I need a little objective insight on my latest dilemma.
I have a massive crush on someone at my office. This would not be too terrible aside from the fact that he's actually at a relatively senior level.
Now, he's extremely professional and I'm quite sure has no clue that I think he's absolutely divine. He IS single!
We've connected from the day we met. We will have hour long conversations about specific projects I'm working on with/for him. And he will always ask me about me. How I'm doing this week, about my family, etc. We've had a very similar upbringing though his was about 8 years before mine!
Where as all his peers are lovely people to work with too, he takes a personal interest.
Basically we connect. But I'm very wary of office romances and absolutely refuse to show any interest.
But should I? And if so, then how? There must be a way to determine if the feeling is mutual? We have an excellent working relationship and we really enjoy working together cause we have an easy chemistry.
What do you think?