Intimacy,
First, Welcome to the Club.
Although i'm 25, but my dream was to marry at 21
yeah crazy, but imagin you be 45 with a kid in the age of 20.
Anyway, too late now, lets talk real life....
Well, when i was offered the job in dubai, i was well... it is great to start a life there and have someone to support and push me forward, a reason to grow and a reason to be a better person and enjoy my life with, but...
From people who have been here long time, Dubai is not the place to do that, or they think so, I was told Dubai is good for singles, and those who would like to stay single or best thing, have ONLY a GF.
For me, Dubai would be a great place to start a life with a wife.
hey, you sound like one of my friend! My belief is, 'do no haunt for a girl'
just like andyba mentioned. When the time is right, you will find the right person.
EJ,
Well, been trying this for 4 years now... with no luck, but to be honest, it gave me a career boost as i was very focused on my career.
but... regreting it now, i would rather focus in finding my princess than career.
Problem that it is hard for decent guys to meet the right decent gurl they are looking for..... Or so i belive . (don't hail me, i'm not saying i'm "decent guy" but may be Intimacy is)
My experience is, girls see decent guys as "Good best friends" which i hate it because then it is very tricky trying to move from the "best friend" to the "boyfriend/lover" space. You will have to sacrifice the whole friendship telling her your feelings.
Anyway,
I'm Fed up Too
I wonder how our sarcastic DF friends didn't kill you till now, but don't worry you are not alone, i'll be tortured with you.
Check cadmus post
http://www.dubaiforums.com/viewtopic.php?t=4715