What White Women Think Of Asian Men?

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Jan 29, 2009
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sniper420 wrote:HAHAHA old man.....these internet days guys mature faster than when u were on ur humping days ...... "some" guys are learning faster abt woman's psychology than most due in their lifetime. Seriously Kull how many women have u approached in your lifetime?


Approached? My word...son, if I answered what I take to be the question behind your question, your various bumpy parts would shrivel up and hide in embarrassment.

I'll leave on a pretty dismissive note, but not before giving you the most helpful and beautiful piece of advice that's ever been given to a man. "There is no excellent beauty that hath not some strangeness in the proportion" [that's from Francis Bacon]. Every wonderfully beautiful woman, in other words, is wonderfully beautiful because she in some gorgeous way violates our previous understanding of beauty, expands it, enriches it. Because she establishes herself as *uniquely* beautiful, and not the fulfillment of some idiotic set of rules we formulated in our teenage years.

Your posts here--from the hilariously misguided-yet-cocksure theories on male-female psychology to the stroking-to-FHM descriptions of your required measurements--suggest the sort of juvenile confidence that comes from, well, reading FHM, Maxim and similar publications. Sleep with a real woman for once. Or twenty. Or a hundred. And then get back to me, 'kay? Until then, there's far, far more under Heav'n than is dream't of in your philosophy [that's paraphrased from Billy Shakespeare].


I didn't mean to offend you but by your reaction I got to know how many women u have been and what kind of relationships were they.

About the quote from Francis Bacon well it is nice quote but let me tell you something many poets and philosophers had disasterous relationships with women. They just dream and write what could have been. Now let me read about Francis personal life from wikipedia:

"When he was 36, Francis engaged in the courtship of Elizabeth Hatton, a young widow of 20. Reportedly, she broke off their relationship upon accepting marriage to a wealthier man. Years later, Bacon still wrote of his regret that the marriage to Elizabeth had never taken place"

"At the age of forty five, Bacon married Alice Barnham (1592–1650), the fourteen year old daughter of a well-connected London alderman and M.P. Bacon wrote three sonnets proclaiming his love for Alice" which corroborates my previous theory .

"The first sonnet was written during his courtship and the second sonnet on his wedding day"

"Lady Bacon was given precedence over all other Court ladies"

Now "Bacon disinherited her upon discovering her secret romantic relationship with John Underhill. He rewrote his will, which had previously been very generous to her (leaving her lands, goods, and income), revoking it all."

As usual women dump them cos they put women on pedestal

Now u r lumping me with other so called "teenage humping" lovers but let me tell you this women may say they want men who admire them , obey them, give em roses, keep them happy which caters only good side of their emotions. But let me tell u one thing I can bet 100% that if you do the above ALL the time then she WILL lose attraction. I have continuously noticed these "nice bfs" dumped if not dumped their relationship is bland..... why cos the female subconsciously gets turned off. Why?

Let's go back to early hunter days when women needed security and food from hunters. A good hunter will provide abundant resource to woman/women and most of the time will be attracted by many women. He is in short "mating material" cos of good genes. Mating with himm will ensure she will get babies who will have high survival value over a man who cant hunt for his own.

Most women dont know about themselves, they NEED a MAN to help them explore their feminity, discover themselves and take them for a ride. She will be ready to ride if she feels a strong man and she can let her inner feminity out.


I will have to second that, people who mention all these romantic sounding things about women are obviously the ones living in a dream world, a woman wants to feel feminine, the more womanly she is and the manlier the man needed to make her feel this way, plain and simple. The average man wants to believe that women are mysterious and impossible to understand, but this is just so far from the truth. The fact of the matter is the day most men and women accept reality, which is that women want REAL men, everything will become much more simple.

Forget about finding out what women want by asking them, they don't even know it themselves! A more productive exercice is to look at the men any particular woman has been involved with, you will notice certain common traits (which are usually the direct opposite of what she will say she wants if asked) this will give you data that has much more to do with reality.

