Linda I do agree with quite a bit of what you are saying, and I am starting to see that perhaps my current viewpoints about terrorism and terrorists are a result of paying too much attention to the negative articles from the news media.
I'm glad I was able to present a different opinion to the discourse, always enlightening to have discussions like these. Sadly not everybody is willing to genuinely have a constructive dialogue, like you did.
I don't think I am the only one doing this though, because there are also Arab citizens who believe the negative propaganda about the West as well.
I completely agree, and think that a major reformation in the way Arab media addresses the West, is in order.
We must keep in mind though, that:
1-The Arab "propaganda" is not really harmful to the West, since apart from influential channels such as Al-Jazeera, the Arab world possesses no real weapons in it's arsenal, to further it's desired "policy" on the ground. They're almost like a goat on Eid waiting for the slaughter..... whining in their media is all they can do.
On the other hand, if the western populations believed the stuff their media spewes, wars could go with their consent, which happened and is continuing to happen. And that is extremely devastating for the Arab/Islamic world.
2-It is very hard for the Arab media, to be impartial in its coverage, when the negative aspects of the western policies is affecting the Arab/Islamic world on a daily basis. I don't really blame them for the "negative" coverage, because what they cover is not emphazised.... it is truly what is relevant to their plight.
a-The west supports some of the most ruthless dictatorships in the Arab world.
b-The West created and helped ensure the survival of an alien state (Israel) of which the repercussions are still echoing today. Everytime an Arab sees a Palestinian (brother) anywhere, he/she is reminded of the western bias.
c-Iraq, Syria, Sudan ....and more.
Wheres the context of making stories about how wonderful the West is, when it's irrelevant to the Arab/Muslim mind, considering the factors I mentioned above.
Arabs/Muslims naturally blame western populations on some level, and we should blmae ourselves too, since our governments' policies don't spring out of thin air, they are democratic entities of which we should have control over, or else what are we doing trying to shove that model down the world's throat, if we ourselves have no real control over them?
Do we have the illusion of democracy? Since most of the candidates have been picked out by the corporations anyway? And the really good ones don't have money to get on the media and for us to know about them? But that's another issue.
Why isn't this message getting out? More importantly, how can this message be spread? Also, who should be responsible for getting this message out?
1-Because the current in our culture that advocates peace and harmony has been under fierce attacks. The wing that believes in war/clash of civilizations is the one in charge.
2-Because of continuous villification of Islam and Muslims going on since the Crusades, it's a natural series of events to lead to this animosity.
3-Because Islam is a useful "demon" for those who wish no peace. Or else how can we justify this huge arsenal the West has after the fall of USSR?
4-Because we need a foreign enemy to divert our attention from our own society's inequities.
5-Because The West as a "loose" front would disintegrate into quarreling entities, if it weren't for new "unifying" enemies.
I think that the notion of Islamic terrorism and threat is beyond repair in the USA. But there is hope in Europe. I think that muslim communities in Europe should bite the bullet and do much more to let out this message. Also some of our own enlightened "elite" should be up to the task of reversing this sickening growing fundamentalism in Europe. I mean almost every EU country has seen an unimaginable rise in Right Wing parties. It would be hard to imagine that happening without the act of scaring people shitless of muslims.
You can do a small part (Like I try to do) in talking about it with the western expats here in Dubai.... They'll go back to their countries at one point. Hopefully with a more balanced view.
The Arab media (what I can read in English) is constantly emphasising the negatives about Israel and the West, just as the same is going on in the West about other countries. Let's be fair!
Already replied to that in the start. Israel -as far as Arabs and Muslims go- is a state that kicked a part of them out of their country, and established a reign of blood and fire..... What should they be reporting about it?
Throughout history all kinds of civilisations thought themselves superior to what they consider less powerful civilisations. This brought difficulties in relations, and suppression and war. It is sad to see this continuing, and I will certainly try to re-think my view on things.
I agree.
It's funny, but industrial/economic might is what enhances, and sometimes even creates this sense of superiority. Asia's motto in the 60s (apart from China) was following the West's ways and abolishing the hindering factors (their original Asian local beliefs).
Nevertheless, as soon as the boom happened, we saw a reverse. And Asian leaders (and people) saw this as an indication of Asian/Eastern superiority to the West.
"Gone are the days when the West sneezing, would give Asia a flu" is one bellowing statments made by Malaysia's PM during the peak of their growth.
You mentioned in your last post some areas where different cultures might clash, like views on immorality and women's rights. I am not religious, but I definitely think that there is a lot of rot developing in my own culture. Look at the reality shows that broadcast young people getting drunk and having fun with or fooling around with many people. Not exactly a positive message to youth. There is a lot of fashion in the West that I consider too revealing. With the exception of bathing suits at the beach, why do we need to go to the mall and see someone's butt cheeks hanging out the back of shorts or a skirt, and why do we need see-through dresses and tops with necklines that plunge to the bellybutton?
