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good points both nick and kanelli...

a nice guy doesnt have to be a push over...but a bad boy isnt neccesarily disrespectful towards women in general...

sometimes when one is self confident and not actively looking for "the one" and has a full social life /things to keep him occupied...and is emotionally unavailable/complicated/layered...some women seem to find that an attractive quality...does this make him a bad person...no!...but it does make him a "difficult" catch...hence perhaps the term bad boy...its elementary psychology at work...thus i mentioned earlier that perhaps this is the emerging mating ritual...some women enjoy a challenge or someone who can tickle thier imagination...thus perhaps also the reference to "bad boys" /rat pack...i guess for some the white picket fence and dog doesnt hold the same charm that it used to...

constantine said:

...sometimes when one is self confident and not actively looking for "the one" and has a full social life /things to keep him occupied...and is emotionally unavailable/complicated/layered...some women seem to find that an attractive quality...

So true! A man who is inquisitive, independent-thinking and self-assured definitely makes for attractive qualities.

btw, I like how you used the word "layered"

constantine wrote:good points both nick and kanelli...

a nice guy doesnt have to be a push over...but a bad boy isnt neccesarily disrespectful towards women in general...

sometimes when one is self confident and not actively looking for "the one" and has a full social life /things to keep him occupied...and is emotionally unavailable/complicated/layered...some women seem to find that an attractive quality...does this make him a bad person...no!...but it does make him a "difficult" catch...hence perhaps the term bad boy...its elementary psychology at work...thus i mentioned earlier that perhaps this is the emerging mating ritual...some women enjoy a challenge or someone who can tickle thier imagination...thus perhaps also the reference to "bad boys" /rat pack...i guess for some the white picket fence and dog doesnt hold the same charm that it used to...

Good post mate. Just wanted to clarify things in my post so that like I said, clueless people, don't start going around disrespecting chicks thinking this'll make them playas and attractive to women...

who is the ultimately respectfull man?
the one who says sorry for being too pushy in bed

sorry, couldnt help it

p.s: respect for women belongs to the category of things u either have it in u or u can only learn to fake but will never be genuine.

raidah wrote:who is the ultimately respectfull man?
the one who says sorry for being too pushy in bed

that is a welcome paradox and no complaints lodged against that i am sure...lol...

well it depends on the type of women.... some who look for one time temporary relationship and some who wants to settle down with one man... lemme tell u from my experience .......those naughty girls want bad boys for hot phone talk and heated pleasure in bed and they are better ones in bed..........but i always seemed to go back to the one dreamman gal....cos she was my spiritual magnet