, 2006

Please let me watch the eng game! :evil:

Chocoholic · Jun 21, 2006

thorntonashley wrote:I can see now why people may be reluctant to make posts....

Can i ask you a question chocs, that is NOT intended to upset you....what do you do for a living...?

I bet you were on the debating team at school! lol

Not telling! And no actually, I;m making up for lost time being the timid quiet one who always sat at the back and never said a word.

Chocoholic · Jun 21, 2006

There's something really creepy about wanting a husband or wife who's like you parents, it's actually kinda gross.

Yes I am a bit of a feminist, but I like my men to be men, with a gentle side too of course, but I can't stand blokes which won't stand up for themselves and get stuck in with stuff or help out, that's just wrong.

Lionheart · Jun 21, 2006

Chocoholic wrote:There's something really creepy about wanting a husband or wife who's like you parents, it's actually kinda gross.

Yes I am a bit of a feminist, but I like my men to be men, with a gentle side too of course, but I can't stand blokes which won't stand up for themselves and get stuck in with stuff or help out, that's just wrong.

If you want man to be man than let your man work and bring home the money while you take care of the children.. afterall that is how it has always been..man going of to work, war, hunting and woman taking care of the children and the home... :lol:

Choco I think the perfect match for you would be a bedouin Arab...

Chocoholic · Jun 21, 2006

Wrong again! Try telling that to some tribes around the world where the women are and have always been the hunter gatherers.

You're such a chauvanist!

I don't wait on any man! It's an equal partnership, or did you forget that point.

Plus I have no intention of ever having children, no thanks! Certainly wouldn't want to bring any into this messed up world.

thorntonashley · Jun 21, 2006

Chocoholic wrote:
thorntonashley wrote:I can see now why people may be reluctant to make posts....

Can i ask you a question chocs, that is NOT intended to upset you....what do you do for a living...?

I bet you were on the debating team at school! lol

Not telling! And no actually, I;m making up for lost time being the timid quiet one who always sat at the back and never said a word.

I think i know now anyway...... educated guess and all!

Chocoholic · Jun 21, 2006

In that case please keep it to yourself for obvious reasons.

thorntonashley · Jun 21, 2006

Chocoholic wrote:In that case please keep it to yourself for obvious reasons.

Naturally !

Nick81 · Jun 21, 2006

Chocoholic wrote:Wrong again! Try telling that to some tribes around the world where the women are and have always been the hunter gatherers.

You're such a chauvanist!

I don't wait on any man! It's an equal partnership, or did you forget that point.

Plus I have no intention of ever having children, no thanks! Certainly wouldn't want to bring any into this messed up world.

this is just sad... Good thing not everyone share your viewpoint on life or we'd be extinct!
It's very easy to just turn your back on what's happening in the world and give up. Just please, do tell me what you experienced in life to have this attitude? Where are you from?

MaaaD · Jun 21, 2006

I agree with Nick, if the mum's of all the great people who came to this world and created positive change thought like you.. we would be either extinct, or still living in caves.

Sara1983 · Jun 21, 2006

xibit wrote:
Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????

-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....

** Marriage means:-

- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!

- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!

- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!

- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.

- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.

I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

I never thought about marriage, but now that u r mentioning these points i think we should keep all of this stuff in mind be4 marrying

Oooo good hope that was a USEFUL info for ya there

Sara1983 · Jun 21, 2006

DaveDXB wrote:
Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????

-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....

** Marriage means:-

- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!

- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!

- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!

- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.

- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.

I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

you sound exactly liek the ideal girl i hope to meet....
before i say "will you marry" would you consider etc etc PM me

-laughs- dude "I'm not easy"

& I WARN ya I'm crazy

Sara1983 · Jun 21, 2006

PrettyPenny wrote:
Sara1983 wrote:
PrettyPenny wrote:Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me:

1) No more ME time
2) No privacy
3) More responsibility
4) In-Laws
5) Less romance/More Work

"Single and LOVING it!"

oh yeah u said uh huh single dude... lovin it, I understand your point there!!!!!!
u just haven't met the right girl yet

the one that'll make u change all of your goals

I am female Sara ... and straight

awwwww excuse my ignorance.... baby girl :lol:

Sara1983 · Jun 21, 2006

Corcovado wrote:
Sara1983 wrote:
Liban wrote:For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience):

1) Home cooked meals
2) Clean villa
3) Pressed clothes
4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you
5) Drinks on demand
6) Extra income

oowww good to know what Liban thinks!!

i wonder if Ms. Liban Knows how he thinks ???

awww God lol He be in hell :lol:

janet67 · Jun 21, 2006

Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????

-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....

** Marriage means:-

- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!

- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!

Honestly...you are such a boring gal.... Please dont keep on writing non sense topic in this forum..FOR GOD SAKE MY DARLING!!!!!!

- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!

- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.

- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.

I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

janet67 · Jun 21, 2006

Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????

-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....

** Marriage means:-

- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!

- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!

- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!

- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.

- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.

I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

Honestly...you are such a boring gal.... Please dont keep on writing non sense topic in this forum..FOR GOD SAKE MY DARLING!!!!!!

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