Berrin wrote:I am sorry that your daughter isn't allowed to see you, under normal circumstances you/she should have access to each other.., but I wonder what happened?
But still,why is it that you call a Doctor a low life pakistani?
if your daughter was severly injured I don't think she could make a marriage, neither be accepted for a marriage?
Can you still say that she was susceptible to persuasion through emotional injury?
-- Sat Jan 08, 2011 9:27 pm --
why would Pakistani parents want their kids to be anything but Pakistani?
How many generations have to pass before you call yourself the citizen of "a country" you are born and living in?
Berrin, I'm not sure, from your post, whether you mean what happened to my daughter herself or our relationship, so I will tell you both briefly.
Brain injury refers to people who have also had illnesses which effect their brain, My daughter caught encephalitus, a severe infection of the inner brain. It stemed from herpes simplex 1, which is causes cold sores and the virus went into her spine and to her brain. It caused a severe infection which led to her brain swelling. Her brain swelled that much that she died twice and had to be resucitated. She was in hospital for months and then rehabilitation. She had lived in London but I brought her home when she was fit enough. She wasn't too bad really, definately not the person she was before the illness. She was always the life and soul of the party, a very good looking girl, clever and amusing. The illness left her with short term memory loss, the inability to recognise facial expressions and her eyes look different, kind of lights on but nobody at home.
She even managed to secure a place at University and went to live in Manchester. She got herself a boyfriend. A Pakistani as it happens, a nice man, he had a couple of shops and thought the world of her. She couldn't manage Uni and her BF bought a shop for her. As with the Pakistani community, he gave a helping hand to one of his own, a Doctor, new to England, who had to improve his language skills before working in the NHS, he gave him a job working with my daughter. Big Big mistake. He saw an opportunity to get his feet under the table and talked my daughter into going away with him. Do you see what I mean about low life? Is that how you repay someones kindness to you? making off with their partner? My daughter would never have looked at that man before her illness, he was minging. Anyway to cut a long story short, the Doctor treated my daughter like dirt once he married her, he spoke to her and treated her like a piece of rubbish. I objected to it strongly. I'm not one to keep my mouth shut. The result was that he took her away and forbade her to have any contact with any of her family (not just me).
to address your last point, I'm of the opinion that the Emiratis have it about right. You can come and live and work in my country as long as you contribute to society but citizenship? No.
-- Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:33 am --
desertdudeshj wrote:Berrin wrote:why would Pakistani parents want their kids to be anything but Pakistani?
How many generations have to pass before you call yourself the citizen of "a country" you are born and living in?
No actually that wouldn't be true to according to the posters logic, they would be Indian. Oh no wait thats not correct either as a lot them are actually decendents of the Aryan race that would make the East European. Yup thats it East European. Oh no wait................
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... ng-12.htmlI see Dillon has already addressed my next point, which was according to research this week, since 1997 there have been 17 prosecutions involving on-street grooming of girls where at least two men were convicted. Out of a total of 56 convictions, 53 of those defendants were Asian, with the remaining three white.
-- Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:38 am --
desertdudeshj wrote:Ah Zub's haven't you learnt anything. No one cares about the actualities, only what feeds their conformation bais.
Now repeat after me, white good, brown bad. Now go and repeat that a thousand times
DDS you are failing on this one I'm afraid. Zubber and I are virtual friends. The fact that he is Indian makes no difference to me. I have told you before, becareful about what you say as you don't know who you are talking 'at'.