puppypup wrote:Hands down LOVE for me but I'm practical and know I may never find "romantic" love. I have love of family, friends, future pets but I may never find romantic love. Part of remaining sane is accepting that. I channel my sexless loveless life on taking care of myself physically and financially. For my mental well-being I travel, eat good food, and indulge in hobbies.
In my menopausal future I may regret not indulging in casual love NOW because I believe in love. La la la
Nice, i admire you logic. And you seem to be living quite the complete life. Dare I say I envy you.
My bone of contention is, look Romance is highly over-rated. It's those little flings which make the hair at the back of your hand stand still....Those lil flings educate you about men, and make life that much more exciting. With these flings ur expectations of men become that much more realistic.
So go ahead enjoy some $ex, love will come if it has to. And if love doesn't come by, then you can always say, I didn't miss out on much, apart from smelly socks and unnecessary heartache.
Cheers!
