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Hey guyz,

I've been in the UAE since I was a kid, I do have a lot of friends, an excellent social network, I recently moved to Dubai, infact I was so excited to make new friends and find a girlfriend.

But what made my story turn from ambition to disappointments is that people are very distant, they don't smile at all, if your there its like you don't exist, and I find them quite picky like what the **** do they think they are coming from to be picky!!

I was one of the guys who used to say, (by socializing making new friends will be possible), but it seems like a fairytale and nothing is true. I went to greec, Sweden, Germany and US, I made comparisons, sorry but hell no it was much easier there, even girls were easy going, but in here its more like they are expecting a Porsche description to fully fill their requirements, I'm sorry but what make you think you deserve it, have you forgotten that no expat here came from royal families?? we are all working under the permit in UAE??!!

I'm sorry but are you interested to be lonely for the rest of your life!??

I'm I suppose to be at bars and night clubs every single day, with piercings ,tattoos, the celebrity style looks, and blow up my money getting drunk to meet people ?? that's pathetic and stupid! however not all of us could be that good looking, no one is perfect! for reference my rating in looks is 7 out of 10, and I do find it difficult to meet a girlfriend!

this topic is only for serious talks not for foolishness, its not even for dating.

Women's respond would be a great advise to share experience.

I actually don't find anything wrong for girls being picky, after all you guys would sure pick the girl of your interest. Ladies though might be protective from those guys with dark intentions, and you can't blame us for that, it's quite normal for ladies who doesn't want to get played on.

Besides, you guys should tickle our interests plus making a girl smile (laugh better yet) from a frown is a big point. Share a smile even if others won't, you'll never know who could be falling for it, and it won't harm anyway

He is right it is difficult to find someone who is realistic and down to earth. It is possible they are protective, which is reasonable, but it comes back to the same problem it is difficult to find right people in Dubai for whatever reason.

"Besides, you guys should tickle our interests plus making a girl smile (laugh better yet) from a frown is a big point."

Players are better at that.

Well yes, it's really hard to find the right person in Dubai. But tickling interests and making someone smile is better done by players? I disagree with that, ask any lady if she'd want to be approached by a blank-faced, clueless man, or a serious harsh-faced guy. Though winking, BIG NO NO.

Ladies are kind of observant. By that sense we tend to see/hear what turns us on/off. Well... smart talks always catches us every time.

Misssss wrote:blank-faced, clueless man, or a serious harsh-faced guy.

I didn't had that in mind, it is not that bad lol.

But usually players are good at approaching and the things you are saying, they have more practice.

many a true word misss, us guys should respect your protective attributes, the world is a changing place. It is sometimes hard to meet ladies but a syou say a warm smile, even on your own, radiates warmth and intrest and we should take more time to tickle ladies interests. Its about that spark, being unique and interesting, so I agree with what you say. I think playes can often me spotted by a well tuned woman..

Maybe ill go to the Creek tonight...

Paul - Business Bay

I think it's all about expectation, if you set it too high you'll get dissapointed.

I've been to europe several times, social life there is way better , i dont drink or smoke but i had fully amazing social life there.

VanDamme wrote:I think it's all about expectation, if you set it too high you'll get dissapointed.

Exactly. Don't be blinded by the fact.

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You need time and good luck!

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Umm ... Guys ? Can't you get it yet ? It's plain and simple .

Dubai was never about love in my openion . It's about business only .

You want love ? go find it in your home country , Then bring her back with you .

Not trying to be raciest her but Western nationalities have the best chances of finding " LOVE " in here more than any one. For obvious reasons. POWER.

Now you see there are 2 Types of people who live in Dubai :

1-Managers, CEO's : The real money makers. Mostly from North American - England - Australia etc. Walk in the park for them to find ladies.

2-Non-Mangerial Employees : The working Class, Shared accomodations ,Middle Eastern or Asians They may look good sometimes but the love finding costly life style does not fit with thier budgets, so they either settle down with same nationality lover here or overseas back home or they simply hook up with other nationalites from the same working class , East Europians are working class too but it's not easy bonding with them in a relation. Because all eyes are on them due to their amazing looks.

There you have it . you can thank me later.

Haha Neph... you got it in one...

or some one can hope for the best and place an add on here with there number looking for love you just might get a brit or an american haha.

well to be honest im a british asian (so they call it) educated born n bred in UK, ive never had a problem and its not about power or money... if thats the type of lady you going for then you not looking for love or relationship you just want a lady who can spend your hardearnings. there called gold diggers.

a real woman wont care much is she likes you... its not about where your from its how intelectual you are and how you hold yourself together.

theres plenty of woman out there who are damn right stunning who just want a decent guy... simple... but then again it does depend on your looks at time.. but maybe your aiming to high... haha

LOL @ Bugs

I like to aim high otherwise i am not satisfied for some reason it's a big mistake to generalize ofcourse but in the same time , What i have said about relations in Dubai , Gold diggers or not , seem to be the rule rather than the exception . I know i look good for an Egyptian man. I am fit and in shape . I am outspoken and things between me and women happens very naturally. But i have said what i said as a message for the new comers to Dubai : Don't freak out what you see is what you get and what you don't is better yet

Off topic : which part of asia do you come from ? ( you know , before England )

Im from yorkshire.. born n bred there, other Afghan.... never seen it never been there but have been told that i have a plot there somewhere...

Bugz wrote:Im from yorkshire.. born n bred there, other Afghan.... never seen it never been there but have been told that i have a plot there somewhere...

Yorkshire? What are you doing supporting a Lancs team? What's up with Leeds United?

theres nothing up with Leeds United there just down.

Dont like the system of Leeds United, they have some excellent local talent and will never give them the chance to play, so Leeds to me is only good for shopping, even the night life is dire now...

Dubai Companion how can you help better... please do share

there a load of bull stories articles that aint going to help thats just going to baffle the mind more reading...

login7sandra ,how much

Very rare to find a decent relationship here in Dubai. Sad but true.

I thought people would be sharing their horrible dating experiences in Dubai. There are hardly any. Anyone?

masterking , well, you are looking for girls in the wrong places...

Masterking

You sound very negative, if that is how you project with people generally then it is likely to be what you get back. In some sense I agree with you there is the Bigger Better Deal approach that girls take up especially when it turns in to a compertition between them and their friends to get the richest guy in town, but this is very fake and shallow, you do not want a girl like that anyway. So lucky for you they are driving themselves crazy looking for the rich guy and ignoring you.

Nice girls are there but they tend not to be the obvious ones you notice most, look for the hidden gem.

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I hope all of you guys will find some place for you in Dubai and during this stay you will find a girl friend that can meet your requirements so best of luck for this.

People love different things about people. You have to know that there are opportunists everywhere. As for them not being happy, i do not think a person can just smile to everyone, especially a stranger. However, just know that that is the way life is, all around!

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iaaanr , Everyone is concerned about the word ( General) frankly speaking I don't care, if generally people don't want to be criticized then people would of helped the situation but as a matter fact nope nobody cares.

A person I know very well is fkin gifted to meet women even in places you would never imagine, do you know why coz he got the looks and he lies that he owns a company, he's got one of the worst personalities god ever gave a man, cheap and ing so why is it that allot of men suffer to get a single piece of meat in Dubai but he gets all the meat because he projects a confident personality? nope bullshit he projects looks, and this is what Dubai wants (Looks, Money and Power!) with all do respect Ive seen fair enough in Dubai and even the nice girls you are talking about are the same shit, just slap their ass with money and power and they will love it, women don't give shit about how sweet or nice a guy is.