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Two things can repair a broken heart:

1-Time.

2-Discovery of something that changes the picture. ie: A boyfriend discovers that his gf which dumped him, has been cheating on him for a long time, and bad-mouthed him. The feeling will change from "heartbroken" to "angry and frustrated" which is not necessarily better, but at least you won't spin around yourself in circles blaming yourself.

As for things that can make the period post-heart-break easier:

1-Good friends. Not the ones that wallow in misery with you, but the ones that will take you out, make you laugh, introduce you to new people.

2-Meet new people of the opposite sex, you never know.

aww, that’s sad! I understand, the feeling is miserable!

Yeh, time is the best healer... Well I would say, keep your self busy.. and have a "I deserve better" (if your dumped) or "it wasn’t meant to be" (if it didn’t work out) attitude.
might sound silly.. but it worked for me!!
and hey cheer up! there are plenty of fishes in the sea!

2-Meet new people of the opposite fun, you never know.

well yeh meet new people and have a good time but just don’t rush in to fill in the 'missing space' .. cause the next thing you know is your heart broken again!

gud luck

eat more chocolate!!

rana79 wrote:hi everybody!
here is your broken heart friend.
could you guys let me know that how i can replair it, to drive car of life on track?

watch p*rn . Jk

rana79 wrote:hi everybody!
here is your broken heart friend.
could you guys let me know that how i can replair it, to drive car of life on track?

eww....once heart is broken in love then its very hard to repair it....time heals everything but true love never goes from the heart....time keeps u updated...

So dont cry for the love u lost but try to get it back...try till u get it back....

rana79 wrote:that's why i ran away from Sweden

You ran from Sweden and I ran from Canada... similar reasons.. but i'm a guy. Been there done that. I know how you feel. But the good news is this. This place is so different from where you came from that it's really like turning a new page in life.. this is how you have to look at it. New job, new friends, new streets, new buildings, even new clothes!

You just got here.. make some friends.. **putting my hand up** .. and it'll be better trust me

Hussam

Im sure some of us can understand how you must be feeling e.g. me

But it must be harder for thoughs who move abroad and then they are left with nothing...try not to let love take over your life because there is so much out there that we should keep a look out for.

If I was there I would surely be your friend and take you shopping lol but just because im far away doesnt mean we cant be friends...so whenever you want to chat about anything i'll be here for you!

Set targets like today I will....its not easy to just move on but it will help you! x

join the club!

a heart is never the same after it's been broken.
all the superglue and cellotape in the world can't mend it so it works the same.

hussam wrote:

rana79 wrote:that's why i ran away from Sweden

You ran from Sweden and I ran from Canada... similar reasons.. but i'm a guy. Been there done that. I know how you feel. But the good news is this. This place is so different from where you came from that it's really like turning a new page in life.. this is how you have to look at it. New job, new friends, new streets, new buildings, even new clothes!

You just got here.. make some friends.. **putting my hand up** .. and it'll be better trust me

Hussam

for your kind info, rana also is a guy.

emadullah wrote:

hussam wrote:

rana79 wrote:that's why i ran away from Sweden

You ran from Sweden and I ran from Canada... similar reasons.. but i'm a guy. Been there done that. I know how you feel. But the good news is this. This place is so different from where you came from that it's really like turning a new page in life.. this is how you have to look at it. New job, new friends, new streets, new buildings, even new clothes!

You just got here.. make some friends.. **putting my hand up** .. and it'll be better trust me

Hussam

for your kind info, rana also is a guy.

lol there is a HUUUUUUUUUGe gender confusion due to avatar. Moonbaby thought was man , rana thought was female cos of eyelashes

your words are realy touching but vey hard as well

Linda_Stuiv wrote:Two things can repair a broken heart:

1-Time.

2-Discovery of something that changes the picture. ie: A boyfriend discovers that his gf which dumped him, has been cheating on him for a long time, and bad-mouthed him. The feeling will change from "heartbroken" to "angry and frustrated" which is not necessarily better, but at least you won't spin around yourself in circles blaming yourself.

