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Panda wrote:i know an arab guy,who slept with so many women before he got married but end up with marrying a virgin wife.he said "it's not acceptable in the country"if wife s not virgin.of cource it's not acceptable for him either.
BOUTEFLIKA wrote:Women don't understand that one should have all their love before marriage: the wife becomes sexless after the vows. Excepting, of course, television soap operas, trashy zines, and choc.
BOUTEFLIKA wrote:Women don't understand that one should have all their love before marriage: the wife becomes sexless after the vows. Excepting, of course, television soap operas, trashy zines, and choc.
Chocoholic wrote:I think you'll find it's the typical double standard, where men are allowed to mess about and sleep with as many women as they wish, but women have to save themselves.
sniper420 wrote:Chocoholic wrote:I think you'll find it's the typical double standard, where men are allowed to mess about and sleep with as many women as they wish, but women have to save themselves.
well if u read some of XXX ads emirati ladies arent saving till the last
Sarah21 wrote:ok first of all I AM A LOCAL !!
im living among locals i know everything thats going on !!
ok im not saying that all local and muslim dont sleep around before marriage but the majority DONT !!
and whoever posted this question was looking for an answer about the real locals here and since im one i do know theis stuff !!
again yes im aware of some who dont stay virgins but those are few !
hell would freez befor a true local muslim girl from a respected family would marry a none virgin local boy and vise versa.
P.S No thank you but even if a local boy is saving himself for me i would never even come close to him im not into locals.
Sarah21 wrote:with all do respect you know why because those locals men who are known more to interact with none local are well known for sleeping around even for us here. thats why you think thats all the local men are like that because those who you saw maybe. However the people who im specking of who are in my circle are all virgins until marriage and i dont think that you get the chance to really go into the deep real circle of locals like where i am form !??
Bethsmum wrote:Sarah21 wrote:with all do respect you know why because those locals men who are known more to interact with none local are well known for sleeping around even for us here. thats why you think thats all the local men are like that because those who you saw maybe. However the people who im specking of who are in my circle are all virgins until marriage and i dont think that you get the chance to really go into the deep real circle of locals like where i am form !??
Sarah, don't believe all men tell you.