checkerscom2000 wrote:I am a 26 (turn 27 in a few months) year old male and I am still a virgin. I have never even kissed a girl. Please don't laugh. I am still a virgin because it is against Islam and I fear the punishment, but I would like to get married soon. There are so many attractive girls and it is hard to be a virgin especially here in the west where temptations are really high. I live in Canada where there are many beautiful girls, but can't find many Islamic ones. Has anyone on this board been a virgin past 30??? or what age where you when u first did it? Is love overated or is it that good??
hmmmmmm. if i say i am not proud of you. i would be wrong.
you are gr8 man. that you could overcome your desires. its not easy.
if you want to reduce the pressure even if it is cultural or societal, just keep one thing in your mind. think about LOVE AFTER MERRIAGE
Instead of before, i am sure you understand.
HAVE A GOOD DAY