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Hi,
I am posting this topic here, what's Important in life? Love or Successful future? Please add your comments.

In my openion first a man should take a good stand before falling in love.

I feel successful future is that 1 thing which can make you strong...
because when u say successful future everything comes in it...
money,power,relationships-friends,parents...these things are valuable...
love is impt as long as it gives u happiness.....
without love life seems very lifeless...thats what i feel...
both are impt but success has more weightage i feel..

neither...

focus on my future is more important then love for me

What's wrong with having both?



Knight

alione101 wrote:Hi,
I am posting this topic here, what's Important in life? Love or Successful future? Please add your comments.

For those who focus / seek future success (AKA Career) will end up being miserable no real social life... his/her partner will end up with a busy person who got no time but work and they will choose the job over their partners.

Those who focus on relationships and choose love and heart over other important things... this type of person is actually a disaster to make a relationship with... every time they get hurt easily... they want you to love them all the time.. and they end up being very jealous people...

neither Love or Successful future are important... whats important is to focus on becoming a better person... someone with high moral values and wise... this kind of people will naturally become successful in career, love life, are very healthy and role models to others

my two fils

Dubai Knight wrote:What's wrong with having both?



Knight

if you can focus on both and success then you are a lucky man
halaluya

Miss_lolly wrote:

Dubai Knight wrote:What's wrong with having both?



Knight

if you can focus on both and success then you are a lucky man
halaluya

I have been rich and poor in both love and career...

I can confirm, 'Rich' is better!



Knight

quatroporte wrote:

alione101 wrote:Hi,
I am posting this topic here, what's Important in life? Love or Successful future? Please add your comments.

For those who focus / seek future success (AKA Career) will end up being miserable no real social life... his/her partner will end up with a busy person who got no time but work and they will choose the job over their partners.

Those who focus on relationships and choose love and heart over other important things... this type of person is actually a disaster to make a relationship with... every time they get hurt easily... they want you to love them all the time.. and they end up being very jealous people...

neither Love or Successful future are important... whats important is to focus on becoming a better person... someone with high moral values and wise... this kind of people will naturally become successful in career, love life, are very healthy and role models to others

my two fils

its hard to believe to what you say is true...
being kind doensnt help you stand anywhere in life....
you must have come across emotional people who are kind enough,,they neither have success,,nor have love with them.
i'll tell the reason why is it so???

1.for being successful you need shrewd mind,,,power,position...
person who is kind cannot handle these things properly...this is in terms of business.

2.for having love...you should know how to handle your love properly...handle the person whom you love I mean..If in this situation you are kind...I am sure somebody else would come and snatch away your love...

anyways..was just giving my view...not contradicting...

prettygal wrote:

quatroporte wrote:

alione101 wrote:Hi,
I am posting this topic here, what's Important in life? Love or Successful future? Please add your comments.

For those who focus / seek future success (AKA Career) will end up being miserable no real social life... his/her partner will end up with a busy person who got no time but work and they will choose the job over their partners.

Those who focus on relationships and choose love and heart over other important things... this type of person is actually a disaster to make a relationship with... every time they get hurt easily... they want you to love them all the time.. and they end up being very jealous people...

neither Love or Successful future are important... whats important is to focus on becoming a better person... someone with high moral values and wise... this kind of people will naturally become successful in career, love life, are very healthy and role models to others

my two fils

its hard to believe to what you say is true...
being kind doensnt help you stand anywhere in life....
you must have come across emotional people who are kind enough,,they neither have success,,nor have love with them.
i'll tell the reason why is it so???

1.for being successful you need shrewd mind,,,power,position...
person who is kind cannot handle these things properly...this is in terms of business.

2.for having love...you should know how to handle your love properly...handle the person whom you love I mean..If in this situation you are kind...I am sure somebody else would come and snatch away your love...

anyways..was just giving my view...not contradicting...

you need to read my post again... I never said kindness anywhere!!!!

when I say a better person... is a person who focus on being successful with in himself...

anyway its a long topic to explain to you what it does stand for...

perhaps you need to read a book "the 7 habits of highly effective people" or read one of Robin Sharma's books and you will know what I am talking about

wow ! a resounding Bright Future - very interesting Poll - i think love is so predictable and expected these days....where as Bright Future is more of a challenge for most of us....

Love lost ones again ha..

well who cares really after all this drink.

Money ,give me lots of mulla,oh yeah!!!!!!!!!!!

According to me successful future is more important in life.

both is important.
we couldn't call life a success minus love. when something's missing, how can we call it successful?
and we couldn't completely love when we have much insecurities and living an unsuccessful, misserable life.

we'll just need to choose which one to prioritize.

lucky are those who have both love and sure successul future.

im so unlucky not to have both

My priority goes first to successful life and profession. this is way will b useful for u and luv can come thru.

at least a successful life can hit u n the back.

But luv even if it is called true luv can by one second hit u in ur heart and make u miserable. as i'm now,, its painful.



Silent

Luck.

some people want to spend their life with their love, it could work if the love is true,

alione101 wrote:Hi,
I am posting this topic here, what's Important in life? Love or Successful future? Please add your comments.

All the way love.

Sucess comes and goes .But if you are lucky to get that true love,nothing like it

marie_m wrote:both is important.
we couldn't call life a success minus love. when something's missing, how can we call it successful?
and we couldn't completely love when we have much insecurities and living an unsuccessful, misserable life.

we'll just need to choose which one to prioritize.

lucky are those who have both love and sure successul future.

im so unlucky not to have both

I am single and ready to mingle

Successful future, I agree.

In regards to this thread... have you ever heard of a the story of a success full man who has every thing he can afford of. but one day on his way home he suddenly stops the car in the middle of the road and started crying. As he cries he utter this word, im so successful but whom will i go home and share it with?

so for me its both.

No!.. Love is more importent then anything, I mean people don't think over when you don't have nothing.. but even you have evrything in hand n live with out love, i wil say that's not the life!... no one agree ..but i do becouse i experainced it!!........

Success on personal and professional level is when u wake up in the morning and happy with what u see in the mirror. How you achieve it is a different story

Aha.. ..what's the use of having love and no money? and then what's the use of having money and no love??????.......so as it is...it boils down to the same things over & over again.. ....so to conclude here..every person has to make his/her choice... .either love or money. ..to each his own....but I am happy having love

You're a Lucky Man then!.........

Successful future is more important

Successful Future....Love ain't gonna feed you, Love ain't gonna get you a shelter on ur head and neither is love gonna clothe you. Chew on that!

Hands down LOVE for me but I'm practical and know I may never find "romantic" love. I have love of family, friends, future pets but I may never find romantic love. Part of remaining sane is accepting that. I channel my sexless loveless life on taking care of myself physically and financially. For my mental well-being I travel, eat good food, and indulge in hobbies.

In my menopausal future I may regret not indulging in casual sex NOW because I believe in love. La la la