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^ian^ wrote:Especially when the batteries in the lightsaber take longer and longer to recharge between uses ~

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Bleakus wrote:zZzZzZzZ.......

I second that..

MaaaD wrote:Okay so lets hear form you all. Why are the girls in Dubai so easy ? Is it lack of quality guys? Is it the transient nature of the town making "casual" fun the order of the day ? Or is it shallow girls who are in pursuit of material things and easy to impress that way ?

And a question for the girls/wives around here does it make you uncomfortable knowing how easy the girls are around here ?

I have a guestion. In your opinion, where the girls are not easy.
In all the places I have been, there are always many girls, who can be identified as "easy".

AnnaSvensson wrote:

MaaaD wrote:Okay so lets hear form you all. Why are the girls in Dubai so easy ? Is it lack of quality guys? Is it the transient nature of the town making "casual" fun the order of the day ? Or is it shallow girls who are in pursuit of material things and easy to impress that way ?

And a question for the girls/wives around here does it make you uncomfortable knowing how easy the girls are around here ?

I have a guestion. In your opinion, where the girls are not easy.
In all the places I have been, there are always many girls, who can be identified as "easy".

HOOKERS?
LOL

MaaD stop going after prostitutes , unless you like collecting different STDs

nismo wrote:

AnnaSvensson wrote:

MaaaD wrote:Okay so lets hear form you all. Why are the girls in Dubai so easy ? Is it lack of quality guys? Is it the transient nature of the town making "casual" fun the order of the day ? Or is it shallow girls who are in pursuit of material things and easy to impress that way ?

And a question for the girls/wives around here does it make you uncomfortable knowing how easy the girls are around here ?

I have a guestion. In your opinion, where the girls are not easy.
In all the places I have been, there are always many girls, who can be identified as "easy".

HOOKERS?
LOL

MaaD stop going after prostitutes , unless you like collecting different STDs

???????
Hookers?????

AnnaSvensson wrote:

nismo wrote:

AnnaSvensson wrote:

MaaaD wrote:Okay so lets hear form you all. Why are the girls in Dubai so easy ? Is it lack of quality guys? Is it the transient nature of the town making "casual" fun the order of the day ? Or is it shallow girls who are in pursuit of material things and easy to impress that way ?

And a question for the girls/wives around here does it make you uncomfortable knowing how easy the girls are around here ?

I have a guestion. In your opinion, where the girls are not easy.
In all the places I have been, there are always many girls, who can be identified as "easy".

HOOKERS?
LOL

MaaD stop going after prostitutes , unless you like collecting different STDs

???????
Hookers?????

I think there's an Echo in the Room.. Can you hear it?

Interesting that question like this always aim at the girls. Guys can be just as easy, if not more so in a place like this.

Men out number women here, so we can afford to be picky, so I'd say it' actually the men who're more like sl*ts, getting whatever they can take

kanelli wrote:First date - A girl asks a guy to go to bed with her and he says yes. That means he is easy. First date - A guy asks a girl to go to bed with him and she says yes. That means she is easy.

There lies the double standard mentality - if a guy says yes, that means he's 'lucky', if a girl says yes, that means she's slutty. Sad really.

lovely world we are living in aint it?

MaaaD wrote:Okay so lets hear form you all. Why are the girls in Dubai so easy ? Is it lack of quality guys? Is it the transient nature of the town making "casual" fun the order of the day ? Or is it shallow girls who are in pursuit of material things and easy to impress that way ?

And a question for the girls/wives around here does it make you uncomfortable knowing how easy the girls are around here ?

I think that many girls in Dubai are easy because of the reasons that you stated. But I also believe that in this place were prostitution is so normal, there are two types of prostitutes: 1. the ones that stand on street corners and 2. the ones that might think that they're not like the street prostitutes but essentially they do the same; go with any guy in order to obtain some material advantage. Many of these "easy" girls might in fact be the among this latter group.

I'm not threatened by the fact that so many of these girls exist, on the contrary.

I'm not easy!

Those are women who have no respect for themselves, I respect myself & I'm not a piece of cake!

This typa womens are definitly "a problem" for other womens who are in a relationship....

^^ the dream continues

EDIT: I just changed the topic because i realized my wording was wrong.

the new topic is why is it easy to get girls. Pretty please dont take this thread personally and stick to analyzing the situation.

Thanks to PrettyPenny, noni, and Mint Tulip for doing just that.

MaaaD wrote:EDIT: I just changed the topic because i realized my wording was wrong.

the new topic is why is it easy to get girls. Pretty please dont take this thread personally and stick to analyzing the situation.

