This Really Annoys Me....

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Jan 14, 2008
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gtmash wrote:I get the feeling you roam the seediest parts of Dubai, outside bars or something. I've never seen local guys blatantly harrassing local women in my 25 years here. There is the occassional case in the papers, but it is not as rampant as you make it seem.


So what have you been doing for the last 25 yrs....stuck on your own closet.Try to take off of your sunglasses maybe you'll see much better, for you to see what life is all about and your apethetic attitude seems very real to me. One does not need to go to seedy places to see those kind of attitude, only need to be aware of what's happening around.

Do you think these men will harass women speaking in english or your mother tongue for you to understand whats going on... :roll: :roll: :roll:


Wow, we live in a real hell. Seems you are really tight with the underground. As a local would say, why don't you just leave?


Is that the only thing you can get out of your stinking newspaper thats worth DK's puppy's arse, my oh my.....look who's talking from his hole on the ground....

Why don't you takeout your head out of the ground and look around maybe the the local are harassing you without you knowing it.....what a pity you are...........

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


Internet thug. U like hangin wid daa boyz at the Marina? Everyone's not out to harass you.


L :roll: :roll: Looks who's talking....dude..HE WHO TALKS VILE GETS VILE, GOT IT.

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Jan 15, 2008
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gezza wrote:I wouldn't say GAY COMMUNITY mate......I would say just deprived Pakistanis.
as for proud!!!?...
Makes me feel violated.
Espically when they stare at my daughter. :twisted:


How do u know if someone is Pakistani ? Are Pakistani people having "PAK number plate" ?

Its indian people , am i right Jits ? :lol:


lol hahha hahahha no mate if it was a paki it would have said Paki on his forehead :D

If it was an indian they would have this red button on their forehead :D. lucy dont get offended just kiDding around :D.

By the way did your wife or daugther or gf detect any curry smell in the air. That usually gives it away. So did they?

Maybe they had a corner shop around the swimming pool?

Or maybe it was the same paki who drove you around his taxi the whole day and thought he would go for a swim :D.

So which one was it??
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Jan 15, 2008
lol oh how thee u r quick to judge thee was a paki oh how quick thee.

ok my view on this topic is that if you got it flaunt it yeh baby groooovy :D

sorry yeh I can understand from the western point that hey they need to get a tan and thus sit in a pool in a bikini or whatever.

Eastern point is there are certain rules you have to respect.

Ok now on the beach there are special beaches for WOMEN only where they can sun bath or do whatever they like to do but in that certain area no MAN would be allowed thats y it is known as WOMEN beach only and thats y men dont stare at women there.

Now in a mix beach you will get labourers staring at you and so will the other guys on the beach.

same with the pool. you have pools designed for women and children only, and a pool for men only.

But certain pools are mixed just like the beaches and obviously you are going to get some ppl staring at you.

I ll be honest if theres a nice chicken getting fried on the beach or lying there on the chair obviously i ll look at her but i wont stare at her. And I am sure EVERY guy here on this forum does it. If you dont look at them I am guessing u r not a MAN :D.

But the bottom line is you have areas designated for women only if you have a problem with ppl who stare I such u go to such designated areas.
If you dont want to go I suggest you put up with it. By ignoring them or by staring back at them :D. Staring back at them usually works where the person looks away have tried and it works :D.

And oh yeh If you dont like it here I suggest you find another pool, if it happens there I suggest you find another pool, if it still happens I suggest you buy a yatch, sail it out to the middle of the sea and get your wife, daugther, sister to sun bathe there, away from the eyes of the world. sorry away from the eyes of the Pakis and the Indians lol.

And if you still find that ships have decided to crowd around your yatch just to have a little peek I suggest you can always pack your bag move to the next country on your list and sun bathe there. I suggest you go west because in the East the staring problem worsens.
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Jan 15, 2008
I think there's a valid point.. since we are 1 in every 6 persons u meet in the world.. and add to that our never ceasing desire for white skin.. (thanks to the million p<3n movies with white stars) and lack of opportunities for many of them economically and educationally backward people to actually get to meet and understand people of other culture and values.. and the natural human tendency to look around and to stare at what attracts attention.. there are loads of Indians who stare as well among people of other nationalities..