As for things that can make the period post-heart-break easier:

1-Good friends. Not the ones that wallow in misery with you, but the ones that will take you out, make you laugh, introduce you to new people.

2-Meet new people of the opposite fun, you never know.

The very fact that you are feeling down is good in a sense you could level with yourself, with the fact that you really loved him. ON the other hand it aint the end of the road, Love's labour is never lost............ If you are loveable you will find a love of yourlife, brooding and feeling miserable could initiate a negative attitud it that will drive away a potential mate. The best advice is "NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING". You will get it if you deserve it. Smile

Jude

well now i realized that it was my dream and she had to left me so she did, may be she had some reasons. any how its very nice to read ur words, u could add me as: rana.amjad@hotmail.com
Good Luck!!!

tinkerbella wrote:Im sure some of us can understand how you must be feeling e.g. me

But it must be harder for thoughs who move abroad and then they are left with nothing...try not to let love take over your life because there is so much out there that we should keep a look out for.

If I was there I would surely be your friend and take you shopping lol but just because im far away doesnt mean we cant be friends...so whenever you want to chat about anything i'll be here for you!

Set targets like today I will....its not easy to just move on but it will help you! x

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well jude, thanks for ur words and only i just would like to tell u that i am male.
Good Luck!!!

Judeslivinitup wrote:The very fact that you are feeling down is good in a sense you could level with yourself, with the fact that you really loved him. ON the other hand it aint the end of the road, Love's labour is never lost............ If you are loveable you will find a love of yourlife, brooding and feeling miserable could initiate a negative attitud it that will drive away a potential mate. The best advice is "NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING". You will get it if you deserve it. Smile

Jude

y'all should stop being so tiger ... if its not be its not meant to be .. its the other sides loss .. move on and there are alot of fish in the sea.

i am not trying to sound badass or anything its just that u shouldnt give anyone the power to ruin yor life or change anything in it ..

rana79 wrote:well don't know what to write here and how i can meet new ppl and where i am totaly fed up with my life and realy don't know what and how to do, even im jobless here in UAE but not trying to find one even i need too but my condition is so miserable now a days and that's why i ran away from Sweden
i don't have any friend with i can share just dubaiforum, where i am gonna share my heart beats.
i will advice you guys don't fall in sea of LOVE, it will hurt you hard later on. at start you will fall and wanna dive more and more but at the end you will be hurted a lot, which you can't forget your whole life.

i can write more on same topic but fed up now.
see you later on...!!!

I wana also fall in love ,i tried so many times but invain. I can not understand how come people spend their entire life wid one girl When i share my mental model wid girls they never come back to me .

anyone tell me how can i fall in luv wid any gal? whenever ,i meet a gal ,i try to evalute her looks and smartness and mostly girls get rejection .I never called any girl for second interview .

Find new ways to mend your broken heart. See new friends, engaged in new activities; better yet find new job it's all good to keep you busy and stay away from emptiness that will make you more crazy and dull. Hope for the best!

good healthy social life...
a little bit spice in life...
is what I feel can mend your broken heart...

try to seek changes in life....its like breathe of fresh in heart....
just drain out old memories,,,replace it with new ones..

Linda_Stuiv wrote:2-Discovery of something that changes the picture. ie: A boyfriend discovers that his gf which dumped him, has been cheating on him for a long time, and bad-mouthed him. The feeling will change from "heartbroken" to "angry and frustrated" which is not necessarily better, but at least you won't spin around yourself in circles blaming yourself.

sounds familiar to me

ermmm, this post is 3 years old.

I totally understand what you are going through. 6 years ago I left China just in order to forget him, to heal. But recently I found myself with the broken heart again, because I just got back in touch with him, and all the feelings are coming back to me.

The only advice that I can give you is that try to forget, and Do NOT trigger the memory again. Because when you start to think about it, it will hurt all over again.

come on be strong