If a man proclaims "I divorce you" three times, that's the end of the marriage? He's free to walk away? Sharia law when it comes to marriage and crime is still in the dark ages and very backwards.
I see American woman who are Muslims living in Dubai who live with the fear that should the husband want a divorce (expat divorce rate here is very high), or should she for that matter, with the sweep of a hand she can loose her child/ren to him, without a court determining if indeed he is the better parent, nor are the wants of the child/ren taken into consideration. He could be a wife beater, a cheating husband, have a second wife, an abuser, none of this is taken into consideration because: the law (Sharia) is the law (Sharia). If he decides he doesn't want the children he doesn't have to pay child support or alimony. Sure, a divorce can be obtained through lawyers outside the country, but while living in Dubai, they still live under Sharia law.
Fortunately they can make all the demands they want, it will never happen.
dubai-politics-talk/islamophobia-2010-timeline-t44756-15.html
I am sure I read somewhere that you said you converted to Islam...Was it a concious convertion? which means that you had thorough knowledge before your acceptance and that you moved into such marriage with a muslim knowing its consequences?
I have objections to your claims as mentioned above tho ...
Even Just a small research on the net proves that you are not telling the truth and misleading..
Divorce, based on quran...
http://www.submission.org/women/divorce.html
Here they are, the six principles of shariah:
1. The right to the protection of life.
2. The right to the protection of family.
3. The right to the protection of education.
4. The right to the protection of religion.
5. The right to the protection of property (access to resources).
6. The right to the protection of human dignity.
The right to the protection of family...
http://www.islam4all.com/newpage112.htm#Chapter IV
A Mother's right to the pyhsical Custody...
http://www.expertlaw.com/library/family ... stody.html
Divorce: Some Misconceptions
http://www.islamfortoday.com/divorce.htm
I would personally expect you to perfom much better Bora Bora...
It's such a shame that when one reads you posts, cannot avoid observing your bias or hatred if I may say...
Wouldn't you like to differ yourself from ignorant/mal practising Muslims?
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