To get an over all picture.. its a mixture of people from all races that stare.. its not just indians or pakistanis.. but I am really ashamed to admit/learn that some of us men(indians and pakistani's) have this very ridiculous mental state.. to grope/rape/ molest/look n talk suggestively to fellow humanbeings of opposite sex.. especially to those having white skin.. :|
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Jan 15, 2008
thats because white skin is in demand and precious ;)

but if it annoys you so much just dont do it next time or just find another "high class" pool where you wont find any cheap ppl staring at your gf/wife/daugther/nani etc. or better just move out of here if you dont like it.
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Jan 15, 2008
why can u not take bath inside your home ? or u can ask ur ladies to wear abay while swimming. I saw arab aunties swimming in abay at sea :P (it seemed as there is Buffalo in water).
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HP wrote:why can u not take bath inside your home ? or u can ask ur ladies to wear abay while swimming. I saw arab aunties swimming in abay at sea :P (it seemed as there is Buffalo in water).


LMAO!!!!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

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HP wrote:why can u not take bath inside your home ? or u can ask ur ladies to wear abay while swimming. I saw arab aunties swimming in abay at sea :P (it seemed as there is Buffalo in water).


oh now I get it. the pakis dont like looking at buffalos so they prefer looking at the young, wild and free deer :D.
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Jan 19, 2008
Hey Men,

Dont they have women in their own country

What Do You Expect From Men Who Have Never Allowed To Look At Women Or Never Seen Women Or Saw Women Only With Clothes.

They Will Be Holy? NO, They Will Be Hungry :o :o :o
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Jan 19, 2008
Or maybe it was the same paki who drove you around his taxi the whole day and thought he would go for a swim :D.

So which one was it??[/quote]


The Taxi driver.
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Jan 19, 2008
This thread nearing its 100th post.... :cry:
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Jan 20, 2008
100 posts....
GET IN!!
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gezza wrote:100 posts....
GET IN!!


and Be stared at.... :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Jan 22, 2008
reviewer seems to think that his rather one-sided viewpoint is the only one that counts and those who don't share his particular viewpoint are somehow completely oblivious and wrong.

I think common sense can not go wrong in this issue, as Ian said, if a woman has her boobs hanging out she will get stared at/harassed a lot more than if she is dressed modestly. There are exceptions like in anything but you can't ignore the obvious reasons why some men act like monkeys on the streets in the first place. Common sense does not really need that much explaining...
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Jan 22, 2008
freza wrote:reviewer seems to think that his rather one-sided viewpoint is the only one that counts and those who don't share his particular viewpoint are somehow completely oblivious and wrong.


I have never said or insinuated that other people view are wrong and mine is right. What I said, modesty as solution doesnt apply to all societies, every society in this world have different set of norms. You're barking on the wrong tree.

freza wrote:I think common sense can not go wrong in this issue, as Ian said, if a woman has her boobs hanging out she will get stared at/harassed a lot more than if she is dressed modestly.


Do you mean that covering oneself will prevent women from being stared at or even harass.Your views are way too subjective.


freza wrote:There are exceptions like in anything but you can't ignore the obvious reasons why some men act like monkeys on the streets in the first place. Common sense does not really need that much explaining...


Common sense does entails that what is true in one part of this world does not or probably not true to other parts.
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freza wrote:reviewer seems to think that his rather one-sided viewpoint is the only one that counts and those who don't share his particular viewpoint are somehow completely oblivious and wrong.


I have never said or insinuated that other people view are wrong and mine is right. What I said, modesty as solution doesnt apply to all societies, every society in this world have different set of norms. You're barking on the wrong tree.

freza wrote:I think common sense can not go wrong in this issue, as Ian said, if a woman has her boobs hanging out she will get stared at/harassed a lot more than if she is dressed modestly.


Do you mean that covering oneself will prevent women from being stared at or even harass.Your views are way too subjective.


freza wrote:There are exceptions like in anything but you can't ignore the obvious reasons why some men act like monkeys on the streets in the first place. Common sense does not really need that much explaining...


Common sense does entails that what is true in one part of this world does not or probably not true in other parts.
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