Woman in charge... no thanks.
We all know some like to take control fast, though obliging isn't my thing. Most of the time, those ones find it much more interesting if you're able to match their strong passions and assertive attitude. Though I must admit, some do enjoy/prefer to be in complete control. Seriously not my type.
I believe in mutuality, where both sides are equally active, equally interested and equally respected. Those turn out to be the best relationships for me. Dunno about others.