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Afghan Men Struggle With Sexual Identity, Study Finds Jan 30, 2010
An unclassified study from a military research unit in southern Afghanistan details how homosexual behavior is unusually common among men in the large ethnic group known as Pashtuns -- though they seem to be in complete denial about it.


As if U.S. troops and diplomats didn't have enough to worry about in trying to understand Afghan culture, a new report suggests an entire region in the country is coping with a sexual identity crisis.

An unclassified study from a military research unit in southern Afghanistan details how homosexual behavior is unusually common among men in the large ethnic group known as Pashtuns -- though they seem to be in complete denial about it.

The study, obtained by Fox News, found that Pashtun men commonly have sex with other men, admire other men physically, have sexual relationships with boys and shun women both socially and sexually -- yet they completely reject the label of "homosexual." The research was conducted as part of a longstanding effort to better understand Afghan culture and improve Western interaction with the local people.

The research unit, which was attached to a Marine battalion in southern Afghanistan, acknowledged that the behavior of some Afghan men has left Western forces "frequently confused."

The report details the bizarre interactions a U.S. Army medic and her colleagues had with Afghan men in the southern province of Kandahar.

In one instance, a group of local male interpreters had contracted gonorrhea anally but refused to believe they could have contracted it sexually -- "because they were not homosexuals."

Apparently, according to the report, Pashtun men interpret the Islamic prohibition on homosexuality to mean they cannot "love" another man -- but that doesn't mean they can't use men for "sexual gratification."

The group of interpreters who had contracted gonorrhea joked in the camp that they actually got the disease by "mixing green and black tea." But since they refused to heed the medics' warnings, many of them re-contracted the disease after receiving treatment.

The U.S. army medic also told members of the research unit that she and her colleagues had to explain to a local man how to get his wife pregnant.

The report said: "When it was explained to him what was necessary, he reacted with disgust and asked, 'How could one feel desire to be with a woman, who God has made unclean, when one could be with a man, who is clean? Surely this must be wrong.'"

The Pashtun populations are concentrated in the southern and eastern parts of the country. The Human Terrain Team that conducted the research is part of a military effort to learn more about local populations.

The report also detailed a disturbing practice in which older "men of status" keep young boys on hand for sexual relationships. One of the country's favorite sayings, the report said, is "women are for children, boys are for pleasure."

The report concluded that the widespread homosexual behavior stems from several factors, including the "severe segregation" of women in the society and the "prohibitive" cost of marriage.

Though U.S. troops are commonly taught in training for Afghanistan that the "effeminate characteristics" of Pashtun men are "normal" and not an indicator of homosexuality, the report said U.S. forces should not "dismiss" the unique version of homosexuality that is actually practiced in the region "out of desire to avoid western discomfort."

Otherwise, the report said, Westerners could "risk failing to comprehend an essential social force underlying Pashtun culture."


http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2010/01 ... udy-finds/

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Hmm, Fox News reporting on a 'study' by the US military.

I'm surprised it didn't start with 'Once upon a time...'

:)

Anyway - perhaps it is the repressed homos.exuality of the Pashtuns that is the reason why they haven't been conquered yet and given the new coalition tactic of bribing them to not fight the occupiers, perhaps they can bundle ipods with music from the Village People, Judy Garland etc with the money they will be offering the Taliban. :mrgreen:

That said, I'm pretty sure the Taliban don't have a 'don't ask, don't tell' rule ;)

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LOLFAUX.
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shafique wrote:Hmm, Fox News reporting on a 'study' by the US military.

I'm surprised it didn't start with 'Once upon a time...'

:)

Anyway - perhaps it is the repressed homos.exuality of the Pashtuns that is the reason why they haven't been conquered yet and given the new coalition tactic of bribing them to not fight the occupiers, perhaps they can bundle ipods with music from the Village People, Judy Garland etc with the money they will be offering the Taliban. :mrgreen:

That said, I'm pretty sure the Taliban don't have a 'don't ask, don't tell' rule ;)

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Attack the messenger.

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^sense of humour failure?

:bigsmurf:

Perhaps you're still one of those who think that the WMD's in Iraq are still there to be found. :)

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shafique wrote:^sense of humour failure?

:bigsmurf:

Perhaps you're still one of those who think that the WMD's in Iraq are still there to be found. :)

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So, do you believe Iraq has WMD's ?

Even Fox News believes the truth on that subject now.

(Let me just check - were you being serious with this story, it's just a joke to the rest of us..)

:albino:

It's a bit like if someone posted the fictional report which says:

I hear that Al Manara is reporting of a unclassified study carried out by Iranian intelligence which states that the majority Israeli military are in fact convinced that the Palestinians are the victims in the conflict with Israel - but they are all in deep denial of this fact. The Israeli men and women serving in the military are no longer accepting the spin being put on their occupation and have started to agree with Israeli human rights organisations.

