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Hey hey hey hey!

Ok - to answer your question bluntly, there are very few sincere guys in Dubai!

Because the place is so transcient with people coming and going all the time, many folks just don't think it's worth getting involved in something heavy, so they just F*** around while their here then disappear.

To say that most blokes don't want to find love, is just silly! Every bloke I know is looking for Mrs right, it's just finding that special person.

And as we've discussed before, the best places and ways to meet people here are through mutual friends, for quiet drinks out or social gathering - pubs, clubs and parties are not where you're going to find Mr nice guy.

Plus remember there are far more women here than men, so the nice ones are usually taken and competition is fierce, put it this way, my girlfriends when they find blokes that are new to Dubai it's like "OOOoooohhhh FRESH MEAT!" says it all really doesn't it!

Just not try to find one, let the destiny goes to you!! I beleive there are a few sincere guys in the world not just in Dubai. Everywhere is the same, you have to be careful if you don't want to get hurt.

Chocoholic wrote:Hey hey hey hey!

Ok - to answer your question bluntly, there are very few sincere guys in Dubai!

Because the place is so transcient with people coming and going all the time, many folks just don't think it's worth getting involved in something heavy, so they just F*** around while their here then disappear.

To say that most blokes don't want to find love, is just silly! Every bloke I know is looking for Mrs right, it's just finding that special person.

And as we've discussed before, the best places and ways to meet people here are through mutual friends, for quiet drinks out or social gathering - pubs, clubs and parties are not where you're going to find Mr nice guy.

Plus remember there are far more women here than men, so the nice ones are usually taken and competition is fierce, put it this way, my girlfriends when they find blokes that are new to Dubai it's like "OOOoooohhhh FRESH MEAT!" says it all really doesn't it!

chocoholic!! u lookin for sincere guy??? here I am~~~

To be fair ladies...most of the women that me and my mates have met since we got here 3 months ago from the UK, are GOLD DIGGERS! Blokes just don't like that...unless we're in our fifties and thats the only thing going for us! Unfortunately we are all in our mid 20's and dont need that crap!

HHHHmmmmm interesting, but probably true, it's a bit sad really, although my girlfriends just like a guy for the night most of the time, but that's getting a bit boring now and trying to find a decent bloke is finding difficult.

It's OK dude I have a Greek God!

dubaiblue wrote:To be fair ladies...most of the women that me and my mates have met since we got here 3 months ago from the UK, are GOLD DIGGERS! Blokes just don't like that...unless we're in our fifties and thats the only thing going for us! Unfortunately we are all in our mid 20's and dont need that crap!

haha... what do you think I am here for?

panaghoy wrote:I'm tired of dating game.. been here for 7 months now. i know all of us are capable of loving but it seems everyone are so afraid to fall in love.

simpliy me !

panaghoy ... first im sorry for my prev. post ... i thought your a man / IT .... since choc did point out that you really is a woman ... im sorry for being rude on the other post .. i thought i was still in fight club hahahahaa


anyway sincere guys .... hmm it depends if the woman is equally sincere ... i really do believe on being a mirror .... a gurl show me kindness and sincerity ill give her my all .... but cross me and be unfaithfull ...then bye....

to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..

sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..

we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.

just look beside you..may be he is just around and waiting for the right time

Ahhhh that's a nice thought.

keihl wrote:to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..

sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..

we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.

damn im such a lucky man !!!!

mAJOR pAIN wrote:

keihl wrote:to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..

sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..

we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.

damn im such a lucky man !!!!

yes, u r so lucky and she's not. har har har

panaghoy wrote:

mAJOR pAIN wrote:

keihl wrote:to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..

sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..

we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.

damn im such a lucky man !!!!

yes, u r so lucky and she's not. har har har

oops.. i hope this isn't a start of another "word-war"... peace everyone..

i am too, is very lucky..

panaghoy wrote:

mAJOR pAIN wrote:

keihl wrote:to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..

sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..

we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.

damn im such a lucky man !!!!

yes, u r so lucky and she's not. har har har

i really do see whats panaghoys problem is anyway ... girl i hope you find happiness ........ SOOOOON !!! cause you are getting a bit annoying hahahahaahahahaha joke peace

keihl wrote:

panaghoy wrote:

mAJOR pAIN wrote:

keihl wrote:to answer the forum question, i believe we dont' really have to look for them.. we cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..

sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..

we can only measure sincerity in the people we already know, or who we are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.

damn im such a lucky man !!!!

yes, u r so lucky and she's not. har har har

oops.. i hope this isn't a start of another "word-war"... peace everyone..

i am too, is very lucky..

there was this girl when i was in year 3 of my primary education/elementary where i really hate her from the moment that i saw her!!!, and i used to always play practical jokes on her, called her names, and she did the same to me vice versa,... who started the hate thing i dont know,.. its like we where destined to fight relentlessly!!! that lasted 3 years until we both went to highschool i was here in dubai and she was in manila, we had our skirmishes on my occaisional visit home,.. then we just kinda forget about each other's hate from the time we entered college untill last shopping festilval (eventually she came to dubai to work) i saw her at the creek buying some stuff .... its like magic! all those hate turned into something else.... !!! Now we're engaged to be married on june 2007 ....

no girl its not luck .... its meant to be ... but i still dont know why we hated each other back then ..hahahaha

Youve changed me...
your my reason, my life, my love......
I thank you for being you and
for the smile that you had given me ..
..... thanks because with you ....
i can be me.......

