Hi guys,
I moved about two months ago to a new apartment. It's a great place, but we're having terrible problems with noisy neighbours next door! The first time was really loud music. I went around and politely asked them if they could turn it down and that perhaps they didn't realise they were disturbing us, etc. They were very apologetic, turned it down and I thought that was that. But the next day....wow. Not music, but really loud crashing around, walking about in heels, and loud singing -relentlessly, all day. This time we called security. The neighbours threw a strop about that. Apparently the woman next door's a pro singer and thinks it's fine to sing at any time of day or night, loudly! Security told her that was not acceptable.
It went quiet for two weeks after that. We thought it was sorted again. Turns out the neighbours were on holiday!
The last two days the relentless noise - banging about, singing, walking in heels, the TV - have returned because they're back. It is DEFINITELY them, and we've had friends check that the noise is definitely unacceptable and not something we're getting worked up over.
If security approach the neighbours (or I do) they become unbelievably friendly and understanding. But minutes later, with their door closed, we immediately hear them arguing about how if this woman doesn't stop being so loud they're going to get themselves evicted or in trouble with the police. They get really nasty with each other. It's ALMOST funny...but I haven't slept properly in weeks, and my unwell wife - who needs rest - isn't getting proper rest.
The building security's a joke, and the police apparently won't act unless it's a major party or similar every night. I don't want to be in the house any more - it's really got me down. The building management - who I have lodged a proper complaint with, though nothing's happened yet - are starting to see me as a nuisance, but we just want sleep and to quietly enjoy our apartment. I thought I was going crazy until a friend who came over asked us how we coped with the constant noise form next door.
I paid to be in here for a year. Four cheques. Do you guys know if it's possible to cancel early a lease here without too much trouble or am I stuck here? What's the best course of action if I want to move before our contract's up (and we do want to move, as we know that next door own their apartment and won't be leaving!), or do I have to kiss this money goodbye?
Any genuine help or advice appreciated. I'm getting quite depressed about all of this. It is affecting my work, and my relationship. I have never posted on a forum before so I hope this is in the right place etc, but really need some new people to talk to about this.