Oh by the way, I have approached and dated hundreds of women, and I always have way more than I can handle coming at me, for those who might think I've been reading Maxim of FHM a little too much. 8)

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Feb 08, 2009
i remember reading studies done on interracial marriages and asian men and black women were the least likely to date or marry outside their race
it could be because of stereotypes about those two groups...or maybe they're attracted more to their own groups...who knows..but im willing to believe its the former
anyway...ppl are attracted to certain physical features and it is what it is
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Feb 09, 2009
^Blasians tend to be so hot!!! That mix needs to procreate more.
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Blasians?? Did you make that up?
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I think he means; Black Asians, or otherwise know as: Brazilian ;)
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totally agree :)
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puppypup is stupid......... back to topic
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barbarella wrote:i remember reading studies done on interracial marriages and asian men and black women were the least likely to date or marry outside their race
it could be because of stereotypes about those two groups...or maybe they're attracted more to their own groups...who knows..but im willing to believe its the former
anyway...ppl are attracted to certain physical features and it is what it is


I always saw a few black women with white men in the UK (and vice versa), but I cant recall too many asian men with women of other ethnicities.

And on the original thread, of course it's a widely held view that asian men are 'smaller'. I have no idea personally if it's true, Well that's a lie, I have seen certain 'films' and I think it seems true. However I think young asian guys are now often perceived as being sharp and cool by girls in the UK and so a girl might like one on her arm....? I'm just rambling, shoot me.
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RobbyG wrote:I think he means; Black Asians, or otherwise know as: Brazilian ;)


Wikipedia says: Afro-Asian, or Blasian, refers to a person of mixed Black African and East or Southeast Asian ancestry."

Think supermodel Naomi Campbell (born in Streatham, hahaha....and the airs she puts on....).
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barbarella wrote:i remember reading studies done on interracial marriages and asian men and black women were the least likely to date or marry outside their race
it could be because of stereotypes about those two groups...or maybe they're attracted more to their own groups...who knows..but im willing to believe its the former
anyway...ppl are attracted to certain physical features and it is what it is


I always saw a few black women with white men in the UK (and vice versa), but I cant recall too many asian men with women of other ethnicities.

And on the original thread, of course it's a widely held view that asian men are 'smaller'. I have no idea personally if it's true, Well that's a lie, I have seen certain 'films' and I think it seems true. However I think young asian guys are now often perceived as being sharp and cool by girls in the UK and so a girl might like one on her arm....? I'm just rambling, shoot me.


our IT director based in London he is originally from Philippines but he is born and raised in UK... I met his girlfriend during my last visit to UK and she is a hot English lady...

I admit such scenarios are very rare.. but happens
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When you say "smaller" are you referring to member size? I think most of us were talking about physical stature, not "that". :lol:
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kanelli wrote:When you say "smaller" are you referring to member size? I think most of us were talking about physical stature, not "that". :lol:


Well I saw the topic was what women think about asian men, and I KNOW they 'think' about those things as much as men do....only being honest here! :oops: :P
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kanelli wrote:When you say "smaller" are you referring to member size? I think most of us were talking about physical stature, not "that". :lol:


Well I saw the topic was what women think about asian men, and I KNOW they 'think' about those things as much as men do....only being honest here! :oops: :P


And I see nothing wrong about that ...
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kanelli wrote:When you say "smaller" are you referring to member size? I think most of us were talking about physical stature, not "that". :lol:


Well I saw the topic was what women think about asian men, and I KNOW they 'think' about those things as much as men do....only being honest here! :oops: :P


And I see nothing wrong about that ...


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kanelli wrote:When you say "smaller" are you referring to member size? I think most of us were talking about physical stature, not "that". :lol:



well size does matter..... men are attracted to women with large breasts and it adds to her asset! In Dubai you wont find many asians hanging out with white women cos of social difference and mentality difference.

