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I know this forum has been dead for a bit, but I would like to share my 2 cents here.

I've had 4 serious relationships thus far, and all of them were Caucasians. I, however, am mixed. I used to wonder the same thing. What do they really think about us mixies, or Asians, or Arabs, or Africans? If they are open to it, how come we don't see a lot of it.

Well, my question was answered by my girlfriend. White women are brought up differently than their counterpart. Thus, they have a different mentality. A white male will be all open to relationships, fun nights, casual noogie with other races because they aren't thinking of the future. Ask them if they are planning to get married with them. Mostly likely, he will scratch his head and say "I don't know, man. The s*x is pretty good though". A female will be thinking of the future. She wants to find a mate who she can see herself living her whole life with. Someone who will fit in with her family. No culture barriers. So she naturally reserves herself to suitors in her own race because she simply more comfortable with them.

When it comes to attraction, it comes down to looks. I am really really REALLY sorry to say this, but a look of an Asian (Flipino, Chinese etc) is appealing to a limited, mostly their own, audience only. If I go out with a Flipino, she must really posses something extraordinary. I am just not attracted to them one bit. I am sure Flipinas aren't attracted to me either. Absoloutly nothing wrong with that.

Indians and Pakistani's, even though should be considered a separate category, are subjected to same rules. Why separate categories? They are different in nature. They are brought up differently. They also look quite differently too. One just has to have the observant eye. While Indians are usually more open to accommodate, Pakistani's are closely knitted to each other. I would advice any freedom loving white female to not date a Pakistani guy, though how liberal he seems. His upbringing will kick in eventually and you wont like what you see.

So, date away where you feel comfortable. Just be aware of eventual consequences.

Hi. I hear what you say, but you cannot talk for everyone while you only have your own experience to go on.

Look at the USA as a single example, there are a HUGE number of interracial marriages involving Western and Oriental men/women.

You are just wrong with your 'limited appeal' idea. Also western women do not fit your mold, many of them think like men when it comes to s*x and relationships. You must have attracted some very conservative ones (they do still exist).

I agree, 'Date away where you feel comfortable' is good advice, and be slow/careful when dating other races/religions.

Just making a point, my opinion only, no reply needed.

Cheers,

A lot of black women seem to like Asian men A LOT more than white ladies. I was surprised by this but it's cool. Hope they start making those babies. Blasians are hotter than Eurasians IMHO.

I don't necessarily agree!

Earth Kitt isn't blasian. I think she's predominately Native-American with black. I think she was sexy and pretty (in an unusually way)

That was why I said I don't necessarily agree......

beautiful day outside today here in vancouver BC.....there has been some rain, and the sky is still overcast as I look outta my window......and the girls of this city are absolutely stunning! Chinese, Cauacasin, Pakistani, Indian...I have NO complaints. I can tell you though, the old adage that physical "beauty is only skin deep",still holds very true. Get to know the person, to really appreciate his/her beauty......

hey lady you really rock..... but trust me its not gonna be easy nut to crack for ya.... finding a man who's that mature ain't gonna be easy ! but you can try me ha ha ha

somehow I think not....

im an arab woman,i was in love with an indiam man for 6years,i didnt have any prob with nationality ,color or religion,we planed evry thing about the weeding and he even spook to my family but since 3months i descover he was maried and have a son since 2 years!!
but i still like asian man i feel thy are hot:)

cruising for another bruising then...

Indian men are categorized as asian? I know india is in Asia but I though Asian men means men from china or japan...

fatinagma, that gives me a nice warm feeling! Tell that to Ms Chocoholic...

melika969 wrote:Indian men are categorized as asian? I know india is in Asia but I though Asian men means men from china or japan...

In the UK Indians often refer to themselves as Asian. Even black!

If Anatolya (a part of Turkey) is also called Asia Minor, it's not too hard to see that India, Pakistan, etc are actually part of Asia.

fatinagma wrote:im an arab woman,i was in love with an indiam man for 6years,i didnt have any prob with nationality ,color or religion,we planed evry thing about the weeding and he even spook to my family but since 3months i descover he was maried and have a son since 2 years!!
but i still like asian man i feel thy are hot:)

Hard to believe! You were with him for 6 yrs and then discovered he had a son of 2 yrs? So basically while dating you, he got married on the side, had a child and you did'nt even notice it?
Ok...let's assume you knew nothing bout his wife cuz she was back in India, even then what kinda cheap man would not bring his wife to live with him? Hon did you fall for the driver? And were you his bank?
And you still say you like Asian men, cuz they are hot(???)...if you'd said sensitive, polite, stable job as a accountant blah blah I might have believed you!