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Re: Afghan Men Struggle With Sexual Identity, Study Finds Feb 03, 2010
See - so whats people problem with sheik issa - he didn't love the guy so its ok. ;)

Where you have people strongly segregated for whatever reason you get greater incidents of homosexual behaviour, strong religious settings, prisons, this goes way back spartans etc.
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event horizon wrote:An unclassified study from a military research unit in southern Afghanistan details how homosexual behavior is unusually common among men in the large ethnic group known as Pashtuns -- though they seem to be in complete denial about it.


As if U.S. troops and diplomats didn't have enough to worry about in trying to understand Afghan culture, a new report suggests an entire region in the country is coping with a sexual identity crisis.

An unclassified study from a military research unit in southern Afghanistan details how homosexual behavior is unusually common among men in the large ethnic group known as Pashtuns -- though they seem to be in complete denial about it.

The study, obtained by Fox News, found that Pashtun men commonly have love with other men, admire other men physically, have sexual relationships with boys and shun women both socially and sexually -- yet they completely reject the label of "homosexual." The research was conducted as part of a longstanding effort to better understand Afghan culture and improve Western interaction with the local people.

The research unit, which was attached to a Marine battalion in southern Afghanistan, acknowledged that the behavior of some Afghan men has left Western forces "frequently confused."

The report details the bizarre interactions a U.S. Army medic and her colleagues had with Afghan men in the southern province of Kandahar.

In one instance, a group of local male interpreters had contracted gonorrhea anally but refused to believe they could have contracted it sexually -- "because they were not homosexuals."

Apparently, according to the report, Pashtun men interpret the Islamic prohibition on homosexuality to mean they cannot "love" another man -- but that doesn't mean they can't use men for "sexual gratification."

The group of interpreters who had contracted gonorrhea joked in the camp that they actually got the disease by "mixing green and black tea." But since they refused to heed the medics' warnings, many of them re-contracted the disease after receiving treatment.

The U.S. army medic also told members of the research unit that she and her colleagues had to explain to a local man how to get his wife pregnant.

The report said: "When it was explained to him what was necessary, he reacted with disgust and asked, 'How could one feel desire to be with a woman, who God has made unclean, when one could be with a man, who is clean? Surely this must be wrong.'"

The Pashtun populations are concentrated in the southern and eastern parts of the country. The Human Terrain Team that conducted the research is part of a military effort to learn more about local populations.

The report also detailed a disturbing practice in which older "men of status" keep young boys on hand for sexual relationships. One of the country's favorite sayings, the report said, is "women are for children, boys are for pleasure."

The report concluded that the widespread homosexual behavior stems from several factors, including the "severe segregation" of women in the society and the "prohibitive" cost of marriage.

Though U.S. troops are commonly taught in training for Afghanistan that the "effeminate characteristics" of Pashtun men are "normal" and not an indicator of homosexuality, the report said U.S. forces should not "dismiss" the unique version of homosexuality that is actually practiced in the region "out of desire to avoid western discomfort."

Otherwise, the report said, Westerners could "risk failing to comprehend an essential social force underlying Pashtun culture."


http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2010/01 ... udy-finds/


Very funny indeed. Typical Fox News entertainment. Did you know that Fox News is a spinoff from Saturday Night Live News?? They even use some of the former skit writers from SNL and The Tonight Show. They do know how to make one chuckle, and even LOL at times. Thanks for the :lol:

OMG, you didn't take that "news" as being actual news, did you??
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Any other conspiracy theories you'd like to add?
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event horizon wrote:Any other conspiracy theories you'd like to add?


Conspiracy??? And what would that involve?? What would the end result be??
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Hey, if you think the journalist just made this story up, I would try to investigate and find out if the Army does indeed have a study coming out that addresses this issue (of the prevalence of homosexuality amongst Pashtun tribesmen) - and whether or not the journalist's accounts of the study are accurate.

You could probably win some award if you expose this story as being fabricated. Then again, one wonders why a widely read news organization would just make up a story like this. But strange things have happened before - such as a BBC journalist who once claimed that the constitution of the National Liberation Front of Tripura called for the establishment of a Christian theocracy.
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You're not seriously arguing that a fox news report about a supposed study by US military intelligence is something we should take seriously, are you?

And Bora's point is well made - so what? What if the Pashtuns were a bunch of raving homos - who are just expressing their frustration that the clothes they have available aren't fashionable. How does that change anything? :mrgreen:

I guess if you were homophobic you'd object to the Pashtuns a bit more than before, but apart from that it sounded like an April fool's lark, or something that some guys put together for a laugh (the article) and decided to publish to see if anyone was gullible enough to take it seriously.

So, are you homophobic - or are you just pleased to see a Pashtun approaching with a smile on his face? :albino:

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Afghan men are still in the closet? :shock:
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i honestly suggest we send event horizon to afghanistan, had him over to a group of pathans and see who is a homo :D
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rudeboy wrote:i honestly suggest we send event horizon to afghanistan, had him over to a group of pathans and see who is a homo :D


Now I understand why putting panties on the heads of those detainees in Abu Ghraib sparked so much outrage.

