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Until the book is finished or the annoying women leaves you alone! hahahahahaha

yorky, you read books???! wow

now for a real reply...

Mint Tulip wrote:When you're in your "quiet time" phase, what bugs you the most? That someone tries to pull you out of that phase? How long does this phase usually last?

What bugs me the most? Hrmm well, interruptions being the obvious one.

For me it's kind of like meditation, mentally I try to file the days events in my brain, ponder human interactions, think about life, the universe and everything. That kind of thing.

If someone tries to pull me out of this phase I get quite cranky, not their fault, but I need the mental quiet time to digest.

How long does it last? No longer than an hour, then the extroversion kicks in and I need to be around people again.

Living on my own now has made me a bit more used to not being around people, and given me more time to think, so I'm a lot calmer and less erratic.

constantine wrote:moody men = i need thinking time = you are crowding me up = that book that i've been meaning to read for a decade-this is the right millenium to do so = i think i ate something bad last night = maybe i am just having a blank moment = i think that episode of DR. WHO was perticularly troublesome = can we not talk about how do i see us in 5 years = my mouth hurts from talking about it yesterday = i haven't had my first coffee-this is what i look like-my friends beat me at football /playstation/tennis/x box last night/ i followed your directions/ had to wake up early to go see that damn bird show on my only day off....dare i say we are multiple choiced too

best reply. ever.

bear wrote:

rvp_legend wrote:

noni wrote:What is with the moody men??!!!? Typically women usually get more moody, irritated, cranky ...etc...but now I am seeing more and more guys just being quite pissy too. I, myself don't really have mood swings at all like other women. I mean everyone, regardless of gender is entitled to a bad day. But whats up with this moodyness in men? Men....shed some light for me and any women seein this lately?

You hang with Men who wear pink and then you want to know why their moody?

Stop hanging around the lifters and all will be different

Right on dude...



btw noni... burn

noni burn???!!!

thats mean!!!!!

See I am all about the guy having his own independent time and the same with me. Never in my life would I ask "where do you see us in 5 years" or be nagging..... I am just not that type of girl. But when a guy is in that kind of mood it would just be nice if they could express that..and just be like "this has nothing to do with you, I just need my man time" and khalas. ...because I have no interest in talking to them either when they are in that mood.

noni wrote:"this has nothing to do with you, I just need my man time"

Yes, I call I-time.

noni wrote:See I am all about the guy having his own independent time and the same with me. Never in my life would I ask "where do you see us in 5 years" or be nagging..... I am just not that type of girl. But when a guy is in that kind of mood it would just be nice if they could express that..and just be like "this has nothing to do with you, I just need my man time" and khalas. ...because I have no interest in talking to them either when they are in that mood.

noni
no disrespect...but every girl thinks she isnt that kinda girl...she is cool/calm/collected...but inside she is just dying to know/"let him express it out"...i mean come on...there is nothing to express here...its called "quiet time"...not explain why i went quiet in the first place...every girl thinks she is beyond nagging...but it aint true...when you care for a person...you nag/bother to find out/prod/question...the true nature of really being "cool" about it...is keeping your curiosity at bay and really trying to do your own thing...and hey trust me... if i start with a line like"this has nothing to do with you"...it will have everything to do with you/your dog/your clothes/the last time we went out/why arnt we going doing something/why is it so structured...it has EVERYTHING to do with you...because we care too...its what makes us different...i am just trying to give you an insight on how "we" work...shall i end with this has nothing to do with you?

I think this gets back to the whole "what do guys talk about?" thing.

Oddly enough, we usually don't talk about girls.

^ian^ wrote:I think this gets back to the whole "what do guys talk about?" thing.

Oddly enough, we usually don't talk about girls.

hmmm...hmmmm....hmmmm....

constantine wrote:

noni wrote:See I am all about the guy having his own independent time and the same with me. Never in my life would I ask "where do you see us in 5 years" or be nagging..... I am just not that type of girl. But when a guy is in that kind of mood it would just be nice if they could express that..and just be like "this has nothing to do with you, I just need my man time" and khalas. ...because I have no interest in talking to them either when they are in that mood.

noni
no disrespect...but every girl thinks she isnt that kinda girl...she is cool/calm/collected...but inside she is just dying to know/"let him express it out"...i mean come on...there is nothing to express here...its called "quiet time"...not explain why i went quiet in the first place...every girl thinks she is beyond nagging...but it aint true...when you care for a person...you nag/bother to find out/prod/question...the true nature of really being "cool" about it...is keeping your curiosity at bay and really trying to do your own thing...and hey trust me... if i start with a line like"this has nothing to do with you"...it will have everything to do with you/your dog/your clothes/the last time we went out/why arnt we going doing something/why is it so structured...it has EVERYTHING to do with you...because we care too...its what makes us different...i am just trying to give you an insight on how "we" work...shall i end with this has nothing to do with you?

