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Al7Isra wrote:Do you think a resident of Pakistan, but actually Afghan (AKA PATAN) .. would want to use American woman for a visa to get out of his country?
alexandra wrote:Al7Isra wrote:Do you think a resident of Pakistan, but actually Afghan (AKA PATAN) .. would want to use American woman for a visa to get out of his country?
well i think it's a bit immoral...but the most important thing is that u don't feel bad about urself by doing this. if this doesn't go against ur principles than do it, but just remember that sometimes what u give is what u get, and sooner or later u might be used for someone else's purpose.
if the situation is so critical and u wish so much to leave ur country and by this way, why don't u try to convince an american lady to help u, let her know the truth.
i am aware that this things happen, i know some cases of men tring to emigrate by this way u choosed but just think it more before u decide to use anyone to ur best interest.
Good luck and hope u will find an honest way to get where and what u want! take care
Al7Isra wrote:Ok, well I've talked to him online (I know ... I know) since July 2005... and he is like "I love you" so I just laugh, but once I checked his emal (i had his pass) and I found out he talks to all these chicks and keeps writing them LOVE letters, one is some old lady from US. Dang.. I was bummed, but nt really, I generally don't trust people on internet. Still he kept saying he want to meet me anywhere, he will do anything.. He is afghan living in Paki. So I dont know... I mean should I believe him? We kinda get along, all "COMPATABLE" so to say... but I dont know. I think he lies and just wants visa. What do you all think? Thanks.
Al7Isra wrote:Thank you alexandra. What I meant by compatability, I meant I decided that by our horoscopes, etc. Yes, you're right he said those things. When I caught him, he blamed everything on his little brother, who before h said was 9 and now 14 ? LOL, he grew up pretty fast. Only one old woman was from U.S., then other were from other countries. But he did say love you to all of them. He keeps saying it's his lil'brother., but I dont believe him. I told him I wont marry him, and I dont believe in marriage, but he keeps talking to me... and says he doesnt care for America or citizenship.
I know sometimes I was in the wrong place at the wrong time, all evidence was pointing at me, but IT WASNT ME, so I hate to be mean to him if he is in fact telling the truth, but then again, by using reason, all evidence IS poiting at him.. Im in dilemma, I dont LOVE him, but I guess I care for him, and it sucks to see all my time gone down the drain.
I forgot to mention he writes me real letters, by mail. Either way I am not an idiot, I can see when people lie.. I don't know when they say sorry if they're honest and I should forgive them, or stand my ground.???
IMJ wrote:I personally think u SHOULD NOT trust that guy. Yeah, I think he wants to get a free ticket to the states, lol.
Wafaey wrote:IMJ wrote:I personally think u SHOULD NOT trust that guy. Yeah, I think he wants to get a free ticket to the states, lol.
It seems you had a real bitter experience
Wafaey wrote:IMJ wrote:I personally think u SHOULD NOT trust that guy. Yeah, I think he wants to get a free ticket to the states, lol.
It seems you had a real bitter experience
Al7Isra wrote:Wafaey wrote:IMJ wrote:I personally think u SHOULD NOT trust that guy. Yeah, I think he wants to get a free ticket to the states, lol.
It seems you had a real bitter experience
UPDATE: I caught damn liar, once again, will block him tonite.. muahahahah i feel so satisfied