It's true it's hard for Asian men to hook up with Caucasian women cos of perceived value whereas a cute white male has to do nothing but stand there to woo women which is due to his "passive" value. It's like this being born rich one doesnt have to work hard to earn money and one doesnt understand until rug is pulled under the legs and if he/she has to earn money it will be 10 times harder cos they didn't invest time to develop money making skills. Qualities like confidence ,determination and perseverance are acquired and nobody is born with it.

Similarly I have seen many cute male models hooking up with women easily but many cant keep em. Hooking up is one thing and relationship is other. These ppl have bland personalities.

Whereas Asian men who are good with many Caucasian women , i have seen a trend, they have separate skills, they are good story teller, good sense of humor, style, personality and get physical quite fast. They make up or work harder against "conceived" notion that "Asian men are bad in bed". I had the privilege to hang out with these men and learnt lot from them.
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Well, I never gave "size" a thought, because I wouldn't even be seeing or doing anything with that member until the relationship was quite well established. If I am in love and making a commitment with someone, it doesn't matter what size their member is. As long as they have one! :lol:
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kanelli wrote:Well, I never gave "size" a thought, because I wouldn't even be seeing or doing anything with that member until the relationship was quiet well established. If I am in love and making a commitment with someone, it doesn't matter what size their member is. As long as they have one! :lol:


. I guess you are using an industrial one with batteries now since it's been sometimes now for you to be in relation
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Keep it nice and clean people!
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Chocoholic wrote:Keep it nice and clean people!


Well min eis clean how abt urs? :lol:
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Chocoholic wrote:Keep it nice and clean people!


Well min eis clean how abt urs? :lol:
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Chocoholic wrote:Nah by the same token, Arab guys don't do anything for me.


What type of guys do do it for you?

Loads of my girlfriends from UK come over and just lurvvv the Arabs in kandoras and kudras with sunglasses and a 4wd---dont see it myself, though Fazza3 is good looking, will give ya that-----Personally, I think black guys are the most attractive of all men----and wolverine from x men :-D
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Are any of you guys from the UK?

I was there some time back and I've seen quite a few white women with brown men. I dont just mean Sub Continental, I also mean Arabs.

Ireland I believe have a lot of mixed relationships. I've been told that size doesn't matter, the art does and to be honest and a proud brown man, I do think we MADE and MASTER the art of kamasutra.

SO if you come across a white women saying that brown ppl just dont do it for them, you can bet your balls shes lacks experience and exposure. A word of advice to those white women, go try some new stuff. We have a more successful rate OF successful marriages and yes we do contribute a huge percentage of the worlds population not just coz were ignorant and illiterate but also we give the best s3x. Both, MEN and WOMEN...
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Filipino man are great eaters, do you know that, we tend not to like other nationalities not because we are intimidated or our size are small as they say, its just that ...phew it smells...not like filipina girls men smells like a rose...heheheh also ours can stand hard and strong even after... not like those that after ... just bends and needs a dose of viagra to stand up again...lol :twisted:
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portland wrote:idiot


can an admin please delete this stupid post?
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Mar 24, 2009
i have seen plenty of white girls with asian men in europe and usa, its about the invidual not their nationality
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Edited because clearly this person has nothing useful to add!

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aishamalik wrote:i have seen plenty of white girls with asian men in europe and usa, its about the invidual not their nationality


That is there, of course. America was great when I was there. Here there is a class divide along racial lines that becomes ingrained in every expat once they've been here for a while.
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Back in Canada when I dated a guy from Pakistan originally, it was only natural. We met at uni, lived in the same residence and took the same bus to school every day. He was a nice guy and treated me with respect. We didn't date long because he wanted to get serious too quickly (I had just come away from a long relationship) and he smoked pot, which is a big turn off for me. No break-up because of cultural issues for us.
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I have something to say but I can't because I am afraid Sister Choc will close the thread.
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Bora Bora wrote:I have something to say but I can't because I am afraid Sister Choc will close the thread.


Please tell us! I'm on the edge of my seat here....Tell usss.

I'll start provoking the 'Freedom of Speech' rights that we normally have on virtual fora. So do your thing and sprout it out Miss Bora.

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