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raina wrote:Congratulations!! a great news indeed!! Wishing her a very bright future!
quatroporte wrote::hello1:
Congratulations!
ebonics wrote:i hope she continues on her path and grows up to spread her knowledge and touch every life she crosses path with - it is a great feeling to have such successful offspring.
congratulations and best of luck for her future.
PS - start applying for scholarships.
Concord wrote:Don't you think you are putting too high an expectation on your young daughter and yourselves with the posts, etc. (which she might see, etc.). And pressure on your other children...
I say it only because I know many parents who "burn out" their children with huge expectations which are often too much for the kids to bear and then the kids revel (regardless of their inherent talent)...
BabyDoll wrote:Concord wrote:Don't you think you are putting too high an expectation on your young daughter and yourselves with the posts, etc. (which she might see, etc.). And pressure on your other children...
I say it only because I know many parents who "burn out" their children with huge expectations which are often too much for the kids to bear and then the kids revel (regardless of their inherent talent)...
Isnt this a catch 22 situation. Whilst what you said is valid. How else would you praise and encourage children (or even adults) when they succeed. And then they succeed, continual encouragement and support are still pertinent to their growth.
When there is goal, there is expectation. With that hopefully you go through the right process and achieve your goal. Once you achieve the goal, you move on to the next level. Additional encouragement and support would be helpful. Its a cycle.
Happy April's Fool by the way !!!
Concord wrote:I did not mean "no praise" or "encouragement". I just thought it was a bit over the top. If I read that from one of my parents I would be kind of embarrased by it all... But that is just coming from a Kids perspective <<<
BabyDoll wrote:Concord wrote:I did not mean "no praise" or "encouragement". I just thought it was a bit over the top. If I read that from one of my parents I would be kind of embarrased by it all... But that is just coming from a Kids perspective <<<
Slight diversion. How do you praise & encourage your dog?
Concord wrote:BabyDoll wrote:Concord wrote:I did not mean "no praise" or "encouragement". I just thought it was a bit over the top. If I read that from one of my parents I would be kind of embarrased by it all... But that is just coming from a Kids perspective <<<
Slight diversion. How do you praise & encourage your dog?
Steel toe shoes
BabyDoll wrote:Concord wrote:BabyDoll wrote:Concord wrote:I did not mean "no praise" or "encouragement". I just thought it was a bit over the top. If I read that from one of my parents I would be kind of embarrased by it all... But that is just coming from a Kids perspective <<<
Slight diversion. How do you praise & encourage your dog?
Steel toe shoes
but thats animal cruelty. cant imagine it to be comfy in steel shoes - human or pet
Concord wrote:Congratulations but I am going to go out on a limb here.
Don't you think you are putting too high an expectation on your young daughter and yourselves with the posts, etc. (which she might see, etc.). And pressure on your other children...
I say it only because I know many parents who "burn out" their children with huge expectations which are often too much for the kids to bear and then the kids revel (regardless of their inherent talent)...
As I said, Contratulations...
gtmash wrote:So...did you sign up on this forum just to publicise your daughter?
gtmash wrote:
So...did you sign up on this forum just to publicise your daughter?
pinoy1 wrote:Congrats kabayan! Now, don't ever think letting her go here to find a job after college huh!