According to a new American study 95% of men depend on their wives or girlfriends to make the first move when in mood for making love and the ones to start the soft talk !!
Men only use those moves at the beginning of the relation to gain the heart of a women then abandon this roll or ignore it thinking that their roll toward smoothing the sex atmosphere is no more needed the minute they won the woman heart or got married !
Women in physiology terms uses 52 moves to get close to her husband or lover, men has only 10. this could be one of the reason behind this mystery .