It really doesn't sound as though she's interested in their credentials as a life partner, m8

Looks like another abused wife in the making.

i love men and woman of all colors!

hi i'm new here, i found this place by accident

but i'd just like to comment on this cos i notice there's alot of talk of this sort of thing, i'm with an asian girl, and i have a few asian friends also so i think i can give a bit of insight into this asian men with european women, there's 2 sides to the reason why you dont see quite as many asian men with white women, there's a superficial side and a social perception one

(i'd like to say before hand, that i'm a white, british guy, my opinion has been formed only by talking to people that i know, so if you think i'm wrong maybe its because i dont know the same people that you do, and i welcome any additional views or perspectives on what i'm saying)

the first one is, european guys tend to be taller, bigger physically, that has to be an initial influence as to whether a girl fancies a guy, add to that the european women are also taller and larger... i'm talking in averages here, i know there are some big asian guys.

the second thing here, is a social thing. asian men seem to expect certain things from thier partner, and european women dont like being told what to do! by contrast asian women are more accomodating. i work with an indian guy and the way he talks about women... i can see why he doesnt date many white women dispite the fact he's very attracted to blonde hair and big boobs! for a superficial relationship he has a hight disadvantage and for a more meaningful relationship he has a cultural disadvantage.... very old fashioned and sexist! plus indians can be mummies boys! they always answer to their mother! (please note i'm not saying all asian or indian boys are like this but its the cultural norm) i mean in indian culture when a guy gets married to a woman, they move in with his mother and the rest of the family! the thought of this is abhorrent to a western woman! european couples on the other hand tend to embark on lives that are a little more independant of thier family which women appreciate more (nobody wants to be bossed around by thier mother in law thier whole life)

i know the indian guy example is an extreme one, but my point is, asian men can be a bit more conservative

the final factor in this equation, and i saved the best for last is asian womens perspective of european men; most asian girls that i've spoken to, when asked, will say they think that european men treat thier wives better! whether its true or not, that was thier opinion. also a european man is less likely to try to make his wife change her religion or culture (my partner is roman catholic... i'm christian other, and although i dont agree with her beliefs, i fully support her attempts to be closer to God, even if they are misguided from my perspective)
a european woman wont want to cover her hair all the time, she wont want you telling how long her skirt has to be or how revealing her cloths can be, she wont want you telling her not to socialise with her girlfriends and she doesnt want to live with your mother! and given half a chance i think most asian women would choose not to do those things too!

like i said... before you all shoot me down in flames, my opinion is formed only by observation, and what i know, if anything i've said is horribly incorrect, please feel free to correct me, but do so politely

In my opinion, non-Asian women need to come clean and stop dodging around the topic so they don't imply themselves as racists. From my experience, when I hung out at a girl's house, who was friends with these white and mexican guys I knew, she hardly acknowledged me, and I tried to show interest, but she didn't have that same twinkle in her eye like she did with the other guys. American girls are really a mixed bag. They want equal rights with men(e.g. in the workplace, etc), but they love assholes or ones that aren't nice guys, which is considered too feminine, or doesn't tell a good story or build up drama. Now, this is on average, and does not apply to all women, as there are extremes and outliers.

It's strange cause in our culture, we consider big square jaws and chiseled cheekbones masculine, which northeast asians have, and a less wide nose, but African men, mostly the ones in the sub-sahara don't exhibit these features. I think people need to study and educate themselves more.

Also, Asia is more of a patriachical society, and we've followed biblical principles, because we've carried the religion of Noah in one of the sacred books. Ideally, God likes variety which is why he separated the races. We have culture and have invented some key items that changed the world. It's funny how we are considered the lowest of the mating pool. So in my opinion, we have more discipline than women, and women need to confess about basing their mating choices upon looks. Because most women seem embarrassed to be around an asian man cause he isn't a rebel or anarchist enough and let's himself go stupid for the sake of keeping a woman. That and we're family oriented like one guy said. Women on average don't like to be in public with another person's family, they'd rather go act wild and stupid with their friends. Now please bow.

BillyLee wrote:From my experience, when I hung out at a girl's house, who was friends with these white and mexican guys I knew, she hardly acknowledged me, and I tried to show interest, but she didn't have that same twinkle in her eye like she did with the other guys...........but they love assholes or ones that aren't nice guys, which is considered too feminine, or doesn't tell a good story or build up drama. Now please bow.

Rejection issues???

So, you are not an a$$hole (an opinion which I can't agree with), and since are a nice guy meaning you are feminine, can't tell a good story, and have no drama, what do you expect????

I have 2 friends, both of whom are Asian, who are married long term to European ladies. They get on very well and are totally compatible. Where is the problem?



Knight

Dubai Knight wrote:I have 2 friends, both of whom are Asian, who are married long term to European ladies. They get on very well and are totally compatible. Where is the problem?



Knight

Is'nt it supposed to be the other way round? Old aged European men with nubile young Asian women....off-course in it till death do them part!

Misery Called Life wrote:

Dubai Knight wrote:I have 2 friends, both of whom are Asian, who are married long term to European ladies. They get on very well and are totally compatible. Where is the problem?



Knight

Is'nt it supposed to be the other way round? Old aged European men with nubile young Asian women....off-course in it till death do them part!

Well if she dies, she dies!!



Knight

er isn't it down to personal taste? Some people ust don't find others attractive - end of really.

From my point of view, the western people have a good physique and appearance, so they attract each other... Asian people just don't fit that profile. No hard feelings people, I'm an asian too!

KateGarden ,hi kate im looking white women can u help me

Chocoholic , ooo really so what is your type I am Pakistani height 6.2 body athletic any one want me ??

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