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The belief that being nice will get you laid is one of the worst ideas promoted over the
past 20 years. Women want to be seduced and romanced. Do you really think they are looking
for “nice” guys?

Most men think they if they like a woman, and she says that you are “sweet,” “interesting,”
or “a wonderful friend,” that you are moving the relationship towards romance and sex. This is
dead wrong. Women will either put you into the category of “friend” or “lover,” but not both.
When you are “nice” only a woman will likely put you into the category of friend, but not lover.
If you don’t believe this, just look around at all the jerks who have sex with hot women. Women
certainly are not having sex with these guys because they are intellectually stimulating. No,
these women are hot and heavy because these men are exciting, romantic, fun, and even a bit
dangerous.
The solution? Don’t give up being interesting and nice (that too would be a fatal error), just
bring out other parts of your personality. Bring out the romantic and let that guide you into
sweeping a woman off her feet. Put yourself in her position and figure out what would turn her
on and excite her. If you find yourself spending time discussing “fascinating” topics, but not
romantic ones, change the subject back to her beauty. Memorize poetry and whisper passages
into her ear.you think this is stupid !!!! ? then you are missing it a big time my friend. you shoulld know Have you ever noticed that women will talk about the kind of man that they want, and end up
with someone completely different? It happens all of the time. What women say they want and
what they actually respond to are often totally different. Women can’t tell you what they want in
a man, they can only tell you what they think they want in a man. There is a big difference.
The bottom line is that women love men who are generative and creative. If they have to tell
you how to get them, what to be like, and how to behave every step of the way, they aren’t
going to be turned on by you. They also aren’t attracted to supplicants, begging for the easy
keys to melt their heart. It’s your independent nature that gets them going, not your dependency
on being told how to act.

great words

Agreed Skymiles.. I see a lot of guys make hasty moves by kissing the girl and get slapped.. Why did this happen.. Because the girl said that the guy is "sweet" and the guys jes assumed that they r into something. This things happen a lot of times to my frens..

Cut and paste guide to slap and tickle?



Knight

Yea. I've read this article a couple of years ago somewhere. But that's not based on a field study or something. It's just a point of view.

People who have more luck with women and with people in general are not necessarily the smartest, the nicest or the most caring. Probably those who have more emotional intelligence. This is a talent that can be taught to some extent.