Something more 'manly' would have been more appropriate.

On a serious note - I have heard from people who were over there, that the men would go at it in the cells in broad daylight.
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rudeboy wrote:i honestly suggest we send event horizon to afghanistan, had him over to a group of pathans and see who is a homo :D


Now I understand why putting panties on the heads of those detainees in Abu Ghraib sparked so much outrage.

Something more 'manly' would have been more appropriate.

On a serious note - I have heard from people who were over there, that the men would go at it in the cells in broad daylight.



the only MANLY thing you could do is to stop thrashing Islam, get up from your lazy ass, open a good book i.e the Quran and read it, rather then pasting things from here and there.

On a serious note - men rape each other across jails around the world, especially in USA where a man would have his own biatch. now once again on a serious note do you fantasize about men doing each other in broad daylight, or you got nothing better to do then to trash Islam?

as for the panties, i think you got your nickers twisted somewhere mate ;)
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Nothing to see, move along.

Sexual slavery involving boys as young as 10 is being condoned and in many cases protected by authorities in northern Afghanistan.

In a story to be broadcast on Four Corners tonight, the practice of bacha bazi or "boy play", as well as other allegations of child abuse, are explored.

Afghan journalist Najibullah Quraishi has filmed police attending a party where a young boy is the "entertainment". The police shown on the video include one officer from the youth crime squad.

Such parties are illegal under the law in Afghanistan and with good reason. The "dancing boys" are in effect sex slaves. They are lured off the streets by pimps. They are taught to dance and sing, to wear make-up and to dress like girls. Then they are made to perform before large groups of men. All of them are sexually abused.

"Dancing boys" are a lucrative business. Powerful former warlords and businessmen love to watch them and will pay a lot of money to have their own boy for bacha bazi. Some of the boys are traded like swap cards amongst the rich and powerful and if they disobey their "owners" they are killed or brutalised.

The trade in boys is well known to the United Nations. According to Nazir Alimy, who compiled a report on the issue for the UN, there is no doubt who is funding this practice and why the police refuse to stop it.

"According to our research these dancing boys are used by powerful men for sex," Mr Alimy said.

Tonight's Four Corners follows the criminal activity of two paedophiles who search for young boys so they can sell them or groom them to be trained as "dancing boys". In one case the journalist goes in the car with a paedophile named Dastager. As they drive, Dastager explains the type of boy he is looking for. Then in broad daylight the "dancing boy master" stops the car, goes to a shopfront and brings a boy back to his the waiting car.

According to a report prepared for the United Nations there is evidence that the practice of bacha bazi and the sexual abuse of boys is common throughout the north of the country. It confirms that young boys, some of them only 10 years old, are lured into life as a sex slave.

There is also evidence that this type of abuse is spreading throughout Afghanistan.

Mr Alimy says his research shows it is happening in the south and even in the Afghan capital, Kabul.

"It's true they make the boys wear girls' clothes and make them dance in front of many men," he said.

The powerful men he refers to are often former warlords who helped drive the Taliban out of the north. Others who involve themselves in the trade of boys are wealthy businessmen. Under the Taliban, bacha bazi was outlawed. Today it is still a crime but clearly there is no concerted effort being made to stop the practice and the criminal activity that surrounds it.

Unable to find anyone willing to do anything about the abuse of children, journalist Najibullah Quraishi flew to New York to meet Radhika Coomaraswamy, who has been appointed by the UN to raise awareness of the plight of children in war zones.

She explains she is deeply pessimistic about the future of these children and the capacity of officials to stop the trade in young boys.

"When I mentioned the topic it was as if I had dropped a big brick, especially in the circles, official circles," she said.

"It was very clear to me, and someone actually said it to me, these are not things people talk about. So let's first deal with the war and then we'll deal with these other issues."


http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2010 ... ion=justin
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Is that why you are so keen to visit Afghanistan eh-oh? :mrgreen:

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Nope - but you could say that Afghan men and the Bermuda triangle have something in common.
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Yep, I can see the connection - both are fantastical myths that the more gullible think are true! ;)

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I guess all of those abused Afghan dancing boys can now breathe a sigh of relief - it's all a myth because shafique says so.

Move along, nothing to see.....
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I didn't say your fantasies were myths - I merely asked whether you'd be jumping on a plane to Kabul to join the batty boy Taliban for some male bonding?

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event horizon wrote:Nope - but you could say that Afghan men and the Bermuda triangle have something in common.


more like theres a triangle between you, robby "batty" boy and some taliban "batty" boys :D
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It is an interesting fact that eh-oh is spending so much time fantasising about Afghan boys! :shock:

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I can step out of this thread if you and rudeboy want some time alone together.
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Please don't include me in your fantasies young man - I'm happily married! (Sorry to burst your bubble)

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lol Event Hori, looks like i pulled a nerve :D
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shafique wrote:Please don't include me in your fantasies young man - I'm happily married! (Sorry to burst your bubble)

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The mail man's quite happy, too, I hear.
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