Aug 20, 2007
cosmicbaby, it's not a bad offer by local standards, but you'll definitely need your spouse to be earning as well.
The suggestion that you'll be paying around AED100K in rent is way off-beam. Assuming you want three bedrooms for a family your size, you'll be paying AED135-150K out in Mirdif or Warqaa, around AED170-180K in the Springs (or up to as much as 250K if you want to live in Jumeira or Umm Suqeim). Plus 5% agent's fee and 5% deposit, so call it a minimum of 150K and possibly a fair bit more more.
Then education for your kids, I'm not too clear on the costs of primary education, but I guess around 25K each, so a total of 50K.
Car - depends what you want to drive, but let's go with the suggestion above of repayments of around 25K a year for one car - and you may need two.
DEWA (utilities) - deposit of AED2K and then on average 1.2-1.5K a month for a villa (more in summer, less in winter). So say 15-20K a year.
Even going by the lowest end of the figures above, you're only left with AED9K (about AUD3K) a month for living expenses, which will be very tight for a family of four and certainly won't allow you to save. If your rent costs a bit more, or you need two cars, you could be really screwed without a second income.
Also don't forget that there are a lot of costs involved in setting up here - just household things like curtains, enough furniture to get by on until your crate arrives and so on. Are they offering you any kind of relocation costs? If I were you I would insist that they pay to ship your crate and angle for another AUD10K/AED30K or so for setting up costs.
Bear in mind when reading the comments above that people who've been here a while have the advantage of being locked into lower rents, which makes a huge difference to disposable income. Rents have increased phenomenally over the past couple of years - even just in the past few months.
By way of comparison, I just arrived a couple of months ago, I'm earning in the same general range as what you've been offered (including allowances etc), and my wife is working full-time as well. We have one nursery-aged child. There's no way that we could afford to get by on my salary alone, and we're certainly no better off than we were in the UK.