Thanks to PrettyPenny, noni, and Mint Tulip for doing just that.

When there is demand, there is always supply......

MaaaD wrote:EDIT: I just changed the topic because i realized my wording was wrong.

the new topic is why is it easy to get girls. Pretty please dont take this thread personally and stick to analyzing the situation.

Thanks to PrettyPenny, noni, and Mint Tulip for doing just that.

i dont think anybody should take anything personnaly dude

AnnaSvensson wrote:When there is demand, there is always supply......

interesting, but as scarlet mentioned the demand is WAY over the supply so that argument doesnt explain anything.

Bleakus wrote:^^ the dream continues

hmmm, grabs some of those dreamy bubbles & writes "Yo Dream End."

Sara1983 wrote:

Bleakus wrote:^^ the dream continues

hmmm, grabs some of those dreamy bubbles & writes "Yo Dream End."

why dont you get your dagger and stab my heart!!

Sara1983 wrote:

Bleakus wrote:^^ the dream continues

hmmm, grabs some of those dreamy bubbles & writes "Yo Dream End."

the plane was shot down, crashed and burned

valkyrie wrote:

Sara1983 wrote:

Bleakus wrote:^^ the dream continues

hmmm, grabs some of those dreamy bubbles & writes "Yo Dream End."

the plane was shot down, crashed and burned

hows it goin

Off topic - clearly.

noni wrote: I don't mean to be blunt but I have this not so good looking guy friend with a lot of money and a nice car and he seems to score the hottest chics...and trust me it is not his personality. Guys are up for getting laid 24/7 and I guess in Dubai it is just easier to stumble on those....
My advice to the ladies...raise your standards for yourself and don't give in to those sleezebags.

It's not even just rich guys! My ex-bf is definitely not a good looking jerk, who can't even afford to bring me to a fancy restaurant and who drives a sleazy car yet he was able to cheat on me 3 times ( 3 different women)! what's worst those women are on the same company where I work! I had been with gorgeous guys and rich guys but they all cheated on me... so I thought I'd get somebody opposite, then maybe he wouldn't have the guts to cheat. I was wrong. I guess those 3 women thought the same too.

MaaaD wrote:Okay so lets hear form you all. Why are the girls in Dubai so easy ? Is it lack of quality guys? Is it the transient nature of the town making "casual" fun the order of the day ? Or is it shallow girls who are in pursuit of material things and easy to impress that way ?

And a question for the girls/wives around here does it make you uncomfortable knowing how easy the girls are around here ?

I think no matter where you go, there will always be some who are not as difficult as others.

Dubai, unfortunately seems to attract a lot of women after material things, but not all women here are like that.
As someone else mentioned (apologies cannot remember) there are a lot of weak men and women here who get exploited.

Also, the sheer amount of disposable income means men will always attract these women... i bet if Taxes were introduced, men had to spend more wisely things would change

Go anywhere in the world. Where there is cash, there will be women.

Same applies for women. In Turkey for example, rich European women (not necessarily attractive) often go and marry much younger Turkish men....

Money talks.

tsampa wrote:

noni wrote: I don't mean to be blunt but I have this not so good looking guy friend with a lot of money and a nice car and he seems to score the hottest chics...and trust me it is not his personality. Guys are up for getting laid 24/7 and I guess in Dubai it is just easier to stumble on those....
My advice to the ladies...raise your standards for yourself and don't give in to those sleezebags.

It's not even just rich guys! My ex-bf is definitely not a good looking jerk, who can't even afford to bring me to a fancy restaurant and who drives a sleazy car yet he was able to cheat on me 3 times ( 3 different women)! what's worst those women are on the same company where I work! I had been with gorgeous guys and rich guys but they all cheated on me... so I thought I'd get somebody opposite, then maybe he wouldn't have the guts to cheat. I was wrong. I guess those 3 women thought the same too.

EEEeeeek I am sorry for the rough times! Cheating is so hurtful! Makes trusting any men such a battle....Stay strong girl...

tsampa wrote:

noni wrote: I don't mean to be blunt but I have this not so good looking guy friend with a lot of money and a nice car and he seems to score the hottest chics...and trust me it is not his personality. Guys are up for getting laid 24/7 and I guess in Dubai it is just easier to stumble on those....
My advice to the ladies...raise your standards for yourself and don't give in to those sleezebags.

It's not even just rich guys! My ex-bf is definitely not a good looking jerk, who can't even afford to bring me to a fancy restaurant and who drives a sleazy car yet he was able to cheat on me 3 times ( 3 different women)! what's worst those women are on the same company where I work! I had been with gorgeous guys and rich guys but they all cheated on me... so I thought I'd get somebody opposite, then maybe he wouldn't have the guts to cheat. I was wrong. I guess those 3 women thought the same too.