Hmm .... I think that it's each to their own. I just think that you should handle whatever consequences your choice of lifestyle entitles.
But I do agree that it seems that a major part of the Western youth are becoming more and more vain.
I shake my head in sorrow everytime an Arab youth (even if someone who might be a drinker/adulterer) sits before me and goes on and on about his nation's plight, and explains the factors/consequences ....etc etc, when at the same time, his peer in Europe/US is worrying about the next rave party, or whether Brad and Jen are staying together or breaking up. Our youth is apathetic and pathetic. I do not exclude myself. If it weren't for getting engaged to an Arab man, I think that I would have probably stayed away from these very important issues affecting our lives today. I used to work like a mule from Monday to Friday, only waiting to get shitfaced on the weekend, repeat cycle. At the same time relishing at the notion of my "kind's" superiority. How stupid. How misled.
I'm a believer in free speech, but it does get abused. What on earth makes people want to watch Jerry Springer or Maury Povich, which show a bunch of uneducated people with major social problems. What is with The Osbournes and Jackass - that show more disfunctional people saying and doing stupid things. There is some kind of weird psychology to it, but in the end the result is the dumbing down of the culture.
I agree. And it's sad that what used to be "enlightened" and "sophisticated" Europe is following suite.
When it comes to women's rights, I don't consider wearing an Abaya as a suppression of rights as long as it is the woman's choice to wear it or not. If a religious woman wants to cover herself so that she doesn't attract the attention of men, that is fine. It is always a bit annoying to see a man wearing shorts and a fitted t-shirt on a hot day, while his wife is covered in long black cloth from head to toe. It just doesn't seem fair that he exposes his limbs and body for women to see, yet his wife has to cover everything. I suppose that is their business though...
No it's not fair. I think muslims have their share of social/tradition-opposed-to-Islam problems for them to solve. I know a gay local, who enjoys the most extreme of gay-sex "fetishism", but who said -nevertheless- that he wouldn't go with his wife (future wife) to a mixed gathering, even if she was wearing her Hijab. Now that's retarded. And I'm saying this because every non-local muslim sitting there almost jumped to beat this guy up. It's a twisted adherence to "traditions", when Islam came to eradicate false traditions in the first place.
I'm not saying the above is the rule, but I do think that a lot of people should have more courage to follow what they think is right.
In Saudi Arabia I think it is a shame that women can't drive a car, but I don't have to live there. If I did, I'd follow the rules.
Retarded as well. And has no basis in Islam, since women even at the Prophet Mohammed's days used to go to war with men, riding on their camels ...etc. I think it's just chauvinistic male behaviour.
In some countries and cultural communities honour killings are acceptable, as is forced circumcision, and forced arranged marriages. In my culture those would be viewed as barbaric and old-fashioned
1-Forced female circumcision has been outlawed/banned by the congregation of Islamic scholars a while back. But like I said, these traditions are hard to kill. Even before that "fatwa" the phenomenon was not widespread and only limited to some areas of Africa, where Pagans. muslims, and christians did it alike.
I don't think you were referring to male circumcision were you?
2-Arranged marriages have got to go. And again, it has no basis in Islam. A clear independent YES by both the bride-to-be and groom-to-be is required for the marriage to be authentic in Islam.
Even less significant traditions can cause some cultures to feel more civilised than another. For example, did you read the amusing letter in 7days that talked about the practice of slaughtering goats for Eid in the Springs? I can't believe the woman wrote it. She thought it was
ing and upsetting to everyone else that the goats were slaughtered "in an upscale neighbourhood like the Springs". Hey, we are living in a culture where this is accepted and it is not less civilised to do so. Killing an animal for meat isn't pretty, whether it is done in a backyard or an abatoir. That woman really needs to get some perspective.
I live in the Springs, but have no idea about that story. It's so annoying to see this brand of self-centrism and gigly-head bimboism. I'll check on it, and maybe give her a piece of my mind if I could identify her. Where does the idiot think that all the meat products she eats come from?
Though I can admit that I would never have respect for a family that kills one of their family members for a perceived wrong-doing or failure to marry a chosen person. I have limits )
Also against Islam. Everybody is to be trialled for his/her own sins, and it's no body else's business. Honour-killing is only valid in Jordan I think. And it's easy to see why. It's a way for a king with an english mom who can't even speak Arabic correctly, and who's the West's puppet (while being a ruthless dictator by the way) to indulge the ancient and chauvinist traditions to safe-guard his rule in a tribal setting.