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"When you get married to a person, you get married to his family too".

How valid is the above statement? I always hear people saying that when you get married to a guy, you get married to the whole family all together. Therefore, even if you love him and all, you should keep an open eye his family as well. Do you agree with this?

Hiya wrote:"When you get married to a person, you get married to his family too".

How valid is the above statement? I always hear people saying that when you get married to a guy, you get married to the whole family all together. Therefore, even if you love him and all, you should keep an open eye his family as well. Do you agree with this?

ahhhhm nope, i do not agree, not a must to have to entire family buzz u every minute, depends on how u manage the situation! why should i pretend that i am happy when my mother in law is goind trough my kitchen evaluateing all in the house, the courtains r not the right colour, the furniture has soem dust on it, the carpet is to small! Damn....i shall send her out to talk a walk and come back when she's cool with whatever i wanna have in my house!
now...to get seriouse: there is not a rule about what u saied, but there is the common sense, so normaly when u get married it's suposed that u get "in law" related with ur husband's/wife's family. so if he/she loves it's not like u have to fake love for them, i think that if u give them the proper respect and keep the situation under control the risk of invasion
is small but yet there r nice and cool IN LAWS and horrible one, depending on the situation!

Liban wrote::bs:

Hiya wrote:"When you get married to a person, you get married to his family too".

How valid is the above statement? I always hear people saying that when you get married to a guy, you get married to the whole family all together. Therefore, even if you love him and all, you should keep an open eye his family as well. Do you agree with this?

oh

you mean the entire family will fck the gal ....thats sad ......

I have only daddy , who lives on Internet , you only have to give him rehabilitation pills after 3 hours with X-mas Beer ....

Hiya wrote:"When you get married to a person, you get married to his family too".

How valid is the above statement? I always hear people saying that when you get married to a guy, you get married to the whole family all together. Therefore, even if you love him and all, you should keep an open eye his family as well. Do you agree with this?

May I ask u one thing,
where r u originally from ?!
I am just curious !!

I don't think that that statement is 100% true. BUT, one shouLd always consider the spouse's family. Simply because it would reduce strains by a LOT!
Not to mention, that if you get along with the family .. u get closer to your spouse.. because they are the window to his past u'll be sharing each others pasts.
So one should never discard the family... on the basis that i'm marryin HIM/HER not the family...
+ if you do not get along with the family, it may lead to resentment and cause conflicts between the two of you!

here, this is my opinion and i hope i cleared some doubts regarding this thread!

Hiya wrote:I don't think that that statement is 100% true. BUT, one shouLd always consider the spouse's family. Simply because it would reduce strains by a LOT!
Not to mention, that if you get along with the family .. u get closer to your spouse.. because they are the window to his past u'll be sharing each others pasts.
So one should never discard the family... on the basis that i'm marryin HIM/HER not the family...
+ if you do not get along with the family, it may lead to resentment and cause conflicts between the two of you!

here, this is my opinion and i hope i cleared some doubts regarding this thread!

not so much hiya i am sorry to dissapoint u!

actually we only wanna facilitate the road to big daddy by getting married with the baby boy
so yeah, we r getting married with the whole family

raidah wrote:actually we only wanna facilitate the road to big daddy by getting married with the baby boy
so yeah, we r getting married with the whole family

auch girl! that was nasty!
don't reveil all women's secrets!

alexandra wrote:

raidah wrote:actually we only wanna facilitate the road to big daddy by getting married with the baby boy
so yeah, we r getting married with the whole family

auch girl! that was nasty!
don't reveil all women's secrets!

just read it in the papers...u mean its true?

raidah wrote:

alexandra wrote:

raidah wrote:actually we only wanna facilitate the road to big daddy by getting married with the baby boy
so yeah, we r getting married with the whole family

auch girl! that was nasty!
don't reveil all women's secrets!

just read it in the papers...u mean its true?

only sometimes
ooops i forgot to mention that i also read that in a magazine

raidah wrote:actually we only wanna facilitate the road to big daddy by getting married with the baby boy
so yeah, we r getting married with the whole family

do u by any chance happen to know if DK has a boy????

I second Liban.

Liban wrote::bs: