I just wonder whether arabian girls except only richness?
other than that what else they expect from guys.
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monymoe wrote:either way, the girls who have lived here for a long time enjoy a certain level of comforts that can only be provided by soemone who has a high salary.
G to tha T wrote:monymoe wrote:either way, the girls who have lived here for a long time enjoy a certain level of comforts that can only be provided by soemone who has a high salary.
Those girls should get jobs if they want to support their materialistic lifestyles instead of waiting for their sugar daddy.
Chocoholic wrote:No there isn't but relying on someone else to provide it for you is shallow and in my book a sig of weakness that you're incapable of dong things for yourself.
Funmantra sadly it is true that many of these girls are pushed into arranged marriages and have little choice.
GT I totally agree with you, if you want something you should earn it! Not only do you get a sense of great satisfaction but it proves you're capable of standin on your own two feet.
None of my female friends have ever relied on a husband/partner to provide for them, they all work damn hard for everything they've got.
monymoe wrote:Chocoholic wrote:No there isn't but relying on someone else to provide it for you is shallow and in my book a sig of weakness that you're incapable of dong things for yourself.
Funmantra sadly it is true that many of these girls are pushed into arranged marriages and have little choice.
GT I totally agree with you, if you want something you should earn it! Not only do you get a sense of great satisfaction but it proves you're capable of standin on your own two feet.
None of my female friends have ever relied on a husband/partner to provide for them, they all work damn hard for everything they've got.
well im glad that we dont live in a world where we do things according to your book now do we? And I dont think its anywhere near true to say that 'many' of these girls are forced into arranged marriages, there is no stat nor calculation capable of proving that point, so its a moot point and shouldnt brought up again.
most of the girls that i know - including the non arab, non muslim ones ive met during my 11 year stay in canada - have told me that they'd MUCH rather sit at home and do nothing and get all the fancy things they want rather than bust their as.s for it. does that mean that all girls want to be princesses? of course not, but to quickly call 'the other side' as lazy is not fair either. men throughout history have been the PROVIDERS, and women the CAREGIVERS.
melika969 wrote:Pretty gal, I think Moms do not give care to receive it back. It’s not some kind of business, Moms do it because it gives them pleasure, It’s some kind of unconditional love, that I think it’s really is a gift in the nature of some women (of course not all of them). So IMHO they do not certainly expect their kids to live by their side to the end of their life. Kids didn’t have the choice to be born… So it’s not fair to expect them to live their life in the way their moms plan for them, moms give care and love to the kids and then all should go to their own path on their own decision…
I am a career woman, I cook once a month and I never do the housework! But I really respect women who decide to raise kids, give love to them and doing the housework, it is really not an easy job to do! I love my mom for the things she has done for us and if someday I wanted to be a mom I want to do it right… I don’t think it’s possible to be a great successful professional in your field and at the same time be a great mother to your kids. It is just your I don’t think it’s possible to be a great successful professional in your field and at the same time be a great mother to your kids.own decision, and it depends on what do u prefer for your life…
All in all, none of these are better than the other, the important thing is be the best at what you are doing and be happy about it.
melika969 wrote:Pretty gal, I agree with you that it depends on the nature of the people. someone like you would be satisfied to work, some other women would be satisfied by raising kids, all I was trying to say that in my opinion you should not get emotional if women names are coming with care givers. I think there is nothing wrong with it, it is as valuable and pretty as working outside the home.
About the thing I said "I don’t think it’s possible to be a great successful professional in your field and at the same time be a great mother to your kids" well I guess the definition of great successful professional is different for me and you. You know if I wanted to be a great successful professional in my field, I should become a HR manager in well known reputable company, I should have lots of studying and trainings to keep my knowledge updated, I should keep on building a huge useful network.So I don't think one woman has the time to do all this besides taking care of kids and pay lots of attention to them and her family. At last we all have limited abilities and we should accept it. maybe one can do this for couple of years but not forever of course. but being a successful expert in a part time job and a great mom to ur children is possible, I agree with you.
Thank u for sharing ur opinion, all I wanna say is that housework and raising children should not be underestimated, those are hard things if u want to do them right!