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swesner · Jan 25, 2007

noni wrote:I know what you mean...but unfortunately it doesn't always work that way. For me personally, I don't want a guy that is gonna give up at the first let down....makes me think he's not willing to try to hard for me......

Hey Noni,
If you like a guy and you are trying to show him that you like him but he is playing hard to get...how long & how hard are you going to try before you give up? :roll:

swesner · Jan 25, 2007

People that play too many games miss out on enjoying each other. Tetris and Pacman are 1 player games, but testing someone's will to fight or "work" to get you before you even get to know the real person? That's a no-brainer...the person isn't worth fighting for. A person that is playing hard to get isn't being open or honest with the person they're talking to because they want to create a mystique about them. I think the opposite way...if you can't be open with me from the beginning, then I think we should accelerate the end.

I've had my share of players, been hurt many times but I was always open and honest from the beginning. And yes, I've worked for months to be with someone before and then realized it was a waste of my time because she was not worth it.... Wow, she was so not worth it! :boxing:

There are many people in this world that we can live with, but few are our perfect match. To play games and waste precious time is dumb. You get old before you know it and waste valuable time on the wrong people. "Don't try to find someone you can live with...fall in love with someone you can't live without" :lovestory:

Bleakus · Jan 25, 2007

Tropic23 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:
Tropic23 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:O rly?

Yes

you wanna catch a movie sometime?

Why not

how about saturday?

bear · Jan 25, 2007

Tropic23 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:you wanna catch a movie sometime?

Why not

Nice dude... Score...

Beat me to it you jerk. :evil:

Tropic23 · Jan 25, 2007

Jeevan wrote:yea some like to play it hard some not personal preferences i guess

Hmm the posts above me Bleak and tropic whazzup:)

Not your business :wink:

asc_26 · Jan 25, 2007

Bleak dude, how many ladies in the forum you've invited for a movie?

J/k

Tropic23 · Jan 25, 2007

Bleakus wrote:
Tropic23 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:
Tropic23 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:O rly?

Yes

you wanna catch a movie sometime?

Why not

how about saturday?

I have plans for saturday already. Do you have time during the week?

Tropic23 · Jan 25, 2007

asc_26 wrote:Bleak dude, how many ladies in the forum you've invited for a movie?

J/k

I`m not the only one???? :violent1:

Bastard...... :wink:

Bleakus · Jan 25, 2007

Tropic23 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:
Tropic23 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:
Tropic23 wrote:
Bleakus wrote:O rly?

Yes

you wanna catch a movie sometime?

Why not

how about saturday?

I have plans for saturday already. Do you have time during the week?

sure, im free on monday...

bear · Jan 25, 2007

I've got a great idea...

Tropic, Bleakus, Asc and I

Monday night, double date!

any takers?

constantine · Jan 27, 2007

if you always play hard to get...you'll hardly GET ANY...

Jan 27, 2007

Hahahaahha! u absolutly correct constantine.....we are only getting older....not younger....

constantine · Jan 27, 2007

true...dont hate the player...hate the game...and we should start another thread on "pick up lines getting lamer as you age"...hahaha

raidah · Feb 09, 2007

alexandra wrote:hey...u should have put also a moderate poll option lol
i did not vote.
cause sometimes i do and sometimes i dont.
the reason: some men still remain hunters despite of the evolution...i guess it stimulates the ego or something
it's quite fun actually and it's also about the "forbiden fruit"theory (what is hard to get, or apparently unavailable tends to be considered more precious and desired)

i hear u girl :lol:

but arent we also hunters? when u play hard to get ur not the hunted, ur the hunter. only that poor guys dont know :lol:

anyway if feelings are involved and u can sence love in the air, it doesnt work nor its worth playing this game.
now if there is some strong s.e.xual tension...thats a different story...oh man, the things ive been missing out these days :oops:

if thats the case then play it and play it hard until u drive both him and urself crazy :lol:

lets brake some furniture in the house and wake up the neighbors :lol:

PrettyPenny · Feb 09, 2007

Jeevan wrote:
noni wrote:agreed....sometimes people can take advantage of that and take you for granted. It is better to test out each other sometimes in the beginning and try to see how willing someone is....I will not choose to be with a guy who gives up so easily, you wanna see how hard he is willing to work for you...and that would make me want to be with him if he came through....

If u wanna test someone why play hard? spending time together can let u understand if he/she is the right person or not. But again its a person to person case. Some people like to show " mes not the easy one to get" even though deep down they are seeking attention, others just spend time together and take it from there, while some jump right in if they are sure he/she is the right person

Respect Jeeves. Let me add, spend time together and take it slow. It gives you a good idea of what the person you're with is really hoping to get out of it. Some people even qualify the slow pace as "hard to get". I would agree with that statement, if you're looking for a quickie.

anxiousape · Feb 09, 2007

raidah wrote:
i hear u girl .........................................then play it and play it hard until u drive both him and urself crazy lets brake some furniture in the house and wake up the neighbors

So ur monogamous and deprive ur significant other like that, domestic violence may be the result.

raidah · Feb 11, 2007

anxiousape wrote:
raidah wrote:
i hear u girl .........................................then play it and play it hard until u drive both him and urself crazy lets brake some furniture in the house and wake up the neighbors

So ur monogamous and deprive ur significant other like that, domestic violence may be the result.

then by all means i nead to be beaten up :lol:

Feb 11, 2007

Sometimes i read my own posts after a while....and i really get the shivers...

gracy · Mar 11, 2007

i voted no...why i play hard when i liked and wanted it so bad???
my big regret when it wont coming back again...

lion0009 · Mar 11, 2007

gracy wrote:i voted no...why i play hard when i liked and wanted it so bad???
my big regret when it wont coming back again...

He says
If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you.
yeh ...its a part of life

gracy · Mar 11, 2007

lion0009 wrote:
gracy wrote:i voted no...why i play hard when i liked and wanted it so bad???
my big regret when it wont coming back again...

He says
If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you.
yeh ...its a part of life