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Recently I got into an argument with ma bf. It was a stupid row,but i ended up slapping him. I feel really bad abt wht happened,but now he's avoiding ma calls. What's t best way 2 apologise?



by t way,I'm new member here)))

just stop saying 'ma'

If a woman should never take a man back who slaps her, why should a man take a woman back who slaps him? You can apologise to him if you want, but what guarantee does he have that you won't slap him again?

Yes i would like to know where the Dubai Male's shelter is.

seriously the mods should censor bullshit posts like these

No, I wanna see where this ends

PS - If a woman slapped me, I would never speak to her again. Violence in a relationship is never the answer.

Ouch. Slapping a guy is like slapping his ego. You're in real trouble there. I mean how would you feel if he laid a finger on you?

Liban wrote:PS - If a woman slapped me, I would never speak to her again. Violence in a relationship is never the answer.

I like you already...

i dont get it when people type here likes its an sms. lets make it clear.

you are not getting charged by the number of charachters people

So true guys, sadly domestic violence against men is more common than people realise, just men don't admit to it.

What was the argument about, I mean if he'd just told you he'd cheated, then maybe warranted BUT if just a silly argument, not really justified. I could never hit my BF, probably because he'd slap me straight back, then where would we be.

Agree with Choco and Liban,

Domestic violance shouldn't exist. Men who hit women are cowards to take it on a lady.

Even worse, ladies who slap her boyfriend......

Men hit women, they take advantage of their physical superiority.

Women hit men, they take advantage of the man's love to them. "you didn't think why he didn't slap you back" probably because he loves you.

But .... Not anymore, he is borken, his ego is.


Choco, don't know, but your words about women slapping man more might be true, as men don't talk about this if happened i think.

Gurl, appologise and if took you back..... he would be too kind to be yours.

Kanelli : if he'll forgive me,I won't slap him again.

Kat85 : probably I would do t same thing as he did.

Chocoholic : his friend had confessed that ma guy is fallen for some1 else,but can't decide what 2 do. I know his friend was only being honest,he didnt want a pb like that.but i was gutted,so i had a little talk I didnt want to hurt him

I dont want to lose him,so what now? ((


Thanks every1 for ur replys.

lady_nampy_pampy wrote:Recently I got into an argument with ma bf. It was a stupid row,but i ended up slapping him. I feel really bad abt wht happened,but now he's avoiding ma calls. What's t best way 2 apologise?



by t way,I'm new member here)))

I dont make argument with GFs in real life , i do it over phone or MSN Beta 7.5 version . You know if the things go wrong ,girls start crying or make noise and all public consider the men as culprit for " tear of women" .

If a girl slap me, i will tell my moma

HP : I wish he didnt tell his mum

lady_nampy_pampy wrote:HP : I wish he didnt tell his mum

Hey

Hit him with your best shot ,i mean kiss him at the part
where u slapped

PS" dont hit him below the belt

If our lass slapped me, I would be an assertive, dominant male by threatening to never again do the washing up, cooking, ironing or hoovering

HP : If he won't forgive me , I'll kick him where it reaaally hurts

Goodbai : Let's just wish it won't happen

lady_nampy_pampy wrote:HP : If he won't forgive me , I'll kick him where it reaaally hurts

Send him SMS with this text

" Hi sweetheart this is me lady nampy pampy .......i know u are pissed off because i slaped you . I am regretting what i did , you can slap me if if its bring our relationship back"

OR

if he says he will slap u then send him text message no 2


" Hi sweetheart , what will u do if a donkey kick you? are u gonna kick the donkey back? if so then what would be the difference between a donkey and u " ".

Tips

why do u not threat him that you will boycott him and find a another guy .... for example HP ben invent . I am quite nice guy , you can not find any techncial defect in me , oh oh dont think that i am running on Linux server .

I mean i am Good ,Gooder ,Goodest guy

HP : I'll send to him this SMS right away,but I already know his answer. I think we are not going to b together anymore,it was my big mistake tnx for ur advise

Send him a message " Hi honey, its me and my friend that you always flirt with when were drunk, I know I said that I would never share you, but since I will *do anything* to get you back, *WE* are waiting for you.... she said you could slap her as much as you want "

I usually hold out untill I get a message like this, then I will usually go back. Its worked a couple of times, I am a real sucker for it

HP- dawg, you were running some decent game until you ended it with the Linux joke...

Ms Dubai Forums has you guys scared to talk up girls here....
It is OK, its not indecent, as much as she would have you believe different- She is british....

HP wrote:

lady_nampy_pampy wrote:HP : I wish he didnt tell his mum

Hey

Hit him with your best shot ,i mean kiss him at the part
where u slapped

PS" dont hit him below the belt

You are so bad HP!

u slaped ur bf and u have made it a big deal, and yaa more of worse by posting on df,

some old stupid someone said

dont fall for someone whom u love but fall for someone who loves u ... soo girl leave him if he loves u he will be back and if not then he never loved u .. and was finding a reason to get rid of u .. its not tht bad tht u slaped him, u didnt like something u got angry soo u slaped and u cant slap everyone u can only slap the person whom u love or like and think tht u have the rite over them .... no worries u aint wrong and if he is not back to u then someone better is waiting for u just look around


remember wht ever happens, happens for good ... tc

you are obviously crazy and cannot control your emotions. if my g/f slapped me it would be the last touch she would ever give me..........


then i would have a legitimate excuse for having a crack at her sister

Thank u all guys ,for ur replyes ! Virgo : maybe u r right,he just found a reason to break up with me. he didnt reply on ma msgs,now I'll just wait ,who nows,maybe he'll change his mind...

Lady namy pamy ,

leave the guy , now stop sending him text message ,he doesnt worth
1 AED. You can find better guy I think he was finding an excuse to leave u and now let him to enjoy wid his hand .......oh oh dont take it wrong ,i mean he must be thinking that he culd use his hand on you

I am all alone ,today microsoft sent a mail in my inbox " how can i share velentine day wid my lover" .........i thought now Bill Gate is making fun of my lonelyness " .

We can make good realtionship between Pakistan and Russia

You won't do it again? Bullshit!

This is the cycle of violence..you're no different than a guy who beats his wife.

If this was vice versa, then people would be bashing the guy for hitting a woman. You know what...everyone deserves respect from the other and just b/c you're a woman doesn't give you the right to strike anyone.

You should feel bad, you're a bad person. I don't care what any one else says or how angry you get..what's next..you children? Bet they'd love that! Just dispicable.

If I were your boyfriend, I'd never talk to you again. lots of unabusive people in the world that can also spell!

Good luck, you deserve nothing.

T

come on guys , give her break ,is it new thing for u

Are you drunk?

Since when does slapping justify a break. NO breaks given.

Let's reverse the roles....guy slaps girl.

Then what's your response. HP wake up.

This is a cycle of violence...brewing.

T