freza wrote:your replies are jaw-dropping unfreakinbelievably disturbing...
I love you too.
freza wrote:We've established (well you've only admitted this half-way) the common sense things: Mohammad had political motivations, sure.
Not before he was a prophet, and even then some years after he was called to the prophethood.
freza wrote:Nothing wrong with marrying a rich widow which would die before he did and would leave him a fortune upping any future political aspirations.
You seem to be ignoring the facts here. She proposed to him. He gave away her fortune.
freza wrote:Common sense here. He was a political leader - some of this motivations might have more to do with politics than religion.
He became a political leader and acted like one - no question about this. The point I made early on was that prior to being told to proclaim his prophethood he eschewed the material trappings and stayed away from politics.
freza wrote:shafique wrote:Safiyyah, for example, proposed to the Prophet after she had a dream.
wow....I'm sure it's supported by the Quran or a Hadith, right?
Do you have a different source of information?
freza wrote:So if she would have dreamt of stabbing Mohammad in the heart while he slept, it would have been ok? We are also to understand that Mohammad first "had a dream" of marrying Aisha when she was practically a baby.
I'm not sure what you are objecting to - is it wrong for a woman to propose?
freza wrote:And he justified this by saying it was Allah's will. Why would God ever tell a dirty old man to think of marrying a little girl? Why? Can you find a plausible explanation? I can. God never advised him such an ugly thing.
Ok - we get you are
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freza wrote:But when a self-proclaimed prophet
Is there another sort of prophet? Has there ever been a prophet who hasn't declared himself a prophet?
freza wrote:...needs to get away with something which is despicable to many..God is convenient. Otherwise, why even come up with an explanation?
Yes - this is a problem shared by many Biblical prophets, including Moses. In the Bible he is portrayed as a murderer/manslaughterer and fugitive from justices and condoning the killing of innocent Egyptian boys by God, as well as leading his people for 40 years around the desert. His sister-in-law chastises him for marrying an Eithiopian lady. His armies commit slaughter of innocents - yet he is a true prophet according to you.
freza wrote:You also leave out the reports that Aisha's own father was not too happy about Mohammad's request for his daughter, even though he was friends with Mohammad, the best of friends from what I understand.
Really? I did mention she is a hate figure to some. There are some very unsavoury 'hadith' about her - but the question really should be what did she say about the marriage.
freza wrote:This to me indicates that this child marriage was not as acceptable back then as you want to make it out to be. Sure it happened, but it wasn't considered a wonderful thing by everyone.
You are entitled to your view and you have made it well.
freza wrote:shafique wrote:No - it goes like this 'will you marry me - the choice is yours'. The Quran is clear on this point - you can't force women into marriage. The choice is therefore to be a widow of a defeated army, or to become a wife. It is a choice.
ooohhhhhh. that's how it goes. So what would be her fate if she said: "no"? Please tell. If women had so many choices, did she have a choice not to have her family killed by Mohammad's soldiers making her a widow in the first place?
What do you think their fate would be if they said no? It would be the same fate as the other widows who weren't proposed to.
freza wrote:MOST Islamic and Quranic sources CONFIRM that Aisha was a child when Mohammad married her. Just accept it dude, your vagueness doesn't cut it in this case. You are saying that this is fine.
Yes - I have not denied she was a child when they were married. The marriage was only consumated after puberty.
freza wrote: We shouldn't think of Mohammad as a pedophile. Amazing. But it's not recommended now a days. OK, do as Mohammad, err, God tells you, not as Mohammad does. Got it. Other do as I say not as I do:
No - I think you are free to consider Muhammad, pbuh, as whatever you want. I'll just state the facts as I know them.
freza wrote:You can only have up to four wives according to the Quran but Mohammad had 11+.
Yes.
freza wrote:According to the Quran: marrying your daughter in law is a no-no. but Mohammad not only desired his adopted-son's wife, he married her. But conveniently Mohammad received this little message by way of that famous divine revelation saying that he can in fact marry his adopted son's wife, because why? because his son was adopted and not biological? why exactly?
Because he was adopted, you are right.
freza wrote:You see, Shafique, anyone with common sense would deduct that there is a serious disconnect in the ways of Mohammad.
I'm still waiting for the 'basic criteria' - so far we haven't had any but just some re-hashed accusations about who he married and why.
freza wrote: Can you see it without accusing them of being anti-Quranic or anti-Islamic? Can you understand what is so obviously lacking about Mohammad's basic human character just within this context here?
You'll have to help me understand what was lacking in his conduct as a groom and a husband.
freza wrote:You can't, you won't, why do I even bother.
I wonder why you bother as well with these old accusations- you stated that Muhammad, pbuh, failed 'basic criteria' for prophets. To date you have not given me one criterion that Muhammad, pbuh, failed that other prophets passed.
The Bible clearly states how we can judge whether a prophet is true or not. My contention is that Muhammad, pbuh, meets these criteria (re-read the title of this thread).
You have consistently deferred discussion on the point you yourself raised.
I'm not angry, I'm not disappointed and I'm not surprised. The religion he brought you call 'beautiful', you accept he had a happy relationship with Aisha but you think it despicable he married someone so young. If this is your only criterion for rejecting him, fair enough, come out and say so - but this isn't a 'basic criteria' according to the Bible.
You also seem to have a problem with women choosing to marry and become Queens of an empire. This somehow is to you a punishment or a way of a man satisfying his carnal desires. You discount the responsibilities that go with a marriage and equate it with servitude (which it was in Europe until relatively recently).
Anyway - can we now move to some criteria?
Cheers,
Shafique