do you have now an idea of finding a sincere guy in dubai? like what kheil wrote she believe you dont' really have to look for them.. you cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..

sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..

you can only measure sincerity in the people you already know, or who you are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.

i hope this will clear up things with you my baby

SKY wrote:do you have now an idea of finding a sincere guy in dubai? like what kheil wrote she believe you dont' really have to look for them.. you cannot just go into a certain place and see if there is any sincere guy..

sincerity in a person cannot be determined by how a person looks in the first place..

you can only measure sincerity in the people you already know, or who you are getting to know.. so sincere guys don't stay in one particular place.

i hope this will clear up things with you my baby

hmmm.. so is that a mesage for panaghoy, SKY??? can she find the sincere guy in YOU??? Gud Luck..
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mAJOR pAIN wrote:Youve changed me...
your my reason, my life, my love......
I thank you for being you and
for the smile that you had given me ..
..... thanks because with you ....
i can be me.......

i am equally thankful for having u in my life.. and thank you for treating me like no one has ever treated me before, feels great to be the Queen of Pain

Sometimes I wanna give up
I wanna give in,
I wanna quit the fight
And then I see you baby
And everything's alright,
everything's alright

name that tune, anyone???

Hi, I'm new to the forum, but just read this thread and thought I should reply... not that I am especially a UAE veteran or anything, but I have been here for nearly 3 years now, and I have had my fair share of insincerity come my way (and some downright crazy people too!!)

I have noticed something - it has become almost a ritual in the Dubai singles/dating scene to have a conversation on the first date with someone along the lines of 'everyone here is so ingenuine and materialistic and superficial'... yet after just a week or so of seeing that person, you realise they are really no different to the people they criticise!

Oh well...

Ah so so so so true my friend. You meet someone and they seem to be OK, then a few weeks later they show their true colours and just end up being seperficial like everyone else.

Funny problem my girlfriends keep running into, is why are their so many young guys in Dubai, they meet someone they like then a few days later they find out the guy is like 22,23 it's happened so many times, where are all the guys in the late 20's, early 30's.

I told them not to complain about younger guys, but they always worry about the immaturity factor.

I always say, guys never grow up, the toys just get bigger and more expensive.

dude,

cmd28bear post was gender-neutral as far as i can see, how come you turned it to all-guys-suck thing ..

That's Dudette!

And all guys aren't bad, I was mearly pointing out that this is a bit problem in Dubai.

It's true about the maturity of guys, take in from someone who has always dated younger men, you always have to take off another 2 or so years to compensate for the immaturity factor. That's why I'm now with someone older than me as the young guys just take the p***.

They just don't seem to grow up these days, I'm all fall people having fun, but there's a fine line between being fun and being childish, the latter is just so not attractive.

I go down on girls, does that count for something?

I disagree with you ..

I dont think maturity has anything to do with age ..

I have met 13 year old girls who are more mature than 30 year old women.

And same thing with guys ..

Its a personality thing, we should take the time to know the person before passing judgement.


.. age is nothing but a number

To some extent I agree with Chocoholic...

I think Dubai has many serious demographic problems - although it is of course a predominantly male society given the nature of the economy and visiting workers, etc - this disguises the fact that there are massive gender imbalances (often more females than males) in certain age groups and nationalities I have very few male friends who I would consider to be in my age group, simply because there just are not many around. I have no problems socialising with my (much older colleagues), but I suppose it's not healthy in the long run.

there goes girls being complicated with their relationship !!!! ...i say ... find someone who you like and have fun with him .... dont complicate things ... if you do ... then your problem starts .. who cares about , age & race if you like some one ... then go by all means ... life is too short to be too picky !!! the only thing hthat is important in a relationship is that you guys ... like each other and you guys can be "normal" with each other ... with no pretentions and no reservations ... if you can say anything that you wanted to say ... vice versa ... when you guys can talk for hours without getting pissed off wioth each other .... basically if your happy with your someone. and both are equality responsible financially and emotionally .. then .. why bother being scared of him being young .... or being on another race .... WHO CARES !!!

we guys like our woman practical, simple, and fun no pretentions .. no BS and no god damn scenes !!! oh yeah ... those who cook good too

Pumpkin Escobar wrote:I go down on girls, does that count for something?

hahahahhaa

mAJOR pAIN wrote:there goes girls being complicated with their relationship !!!! ...i say ... find someone who you like and have fun with him .... dont complicate things ... if you do ... then your problem starts .. who cares about , age & race if you like some one ... then go by all means ... life is too short to be too picky !!! the only thing hthat is important in a relationship is that you guys ... like each other and you guys can be "normal" with each other ... with no pretentions and no reservations ... if you can say anything that you wanted to say ... vice versa ... when you guys can talk for hours without getting pissed off wioth each other .... basically if your happy with your someone. and both are equality responsible financially and emotionally .. then .. why bother being scared of him being young .... or being on another race .... WHO CARES !!!

we guys like our woman practical, simple, and fun no pretentions .. no BS and no god damn scenes !!! oh yeah ... those who cook good too

GO DJ!! CUZ THAT'S MY DJ!!!!!

panaghoy wrote:so Bobbie, what do u think?? do men doesnt want to fall in love or afraid to fall in love? please enlighten us...

hmmm...interesting question. lemme answer it.... men aren't really scared at all, most of them just don't have the balls to commit:!: