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Dec 16, 2014
Adderall was originally developed and marketed in Israel. There are now two generic forms on the general market, altho they are not as long-lasting or effective as the brand. (But the brand, US, runs easily $700 - $800 USD). Why don't you try contacting the Israeli manufacturer, and ask for the XR, if your son is not already using this RX...if you do not find it in Dubai. But Dubai is so advanced in other ways I would expect it to carry the #1 world prescription for ADHD.
And PS: don't ever let anyone talk you out of keeping your child on Adderall. I have seen too many heartbreaking examples of teens,or children, pulled off this, either because it became unaffordable, or the parents were bullied into basically hurting their own child, by witholding it in favor of "training" or "discipline" or other stupid and cruel "treatments" for a condition the child cannot help. Much like a diabetic or near-sighted individual cannot help such conditions. (In the US, ADD/ADHD is FINALLY removed from the list of "disabilities," due to the prevalence of adderall as an adequate treatment. And now is termed just a "condition," like needing glasses, or needing heart meds.
**But one formerly brilliant teen, very heartbreaking, living in Florida - a beautiful state but very redneck and backwards in many areas, not at all pro-children - who was making straight As when living with his mother, enrolled in the toughest international pre-college program there is, fluent in French, looking forward to a career in public service or intelligence, like his mum, happy, active, athletic, lots of friends ... got trapped at his redneck florida father's one day, who refused to return him to his mom after a short annual summer visit. The teen had only 1 year left of pre-college, finishing high school 2 years early because he was so smart,and he would have also accumulated a year of college credit, ...but the father, alcoholic, chain smoker, very abusive, kept the teen a virtual prisoner. Changed his name, and hid him, kept him penniless so that he could not run away, and they were living out in the midst of horrible 100+degree florida nowhere ... the closest bus many miles away, and the teen was trapped. The FIRST THING THE FATHER DID WAS TAKE THIS VERY SMART, POLITE, HARDWORKING, PROUD OF HIMSELF, SELF CONFIDENT young teen,OFF ADDERALL, AND THEN HE NEXT COMMENCED THE MOST ABUSIVE, HORRIBLE BRAINWASHING PROGRAMME, TELLING THE TEEN MANY TIMES EACH DAY HE WAS "STUPID," A "DRUG ADDICT" A "MOMMY'S BOY," AND OTHER HORRIBLE THINGS... and that he just needed to "shape up" and do without his $600/mo prescription. (He also withheld expensive asthma meds,and chain smoked around this poor child, whose whole world suddenly turned into a nightmare.)
The teen dropped to straight Fs, and police brought him home one day, and called his mother themselves, because the teen had not stopped crying for 3 days straight. The redneck Space Coast, NASA "tech writer" father - fat, ugly, good ole boy, so many cigarette butts in his front yard it looked like an ashtray (with his mother, in contrast, because she was well educated and worked always in govt, intelligence or higher level corporate, he lived in luxury homes, by the sea, and had a normal life with God, prayer, school, vacation, family time, etc. When his mother found her teen and saw where he had been forced to live - no food, just whiskey and cigarettes, no soap, the teen barely able to breath and clearly suffering, gasping for breath and emotionally a wreck, she started crying.
The teen never recovered. From this horrible "visit" with his father. The father only wanted more money. He had no one's best interest at heart. This teen wanted to be an ambassador, or, very bright in math, to work at NSA. To live abroad. He was very bright, and very kind hearted. The father exposed him to the most horrific sexual and other abuse, male johns, and who knows what else. The teen was so harmed he will suffer his entire life. And NEVER have the life God intended him to have. Taking him off adderall, it turned out, was his father's STEP 1, in "controlling" this teen,or rather, "brainwashing." Because he was told by some of his "john" friends, that it meant the teen would be confused, easily persuaded to do "anything," and so on.
I guess it was a lot like throwing a child outdoors in the winter, and making sure you stole their coat first, so that the suffering would be that much greater. Their physical stamina and emotional state and ability to focus, that much worse. Or it would be like taking a child's leg braces or glasses away. WHY WOULD ANYONE DO SUCH A THING? TO THEIR OWN BIOLOGICAL CHILD?
And, even if the teen had not been so intentionally and horribly and sickenly abused and traumatized and destroyed by his father, taking him off adderall, that he had been on since first grade, right when he was being approached for NSA fellowships, and State Dept Scholarships and was almost through a very hard academic global program of great prestige, that would have guaranteed his future.. killed him. And the father told "his" child - "you dont' need to go to a fancy university. you will stay right here and work in a walmart if I tell you to, til you are dead." (and turn over all of his earnings to his father, for bourbon / cigarettes, I think was the plan.)
That's the Florida Space Coast / good ole boy network or outlook. Florida has great beaches, but terrible schools, huge issues with poverty and not a lot of sophistication or future for most of its citizens. And all they expect is to work in a walmart or mcdonalds. But that's not what you want for a teen with a 170 IQ, fluent in french, very bright, who had studied so hard his entire life, because he wanted to go into government or intel and serve the common good. Who had a nice, normal, sheltered life with his stepmom and baby stepbrother, and who deserved to be happy. And nurtured. And helped, not prevented from, living up to his potential.
I think it is the worst thing in the world to deliberately hurt a child over and over and over, to the point where you damage them forever.
In Islam we support the concept of Shariah, and as a Muslim, I strongly support this concept, for harm to children.
But also as a mother, and someone who has worked with autism, and coached schools and non-profits, at times, in strategies and interventions, I have NEVER seen an ADD or ADHD child or adult, who took adderall for the wrong reason, or to abuse it, (it's too expensive, and medical marijuana, if one is so inclined, is free now all over the US), and who did not desperately need it, just to stay on a level playing field with everyone else. **And because ADD/ADHD, genetically and statistically, tends to co-exist with very high IQ, it is even more of a tragedy, to withhold it from anyone. Because you are knocking them down that much further, than you would knock anyone else down. You are making that much MORE of a harmful difference in their lives, than you would in the life of a less intelligent person or child. If the average ADD IQ is 160+; and the average human IQ is about 145, that's a lot of destroyed leadership or common good potential, in the world's ADD population, if /when such individuals are not supported by adderall. ON Adderall, this teen blossomed. Flourished. For YEARS. In kindergarten, teachers had tried to tell his mother he was either autistic or "retarded." She persisted and kept saying her son was actually very bright, and something was wrong with the school then, not with her child. And so finally, after neurologists tested and confirmed ADD, and this teen started on adderall in early first grade, it was like turning the light on.
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Good luck with your move. And with your child's nurturing and success. It's too bad every child cannot have a loving home and at least 1 good and loving and competent parent. AND.. that police and others in the US, are not better trained, to intervene earlier, to protect children from harm. Like this father on the Space Coast. I was thinking the other day, how many rejections I have had lately, in pretty tough govt. consulting here in DC. And how some remarks had really been hurtful, because I have been working 7 days/week, often til 1 am, trying to put business back after a year of ongoing losses and clients not paying. Even large defense contractors. For lack of money here. But what if you were deliberately exposed to your own father, telling you many times a day how stupid or crazy or worthless you were... and the suddenly, on top of that, you suddenly could not even think well, or focus, and on top of that , all of your teenage dreams were killed by your own father telling you to give up thoughts of Europe or government work and go work til you're dead in a local deli. And you had to watch your former peers, in nice clothing and nice cars, stop in perhaps and buy things, maybe make fun of you, or be degrading, and then go on their successful confident way... and you knew your future was more sexual abuse, or you were starving or you had no clothes or you couldn't breath, but you had no money for a doctor and because of no adderall you coudlnt' even imagine sorting out the effort of finding anything on you own, a helpless young teen with no money, no phone, no transporation, no friends...
People like this father, or the indifferent adults who must have watched this teen struggling to breath - that is the worst feeling in the world, like your chest is closing in and you cannot get air, when you have asthma, it is terrible and frightening - and watched him drop from 135 lbs to 70 lbs!!! from NO FOOD and ABUSE!!! - and DID NOTHING... are why I think God invented Shariah law.