Chocoholic wrote:
Enjoy your single life. Relationships are far too overrated anyway.
Wow! Somebody really underestimates relationships......... a good relationship adds vitality to your life but if your life aint interesting them it can be a burden.
If you trying to fill yourself up by chasing women trust me on this you wont be able to keep them unless you cling on to them via marriage or forced commitment. Here are some of my advice that may help you as it helped others:-
Be interesting - If you aint enjoying your single life then you gotta make it interesting. Get involved in hobbies like Chocoholic does wake boarding. You never know when you are involved in an activity with passion you may come across that person who likes your energy.
Get involved - If you like interesting , high maintenance, party type of girls then hit clubs.
If you like down to earth type of girls join social or volunteering network or clubs , dance clubs, dragon boating etc... learn to be a good conversationalist, social , leader of group type of guy.
If you dont know which type to go for then I suggest if you have time and energy to try all.
Self-improvement - While looks are strong attraction factor for men, girls are attracted not only on looks but other factors like status, personality, conversation skills etc which gives you chance to improve on them. One stumbling block I have seen in guys is the body language and voice. These things indirectly determine your social status and your personality. If you are in social group do ppl turn to you when you are talking? Is your voice deep , loud enough and resonating. Voice is important factor women pick up on it. If you want to improve on these I urge you to join a speaking club like local Toastmaster or Lions club or Rotary International or get a voice coach.
Be a man of value - Make ppl feel good about themselves. Provide value to them. Be the guy whom ppl want to introduce you to others.
Be a man on purpose - Your confidence increases if you are doing activities which is congruent with your life goals. As my guru once said "Nothing turns on a woman than a man on purpose". He was right. So work on your life goals.
Learn woman psychology - If you want to keep woman happy it is very useful to know about her mind. Women have strong emotional side while men are logical creatures. For example, I asked Christie to join me to cinema , she refused cos she was down, not in mood etc... I just swing her around , giggling she changed her mind , why did she change her mind cos she wasnt feeling it before , later when I took her to my arms she felt happy and changed her mind. I LOVE WOMEN (my types) cos they are creatures of moment- they are present and feel your presence. Learn their psychology by interacting with them, reading books etc.
Wow! that was one bloody long post - hope you get some gems of advice form them.
i have my best friends with me. no i am talking about my books n laptop n tv 