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Guyz I have a story to tell, and I want to help this girl but I dunt know how.

My very close friend (pakistani) loved this guy to death. And he also loved her very much. Her parents were not accepting him, they said we do not marry out of our cast. He too was Pakistani but from a different cast. And now she is engaged to someone else, and she has no contact with her lover (it’s a long story, which I cannot share) but the main point is that she doesn’t know where he is and he doesn’t know where she is.

she tried everything to convince her parents, she did everything she could but nothing worked, she even tried to kill herself. She was still not ready to give up until her family told her one more step to him, they will get him killed, and not only that but her dad would divorce her mum too.

So what was she supposed to do? She says she is better off without him, she can live her rest of life,as long as she knows he is alive somewhere in this world, But she also says it hurts and it’s vey hard. She used to be very talkative, happy girl but when I look at her now she’s all different. She crys every night, she hides her tears. She says how can I get my mums life ruined and live my life. How can a daughter do this to her own mum? This story have more to it but I can’t share I guess.

this girl has changed the way i used to think. now i also believe never love a person too much, because if u do lose him(for whatever reason), it will be very hard so why make it hard at the first place

alina_4u wrote:this girl has changed the way i used to think. now i also believe never love a person too much, because if u do lose him(for whatever reason), it will be very hard so why make it hard at the first place

and when you don't love him too much and you lose him then you will feel bad because you had the chance to love him with all your might and you didn't.
so really it's a no win situation, but part of being human is that we keep going and giving it sometime we should be able to forget.

alina_4u wrote:this girl has changed the way i used to think. now i also believe never love a person too much, because if u do lose him(for whatever reason), it will be very hard so why make it hard at the first place

i think u should not give up on the idea of love only cause ur close friend had bad luck...love it's like lottery if u don't play there is not chance to win , but if u play there is a risck u will end up loosing.
and live Moester saied, this is life..sometimes u have to let it go and move on...
about ur friend: i don't see how u can help her...it's a sad situation but as far as i can see there is not point going against faith, she doesn't even know where he is now so why to cry over a ghost?

Alina 4 u

Shut da 7 up , was it necessary to write Pakistan.

Liban edit it and write India .

hp i am not like u, i always say the truth

hp i am not like u, i always say the truth

ooooooh is this thread going to Fight Club?

These sort of differences in cast societies are not too commonly subjected amongst the majority of the Pakistani People, but are common in the rural parts and people from those parts.

It's a shame the girl has to choose between her family and her lover.

Btw these people you're talking about; are they based in the UAE or Pak?

Seems like love is hard but the consequences of love are harder.