If you have to lose someone very close to you like your partner, borther,sister, parents, children or very dear friend for any reason( sickness, immigration etc etc), do you prefer to know it in advance so you can enjoy their presence for a while, but you have to suffer the pain of knowing you can’t have this after a bit? Or you prefer to just face it in the time it happens and so deal with it when they are gone? This way you might regret some stuff you would like to do, but you don’t suffer in their presence…
Which do you prefer?