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She works In a cafe shop,she is pretty, nice, and never looked silly as other ladies do. my problem is, how can I get her attention? how can I know if she is single, or get her number, I don't wanna lose this chance by making any wrong step. please advice me.

G to tha T wrote:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4D0555EtAZ4

Excellent!!!!

I feel sorry for you bro.... BTW have you ever talked to a woman w/o giving your CreditCard # ?

finny76 wrote:I feel sorry for you bro.... BTW have you ever talked to a woman w/o giving your CreditCard # ?

actually i'm very serious this time, i'm heading for a long term relation,and mainly aiming for marriage. i'm a bit unlucky guy,thats why started to feel nervous, but trying to do my very best. and "G to tha T" opened my eyes on youtubing, i found some useful stuff there, thank you dear.

mmm, how about going all out!! i mean like..

he you nice i like you =)"
"You Single!"
"how about we go for walk / coffee / DATE!"

this either CRUCH everything or start something. depends on her if she likes you back or not.

i think!

"NedaGhenai"

LOLZ! you are so not my dream girl =p

al.3aryoni wrote:mmm, how about going all out!! i mean like..

he you nice i like you =)"
"You Single!"
"how about we go for walk / coffee / DATE!"

this either CRUCH everything or start something. depends on her if she likes you back or not.

i think!

thnx dude, thats what i'm gonna try next time. wish me luck.will update you here,

cheers.

yeah you do that pal, hope the best for you ^^

AWAITING THE GOOD NEWS!

Just talk to her frankly, kindly and sincerely. She will be impressed.

i have an idea, correct me if i was wrong, I'm going for vacation this weekend, what if I brought her a gift, as a souvenir, claiming that she crossed my mind when I was there, and if someone agreed with me, what kind of gift shall I bring?

go talk to her...
be honest and frank..no beating round the bush..

howdy wrote:i have an idea, correct me if i was wrong, I'm going for vacation this weekend, what if I brought her a gift, as a souvenir, claiming that she crossed my mind when I was there, and if someone agreed with me, what kind of gift shall I bring?

Handcuffs, it'll save the police some time after she calls them.

howdy wrote:i have an idea, correct me if i was wrong, I'm going for vacation this weekend, what if I brought her a gift, as a souvenir, claiming that she crossed my mind when I was there, and if someone agreed with me, what kind of gift shall I bring?

That sounds too scary. Just make a chit chat at her shop and ask her out...simple but effective!

ask for coffee and she will ask you want it single or double tell her i want it single and start cry so she will ask you why >>> you will say i remember that i am single and lonely ........ lol sorry dude i feel sleepy

just ask her out ... i think girls love the confident guys so just say what you want frankly in the right time and place ...

The answer to you problem is when you ever get to the shop where she work, just say hi, start a friendly conversation and dont rush, take it a step at a time eventually you'll get to know here better.

The consequences of being frank is it could either be a turn on or a turn off.

try to befriend her...be a regular customer...frankness sometimes associated for being arrogant..some girls dont accept gifts from strangers..

the great news is, at my last visit to her shop, in the last day before i go for vacation, she wasn't there, i asked her collegue, she told me that lady resigned already. watta great luck. now im still far away, i hope when i come back i will be able to contact her.

howdy wrote:She works In a cafe shop,she is pretty, nice, and never looked silly as other ladies do. my problem is, how can I get her attention? how can I know if she is single, or get her number, I don't wanna lose this chance by making any wrong step. please advice me.

Hello...dear
Firstly you go to cafe shop regularly then try to discuss general things, as the days pass on you build a friendly relation then find a right time to propose your feeling. Of course it takes a bit longer time but definitely you will succeed..
Good luck..

the best idea to reach her is by giving her ur mob numb without any fear. as u told she works in a cafe so just go to her work place have a drink and while paying the bill gev her sum tips in that note u write ur mob numb and better u gev it in her hand itsself...

howdy wrote:i have an idea, correct me if i was wrong, I'm going for vacation this weekend, what if I brought her a gift, as a souvenir, claiming that she crossed my mind when I was there, and if someone agreed with me, what kind of gift shall I bring?

wait! does she know that you exist? if she doesn't yet. forget it.
you'll just scare her and you'll be like stalking her.

better to know her first. just be your self. introduce yourself the way you're comfortable at.
and that idea of giving her something from your vacation can be saved after you've already known each other. I mean buy something, and then give it to her after a couple of dinner or coffee together. Perfect timing is important here.

wilfred wrote:the best idea to reach her is by giving her ur mob numb without any fear. as u told she works in a cafe so just go to her work place have a drink and while paying the bill gev her sum tips in that note u write ur mob numb and better u gev it in her hand itsself...

giving your mobile number without the other person asking for it can be offending. It depends on which nation does the girl from. it may work for others but for some, not.

howdy wrote:She works In a cafe shop,she is pretty, nice, and never looked silly as other ladies do. my problem is, how can I get her attention? how can I know if she is single, or get her number, I don't wanna lose this chance by making any wrong step. please advice me.

Well go to that cafe find a question like "excuse me what time is it?" then tell a joke and make her talk, it's hard to say... it should comme naturally. Depends if you're shy or not. Don't start by things like "you're really beautiful" all guys say that she's just going to think you're mister everyone. Try to find something original to say.

its very easy girls like simple things.. just go to her and ask for coffee if she goes with you u can say simply. and can express ur feelings

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