I have read the official rules...but what is really going on...
Who do I need to avoid, any professional grumps that think the world is coming to an end, who's the guy that PMs every knew woman just in case he gets lucky (and he never does), who likes to wind up newbies...
Oh and the moderators...nice folks or what....
and does it ever get lively or is this about it...I see there are plenty of lurkers (hello) but hardly any members around most of the time...