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Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????

-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....

** Marriage means:-

- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!

- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!

- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!

- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.

- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.

I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

Guys I think Hiya changed nicknames!

hahahahaha

Liban wrote:Guys I think Hiya changed nicknames!

good I got clarification....

Liban wrote:Guys I think Hiya changed nicknames!

Come on Liban, you of all recently married (jailed) people should be able to give us an insight into your world (cell).

For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience):

1) Home cooked meals
2) Clean villa
3) Pressed clothes
4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you
5) Drinks on demand
6) Extra income

Marriage is such a complex mix of emotion, interaction, existence - mind, body and soul.

But for me one word sums up my thoughts and feelings on Marriage, 'unity' - which coincidently will be my next tat.

Liban wrote:For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience):

1) Home cooked meals
2) Clean villa
3) Pressed clothes
4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you
5) Drinks on demand
6) Extra income

oowww good to know what Liban thinks!!

Liban wrote:For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience):

1) Home cooked meals
2) Clean villa
3) Pressed clothes
4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you
5) Drinks on demand
6) Extra income

Excellent feedback Liban but the only thing different with that and having a maid is your last point - 6) Reduced income

Liban wrote:Guys I think Hiya changed nicknames!

I feel ill!!!

Its even making normally sane people (ie Me!!) ask stupid and nonsensical questions!!!

Arrrgggghhhhhhhh

Everyone always has got a reason for asking a Question no matter how stupid & shitty it seemed!!!!

the_zooter wrote:I feel ill!!!

Its even making normally sane people (ie Me!!) ask stupid and nonsensical questions!!!

Arrrgggghhhhhhhh

It could be the profession mind you

Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????

-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....

** Marriage means:-

- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!

- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!

- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!

- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.

- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.

I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

u forgot the bugging mother in law, who expects from u to become a children making machine and akt as a real goood wife...pff... that is, be the slave of her baby boy

raidah wrote:u forgot the bugging mother in law, who expects from u to become a children making machine and akt as a real goood wife...pff... that is, be the slave of her baby boy

lol, I believe not all are the same
If I had such a mother in law, I wouldn't
bother for such a buger! She'll have what
she wants in the decided time... not the time
she wants, yeah.... everybody survives!!

Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????

-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....

** Marriage means:-

- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!

- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!

- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!

- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.

- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.

I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

it means absolutely nothing to me. i am never getting married.

Moester wrote:
it means absolutely nothing to me. i am never getting married.

lol, everyone is free to choose..............

Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me:

1) No more ME time
2) No privacy
3) More responsibility
4) In-Laws
5) Less romance/More Work

"Single and LOVING it!"

What marriage means to me?

No more russian nights in Dubai.

committment, sacrifice, and keeping it fun

rana79 wrote:well i read all are disagree with u because they all think in thei rown way.
im agree with ur statment as per u wrote.

marriage mean not other than these, there should be understanting and trustworthy relation.
take care!!!

OH coOL, good to know someone agrees!

PrettyPenny wrote:Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me:

1) No more ME time
2) No privacy
3) More responsibility
4) In-Laws
5) Less romance/More Work

"Single and LOVING it!"

oh yeah u said uh huh single dude... lovin it, I understand your point there!!!!!!
u just haven't met the right girl yet
the one that'll make u change all of your goals

Nah who wants to be a ball and chain?

Sara1983 wrote:Okay I know already others opened threads about related marriage issues, I'm just curious to know what marriage means to YOU?????

-- Care to share your thoughts.....
.: okay I'll start....

** Marriage means:-

- Understanding: the other person, knowing that life with him/her isn't always going to be all roses & crooning birds. there're always things to spice up!

- Trust: thats a big thing & if it isn't there, then no success I guess!

- Responsibility: knowing how to make life easier for your partner & always cooperate with each other, being able to count on your partner. Marriage is no game to kick!

- Forgiving: We're human & no one is perfect, we all commit mistakes, yeah.

- Discuss: Always discuss things, fighting & swearing won't make things any better.

I think these are the basic things, that a person should have in mind when thinking of getting married.... just an opinion!

I never thought about marriage, but now that u r mentioning these points i think we should keep all of this stuff in mind be4 marrying

Sara1983 wrote:

PrettyPenny wrote:Hmmm ... interesting one! What marriage means to me:

1) No more ME time
2) No privacy
3) More responsibility
4) In-Laws
5) Less romance/More Work

"Single and LOVING it!"

oh yeah u said uh huh single dude... lovin it, I understand your point there!!!!!!
u just haven't met the right girl yet

the one that'll make u change all of your goals

I am female Sara ... and straight

I'm not married yet...but to me marriege means

1. Coming home to beautiful wife
2. Having allots of Kids
3. Giving my kid some Football, Basketball and boxing lessons and tips.
4. Looking out for my daughter
5. Home cooked meal

off course having plenty of the "S" word....

Don't want much then do you? How about YOU do the cooking!
Typical male attitude. What about the things you're willing to give?

Sara1983 wrote:

Liban wrote:For a man being married means the following (as per personal experience):

1) Home cooked meals
2) Clean villa
3) Pressed clothes
4) Someone to flick the channels on the remote for you
5) Drinks on demand
6) Extra income

oowww good to know what Liban thinks!!

i wonder if Ms. Liban Knows how he thinks ???

Chocoholic wrote:Don't want much then do you? How about YOU do the cooking!
Typical male attitude. What about the things you're willing to give?

Man place is to work and provide for his family and woman is to take care of the children and the house. I would like mywife to stay home and take care of the children, but she wants to work than I won't stop her from working.

Western woman in general have bad attitude..they are typical undisciplined, they have no sense of culture and no sense of shame...

Chocoholic wrote:Don't want much then do you? How about YOU do the cooking!
Typical male attitude. What about the things you're willing to give?

that was good retort choco!