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Intimacy wrote:I would like to know more about how do we people differentiate between what is right and what do we actually want... please lets try to be stright forward about it folks .. and please.. lets make abstract.
kanelli wrote:One of my family members might be, and most likely it was due to a brian injury when he was a teen.
arniegang wrote:i still read "head and heart" in all your posts.
MaaaD wrote:what about the desire to do something just because the thought that its wrong or forbidden. Doesnt everyone get those desires ? There is an arabic proverb for this along the lines of "What is not permitted is always wanted" or for those of you who speak Arabic "il mamnoo3 marhgoub"
Kanelli thanks for the psychopath link, that explained alot hahahaha
Dubai Knight wrote:MaaaD wrote:what about the desire to do something just because the thought that its wrong or forbidden. Doesnt everyone get those desires ? There is an arabic proverb for this along the lines of "What is not permitted is always wanted" or for those of you who speak Arabic "il mamnoo3 marhgoub"
Kanelli thanks for the psychopath link, that explained alot hahahaha
'The forbidden fruit' or ' You always want what you cannot have'?
Basic human nature!
Knight
MaaaD wrote:Dubai Knight wrote:MaaaD wrote:what about the desire to do something just because the thought that its wrong or forbidden. Doesnt everyone get those desires ? There is an arabic proverb for this along the lines of "What is not permitted is always wanted" or for those of you who speak Arabic "il mamnoo3 marhgoub"
Kanelli thanks for the psychopath link, that explained alot hahahaha
'The forbidden fruit' or ' You always want what you cannot have'?
Basic human nature!
Knight
yup exactly, like when you starting dating a girl and suddenly every girl around you is flirting with you and dropping hints .. whats the deal with that ! will some girl explain ?
Also, a man who is attached is obviously deemed 'worthy' by other females and hence attractive...
But when you are a sad and lonely guy and are looking for a girl...then you are stuffed!
Douce`Amere wrote:Not only psychopaths don`t realize sometimes that something they want is not something what is right! It is (not clinical!) psychology.
Awareness, consciousness & presence in every breath & step is the key to want what is right, & to differentiate it. In fact, it`s almost a formula of perfection.
We all know the right way /Really good posts above!/ To chose the right or to do wanted doesn`t always sounds a dilemma! We tend to go easier ways & we justify oneselves. Anyway, in most of cases… among all reasons, circumstances & variations it doesn`t really seem so hard to distinguish the main, the essence, - the right & wrong according to own system of values or at least generally accepted human values.
arniegang wrote:Also, a man who is attached is obviously deemed 'worthy' by other females and hence attractive...
But when you are a sad and lonely guy and are looking for a girl...then you are stuffed!
Arniegang ..1
DK.............0
arniegang wrote:DK and I were "generalizing Vee, not person specific
So the original score stands
arniegang wrote:no wayyyyyyyyyy pedro
if it had been specific i still scored evens
sooooooo poo poo with knobs on and no returns
nah na nahhh na na