Major pain, maybe this forum has many prozzies posting here and I am too green to realize this. Other forums, where I have met people in real life are straight about it who they are and what they are looking for, and you don't have the prozzy effect to worry about. Have you read any postings on other dating sites or forums? Many people are not good at expressing themselves in writing as most don't write, other then proposals, emails to friends (trusted ones), etc. How many journalists write about themselves, not many, people in general don't. So when someone is finally faced with writing what they feel or would truly like, people naturally get writers block. But, as time passes they realize that there is nothing to fear, then we get to see them for whom they are.
On meeting a lady at the grocery store, what would I say... "Hi." and introduce myself with a smile. If she is a normal person she should be polite enough to at least simply say, "Hi" back and if she is not interested go about her bad, if she is she will let me know. I can handle the rejection and will go about my day without worrying a single second, as I have more important thinks to focus on. I was brought up with chivalry by my Grand Mother, So yes, noble and worthy to my mission in life I am.
Regardless if this woman is a prozzy or not, she should be treated with some respect. Do you think most of the prozzies want to be that?!?! Most if not all would prefer a normal job over having some guy, twice their age humping them like a rabbit... after 6-8 pints of beer.
Stainless