No need to apologize const...not offended at all...Okay maybe I would like to KNOW inside what is up with the guy..but I really would not push the issue and I can deal with not knowing....
if he says something like "i need my man time" Because if they need their time I would know its nothing about the relationship. But if you leave us wondering whats up and saying "nothing," it is human nature to assume that something is wrong. Just be straightfoward (as long as you really do need your man time and not going out with other girls hahaha) and I can deal with it. If the guy is like "i need my man time" and its legit ..I will def not prod or nag..it would be a sign for me to back off.

And just to clarify...answer this for me const, if there is a problem in the relationship would a guy ever be like "i need time?" I doubt this.....

alright noni
all i can say is...if he is taking too much time out...then it aint really time alone...its just an excuse...you are a woman...you intuition is far more pronounced than most of us lot...or him for that matter...what does your intuation say...also all the classic tell tale signs...if he adores you or its a committed relationship...and if he doing this time alone to do legit things as you say....halleluyah...he will come back wanting you even more...and probabaly you could do with a breather yourself...its never good to crowd/smuther yourself...as you will end up accelerating what could actually be a good slow burner sustainable relationship...where as if he "rationing" his time with you...its a classic sign of not being totally sure or committed to you...and i am not emplying disloyalty and cheating at all...it might just mean either of you aint sure about things...or its too early...you know its a right of passage...these 3 month/6 months/ a year into a relationship...once you've hit the 3 year mark...you'd better get a bling bling or its time to...

constantine wrote:alright noni
all i can say is...if he is taking too much time out...then it aint really time alone...its just an excuse...you are a woman...you intuition is far more pronounced than most of us lot...or him for that matter...what does your intuation say...also all the classic tell tale signs...if he adores you or its a committed relationship...and if he doing this time alone to do legit things as you say....halleluyah...he will come back wanting you even more...and probabaly you could do with a breather yourself...its never good to crowd/smuther yourself...as you will end up accelerating what could actually be a good slow burner sustainable relationship...where as if he "rationing" his time with you...its a classic sign of not being totally sure or committed to you...and i am not emplying disloyalty and cheating at all...it might just mean either of you aint sure about things...or its too early...you know its a right of passage...these 3 month/6 months/ a year into a relationship...once you've hit the 3 year mark...you'd better get a bling bling or its time to...

hahahahaha! good advice....relationship guru? or man guru?

noni wrote:And just to clarify...answer this for me const, if there is a problem in the relationship would a guy ever be like "i need time?" I doubt this.....

Obviously I'm not Const. but I'll answer on a guys perspective, that yes, a guy can be like "I need time" to sort things out in their head.

Why on Earth not?

^ian^ wrote:

noni wrote:And just to clarify...answer this for me const, if there is a problem in the relationship would a guy ever be like "i need time?" I doubt this.....

Obviously I'm not Const. but I'll answer on a guys perspective, that yes, a guy can be like "I need time" to sort things out in their head.

Why on Earth not?

so are we to decipher if its "i need my man time" or "i need to think about this relationship time?"

noni wrote:

^ian^ wrote:

noni wrote:And just to clarify...answer this for me const, if there is a problem in the relationship would a guy ever be like "i need time?" I doubt this.....

Obviously I'm not Const. but I'll answer on a guys perspective, that yes, a guy can be like "I need time" to sort things out in their head.

Why on Earth not?

so are we to decipher if its "i need my man time" or "i need to think about this relationship time?"

No. It could mean I need to think about my new car stereo.

noni wrote:hahahahaha! good advice....relationship guru? or man guru?

i'll take the first choice please...hahahahaha...not saying i am homophobic or anything..."women only" for me please...

btw man guru sounds like a p<3n star name...