I think a girl could just as easy cheat on a man though...I know lots.. You just need to not even get urself into a situation where it could happen. I think when a guy/girl grows a bit older he/she realizes there r more important things in life than shagging around, and then will become more faithfull. Still to trust someone for a 100% is nearly impossible. But don't let it get to u 2 much if you have been cheated on. It makes the next relationship very fragile if u keep suspecting and calling and fighting over nothing.

rvp_legend wrote:
I think no matter where you go, there will always be some who are not as difficult as others.

Dubai, unfortunately seems to attract a lot of women after material things, but not all women here are like that.
As someone else mentioned (apologies cannot remember) there are a lot of weak men and women here who get exploited.

Also, the sheer amount of disposable income means men will always attract these women... i bet if Taxes were introduced, men had to spend more wisely things would change

Go anywhere in the world. Where there is cash, there will be women.

Same applies for women. In Turkey for example, rich European women (not necessarily attractive) often go and marry much younger Turkish men....

Money talks.

Money does talk and if a guy has it..he will MAKE SURE to flash it and many money hungry girls will go for it......wasn't that was easy?
So yeah money does talk but only for one night...beyond that you are a lonely lonely man

Must be noted that this by no means applies to all men and all women

noni wrote:Money does talk and if a guy has it..he will MAKE SURE to flash it and many money hungry girls will go for it......wasn't that was easy?
So yeah money does talk but only for one night...beyond that you are a lonely lonely man
Must be noted that this by no means applies to all men and all women

I personally think women are more prone to flash the cash than men and their spending habits will prove that, Men stick to fewer goods from a certain market - such as cars.
Either way it can attract the the sort of people who are after a spoil.
Money does talk, and can do for longer than one night - really depends if they can afford it or not.

Every major city is the same.

Well, I'm a single girl in Dubai and I can honestly say that money just does not do it for me. The champagne and flash cars... well, it doesn't even scratch the surface. Some girls like it, and there's plenty of it here in Dubai...

I think the term 'easy' can be extremely unfair. At the end of the day, it's generally a preconception. If a guy sleeps with a girl on the first date, why do you automatically think she does that on every date? Maybe she just genuinely likes you and thinks it will lead somewhere. She may be a bit of a sl*t but then again she may be a genuine and a nice girl. Is it not worth finding out before you cast her off?

Personally, I've never got my head round a guys mentality. Perhaps they are worried that the girl who sleeps with them on the first date is a bit of a slapper and therefore the guy won't continue seeing her because they are worried that their egos will be dented when she doesn't answer your calls... My advice, don't assume.

S.e.x is, generally speaking, a much more emotional experience for a girl. I have had a conversation with a couple of guys this week about how they think girls are easy. These guys are sleeping with a girl (no the same one). They tell her they don't want a relationship. The girl accepts it. Then after, they sleep with her again. WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!?!!?!? You can't tell a girl you're not interested in taking things further and then sleep with her again!!! Even if she's asking you to!! Have some self control man!! Most girls will be thinkig that they are the ones to change you. They think you'll soon realise what a wonderful person she is and you'll want to date her. They'll think 'well he slept with me, so it must mean something'.

Men should think about their actions. They should stop being so selfish. If a girl is, as you put it, 'easy', then why would you take advantage of that? It's almost an emotional state... probably the result of being treated like crap in a previous relationship. Aside from the hookers, I'd say most girls are, even if they won't admit it, desperately hanging onto that bit of hope that the guy will genuinely like them and want to date them and pursue a relationship.

End of rant!

To blame men for the perception of some women does not answer why the perception exists. I think that we have to admit that there are plenty of slutty women in Dubai and it tarnishes the image of the city and of soceity to some point - and some people just wonder - what's up with that? (That was the question of this post in the first place). There are plenty of slutty men too, of course, it goes both ways, but in the end sluttiness is not a virture, it's counterproductive - just because it exists does not make it OK.

I think that women are more cunning than what is believed by many including women themselves... Woman know what they're getting into and what they want when they meet a certain type of guy. A woman that expects an "instant" relationship for whatever reason, and then complains when/if she's judged by her behavior, should look into herself and the reasons behind her actions.

We don't want to be perceived as less intelligent and less capable than men but at the same time many women use the argument that they're men's unwitting victims when it comes to relationships; That they just followed their heart and did not use their intellect, they act out of their ever fragile feelings. Nope, that argument doesn't hold anymore.