so being new to this forum, as expected, i was clicking here & there, reading stuff left, right, & center... and lo! i came across a very old post... but 1 that i like very much i searched the member but it seems he's no longer active whoever were you "blue moon" - i'm a kindred spirit.
hope you did end up working in Dubai and found a genuine nice woman too... darn! guess your probably married by now, lol! oooppps... hope my words don't get me into trouble