"hi i am man guru...i will solve all your tantric problems...please make a donation to your nearest temple of lurve""


noni to answer your question "use the force" in english it means use your intuition...

constantine wrote:

noni wrote:hahahahaha! good advice....relationship guru? or man guru?

i'll take the first choice please...hahahahaha...not saying i am homophobic or anything..."women only" for me please...

btw man guru sounds like a p<3n star name...

"hi i am man guru...i will solve all your tantric problems...please make a donation to your nearest temple of lurve""


noni to answer your question "use the force" in english it means use your intuition...

temple of lurve



me off now....thanks for all your imput tantric lova and ian

Men got moody if they were not able to “score” with their woman (gf, wife, part time lover etc) or anyone who’s their subject of desires & affections. This is where their PMS starts. Men, please don’t deny this.

Ladies, if they're moody, dont nag give them time to cool down but of course you've to watch where they are going.

asc_26 wrote:Men got moody if they were not able to “score” with their woman (gf, wife, part time lover etc) or anyone who’s their subject of desires & affections. This is where their PMS starts. Men, please don’t deny this.

Hrmmm I will deny this. Sometimes one can get moody, but not all the time.

Ladies, if they're moody, dont nag give them time to cool down but of course you've to watch where they are going.

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asc_26 wrote:Men got moody if they were not able to “score” with their woman (gf, wife, part time lover etc) or anyone who’s their subject of desires & affections. This is where their PMS starts. Men, please don’t deny this.

Ladies, if they're moody, dont nag give them time to cool down but of course you've to watch where they are going.

ASC
that could potentially solve 90% of the problem...and perhaps divert world war 3...if only women understood us...sigh...

asc_26 wrote:Ladies, if they're moody, dont nag give them time to cool down but of course you've to watch where they are going.

Ian ...perhaps down south to do a hoe down....lol...dang i think i might have effectively taken this thread down south...yeeehah!!

^ian^ wrote:

asc_26 wrote:Men got moody if they were not able to “score” with their woman (gf, wife, part time lover etc) or anyone who’s their subject of desires & affections. This is where their PMS starts. Men, please don’t deny this.

Hrmmm I will deny this. Sometimes one can get moody, but not all the time.

Ladies, if they're moody, dont nag give them time to cool down but of course you've to watch where they are going.

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ehhhhh...be honest Ian. you are a mature man right?

constantine wrote:

asc_26 wrote:Men got moody if they were not able to “score” with their woman (gf, wife, part time lover etc) or anyone who’s their subject of desires & affections. This is where their PMS starts. Men, please don’t deny this.

Ladies, if they're moody, dont nag give them time to cool down but of course you've to watch where they are going.

ASC
that could potentially solve 90% of the problem...and perhaps divert world war 3...if only women understood us...sigh...

so what's the 10%?

asc_26 wrote:

^ian^ wrote:

asc_26 wrote:Men got moody if they were not able to “score” with their woman (gf, wife, part time lover etc) or anyone who’s their subject of desires & affections. This is where their PMS starts. Men, please don’t deny this.

Hrmmm I will deny this. Sometimes one can get moody, but not all the time.

Ladies, if they're moody, dont nag give them time to cool down but of course you've to watch where they are going.

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ehhhhh...be honest Ian. you are a mature man right?

I don't chuck a spaz if I'm not getting se.x. That's ridiculous.

ehhhhh...be honest Ian. you are a mature man right?[/quote]

I don't chuck a spaz if I'm not getting se.x. That's ridiculous.[/quote]

But you do! not all the time though. "score" is not perfectly equal to "Se.X" U know.

^ian^ wrote:I don't chuck a spaz if I'm not getting se.x. That's ridiculous.

ASC you answered your own question there...

IAN is the rest 10%...i am deciding which majority/minority is more beneficial...

constantine wrote:

^ian^ wrote:I don't chuck a spaz if I'm not getting se.x. That's ridiculous.

ASC you answered your own question there...

IAN is the rest 10%...i am deciding which majority/minority is more beneficial...

LOL. Call me a 10%'r.

Which 10% is that, Ian?

The temperamental 10% with a broken remote control or the other 10% that ran out of beer?

Or both, thus raising twice the ruckus!

Seriously speaking, i find most men moody and very difficult to comprehend. It only shows they're chauvinist P..S, gosh..worst they are more fussy than women.

Im not a manhater but understanding men is like taking a road to nowhere. I still want to take that road though. Noni, good post.