I think this is a concept that is common to Judaism, Christianity and Islam. All talk about winning God's love and also about avoiding his displeasure.
The concept in Islam is 'Taqwa' which can be loosely translated as 'fear of God's displeasure' but more accurately as 'God conciousness' - living one's life concious of God's commandments and positively, wanting to act to please him and actively avoid 'sins' - where sins are actions which would displease God, because they harm oneself or others.
Wiki defines it as:
Taqwa, as holistically elucidated by Quranic verses, is defined as the state of "being conscious of Allah", and willfully avoiding actions that lead the degeneration of this consciousness; while consciously undertaking steps and actions that will strenghten it."
This 'fear of God' has some negative connotations. But I think it is analogous to the fear of the law (state law) when it comes to crimes against others, say. Some people will not want to rob others because they realise it does harm and is bad. Others will be inclined to rob, but will be restrained for fear of being caught and punished by the police.
I therefore don't view it as negative.
What is interesting is that the concept of the Fear of God also appears in the Bible. Indeed, Jesus taught this according to the Gospel of Luke:
12:5 But I will forewarn you whom ye shall fear: Fear him, which after he hath killed hath power to cast into hell; yea, I say unto you, Fear him.
To me, Jesus is clearly talking about fearing a God that has the power to cast a sinner into hell.
Jesus appears to be saying the same thing in Matthew:
Matthew 10:28:
"And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell."
And it appears that some Christians do view these verses as talking about a healthy fear of God.
The one who has such power is God, for there is none other (i.e. the devil) who has true power over the eternal condition of man. So we have in these passages a commandment toward the healthy 'fear' of God - i.e., that same respect and awe that we are enjoined to embrace in the Sunday of the Last Judgement.
http://www.monachos.net/forum/showthrea ... y-and-soul
Cheers,
Shafique